Why Are Women Like This?

Perhaps you could  provide us with specific details of how you do approach her. You must connect or its dead. I am a straight shooter and hope you can take this on the chin, I say it with compassion.

1)  Maybe your personality isnt as charming as you think it is. Some women can sense shallow. If you are accustomed to cash sometimes you don't take time to develop a good personality.

2) When I was younger it was all about relating, as the reality of life sets in, you realise that as a female, that when you settle down you may not be able to work in the interests of you pregnancy or family needs and you therefore need to love your future children by making sure you don't hook up with a loser even if you are in love with him.

3) Also from experience, I once dated a guy who was not there yet, (I was) and I helped him supercharge his career, get the connections and land the role in a million. I showed him how to get into property investment  etc,  Guess what? He had to get used to the new found money, influence etc,   He was a completely different guy once he had it all. Not a pleasant experience. I already knew how to handle money and power, he did not. And it was just ugly ugly ugly. So I didnt want to date for a very long time, but had a bunch of interests, volunteering etc,  a lot of fun. Arranging fun events you know.  You think you know someone? Give them cash and see the change. LOL.

4) Finally in my old age, I have learnt the hard way to only date guys who have reached their "Cash" destination.  Focus is on their destination, whether its $20K pa or $250Kpa, its what they they want to get to.

I wish you well and a wonderful 2007

@Omodada
I'm not bad looking at all. I'm a 21st century guy n I knw wht's up. The issue couldnt have been in the looks. She