Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?

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anddrewz
Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« on: October 30, 2009, 09:30 PM »

Women can be very funny atimes: Imagine I had a little misunderstanding with my wife and she won't let me touch her. Now I am in a fix, I feel like having s*x, should I force her and do it or go out and satisfy myself with another woman? Please I need your honest opinion.
finemocha (f)
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #1 on: October 30, 2009, 09:32 PM »

neither, make up with your wife.
Fhemmmy
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #2 on: October 30, 2009, 09:42 PM »

NEVER force anyone to do anything against their wish.
If you force a woman to have sex with you, it means you raped her and that can send you to jail.
Make up and be apologetic . . . the made up sex is the best, nothing compared to it.
posakosa (m)
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #3 on: October 30, 2009, 09:55 PM »

Quote from: finemocha on October 30, 2009, 09:32 PM
neither, make up with your wife.

where in the Bronx are you ?
posakosa (m)
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #4 on: October 30, 2009, 09:56 PM »

Quote from: anddrewz on October 30, 2009, 09:30 PM
Women can be very funny atimes: Imagine I had a little misunderstanding with my wife and she won't let me touch her. Now I am in a fix, I feel like having s*x, should I force her and do it or go out and satisfy myself with another woman? Please I need your honest opinion.

Apologize, buy her flowers, give her a massage, cook for her, FCUK her then go back to fighting. You have to know how to get what you want. DO NOT RAPE HER.  Lips sealed Lips sealed Lips sealed
coolier (f)
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #5 on: October 30, 2009, 10:01 PM »

Settle your differences.
MrCrackles (m)
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #6 on: October 30, 2009, 10:12 PM »

Quote from: coolier on October 30, 2009, 10:01 PM
Settle your differences.
GBAM!
blackspade (m)
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #7 on: October 30, 2009, 11:07 PM »

You fear god, but you are willing to commit adultery or rape your wife? Undecided
~Sissy~ (f)
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #8 on: October 30, 2009, 11:27 PM »

i wonder why your wife is using sex as a defense mechanism?

forcing her or committing adultery solves nothing, it makes it worse. try and find ways to make amend with her
Outstrip (f)
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #9 on: October 31, 2009, 03:42 AM »

Exactly how long have you been fighting that you are talking adultery. I think you simply want to have sex with someone else
OgidiBoy (m)
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #10 on: October 31, 2009, 03:46 AM »

Quote from: Outstrip on October 31, 2009, 03:42 AM
Exactly how long have you been fighting that you are talking adultery. I think you simply want to have sex with someone else

I think you right, so are you available Lips sealed Lips sealed

*ogidiboy runs away*  ZZzzzmmmmm
Fhemmmy
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #11 on: October 31, 2009, 03:54 AM »

Quote from: Outstrip on October 31, 2009, 03:42 AM
Exactly how long have you been fighting that you are talking adultery. I think you simply want to have sex with someone else

i dont think that is a fair conclusion, if he really wanted to bone another woman, he cld have done it without asking the question.
The guy has the certificate to do it with the wife whenever he wants and the wife decided to lock the shop . . . .haba, that aint fair.
Outstrip (f)
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #12 on: October 31, 2009, 05:14 AM »

ogidiboy I will soon turn you to agidi
Outstrip (f)
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #13 on: October 31, 2009, 05:16 AM »

Quote from: Fhemmmy on October 31, 2009, 03:54 AM
i dont think that is a fair conclusion, if he really wanted to bone another woman, he cld have done it without asking the question.
The guy has the certificate to do it with the wife whenever he wants and the wife decided to lock the shop . . . .haba, that aint fair.

A fight to me means they just had a quarrell. It does not seem to be a long period of time. So how could he already be so horny that he cannot contain himself. He is already messing with someone or talking to her and wants an excuse to go ahead and do it
OgidiBoy (m)
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #14 on: October 31, 2009, 05:17 AM »

Quote from: Outstrip on October 31, 2009, 05:14 AM
ogidiboy I will soon turn you to agidi

 Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue
Fhemmmy
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #15 on: October 31, 2009, 05:59 PM »

Quote from: Outstrip on October 31, 2009, 05:16 AM
A fight to me means they just had a quarrell. It does not seem to be a long period of time. So how could he already be so horny that he cannot contain himself. He is already messing with someone or talking to her and wants an excuse to go ahead and do it

I dont know about the Nigerian ladies.
I have noticed that babes in the western world, when they are angry and upset with their men, that is when they will wear their hottest skimpy "take me and chop me now" kinda dress or the Lingerie they will have on to go to bed, and no matter how bad the fight is, that is when the man wanna do the good thing to her.
Here is what i think, i think a woman shd never use sex as punishment for the husband, i think it is totally wrong, even if the fight was only one day, still do your duty as a wife, which includes, give him a good and hot sex, this goes for the men too, he still have to do his duty as a husband.
No matter how bad the fight was, feed your man in the kicthen and in da bedroom, and as well, the man has to feed the woman via his pocket and his heart.
Besides, whatever happens to "never go to bed angry"?
Outstrip (f)
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #16 on: October 31, 2009, 06:16 PM »

I agree with you. That is just blackmail in my opinion. Still every situation is different
Fiona0007
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #17 on: October 31, 2009, 10:19 PM »

Quote from: Fhemmmy on October 31, 2009, 05:59 PM
Here is what i think, i think a woman shd never use sex as punishment for the husband, i think it is totally wrong, even if the fight was only one day, still do your duty as a wife, which includes, give him a good and hot sex, this goes for the men too, he still have to do his duty as a husband.
No matter how bad the fight was, feed your man in the kicthen and in da bedroom, and as well, the man has to feed the woman via his pocket and his heart.
Besides, whatever happens to "never go to bed angry"?
So wife must be always ready for this whenever her husband wants it- and her feelings don't count!? Undecided
Fhemmmy
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #18 on: November 01, 2009, 06:09 AM »

Quote from: Fiona0007 on October 31, 2009, 10:19 PM
So wife must be always ready for this whenever her husband wants it- and her feelings don't count!? Undecided

the feeling counts, however, it is important for a man and a woman to be able to settle their differences as easy and fast as possible.
It is a terrible thing for a woman and man to go to bed with anger in them,  . . . . . common, how can your wife sleeps besides you and u guys go to bed with anger and strife, i think that is dangerous.
!amebo no1
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #19 on: November 01, 2009, 09:39 AM »

Why do women use this sex of a thingy to punish them men? Undecided

Common if you and your partner had a little disagreement, have SEX with him, but when the case is settled MAKE LOVE TO HIM

Insecure childish women sha Undecided
Fhemmmy
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #20 on: November 01, 2009, 11:30 PM »

Quote from: !amebo no1 on November 01, 2009, 09:39 AM
Why do women use this sex of a thingy to punish them men? Undecided

Common if you and your partner had a little disagreement, have SEX with him, but when the case is settled MAKE LOVE TO HIM

Insecure childish women sha Undecided

GBAMMmmmm
Seun (m)
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #21 on: November 02, 2009, 11:34 AM »

It's possible the case is not settled.  Anyway, the man doesn't seem so mature to me.
oyb (m)
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #22 on: November 02, 2009, 07:18 PM »

hello mr vaseline  Lips sealed Lips sealed Lips sealed
Fhemmmy
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #23 on: November 02, 2009, 07:37 PM »

Quote from: oyb on November 02, 2009, 07:18 PM
hello mr vaseline  Lips sealed Lips sealed Lips sealed

Which one be that one again oh
N101
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #24 on: November 02, 2009, 08:35 PM »

I don't think some of you get it - while a woman can withold sex for some little thing, some things are such that she doesn't only close shop to the man but her heart as well. 

I'm curious as to what it was he did.  He may think it's nothing, it may be something he's repeatedly done, it may be something he said that hurt her, but whatever it is he needs to identify and address the problem.  Running elsewhere won't help - if things are that bad, Mr Vaseline is his friend  Lips sealed

An adulterous relationship is fuel to the fire and too much drama.  Could end up banging a bunny boiler.
lannre (m)
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #25 on: November 02, 2009, 10:41 PM »

and where else should  a  couple  end  their misunderstanding,if not on bed, sooner the  style will not be valuable again  when  the  husband  have an alternative.talk to her and let  her know the danger of  her  action. sex  starve  is not the best.
muffins (f)
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #26 on: November 03, 2009, 01:18 AM »

Quote from: Seun on November 02, 2009, 11:34 AM
It's possible the case is not settled.  Anyway, the man doesn't seem so mature to me.

Please unban me seun, you're the best!!! Grin Grin
MrCrackles (m)
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #27 on: November 03, 2009, 01:18 AM »

Quote from: muffins on November 03, 2009, 01:18 AM
Please unban me seun, you're the best!!! Grin Grin
Grin
beingme (f)
Re: Should I Force My Wife Or Commit Adultery?
« #28 on: November 03, 2009, 03:16 PM »

come on man wat re u saying?

make things work btw u two and u will feel the difference. make up and not break-up please she is your wife and need that pampering
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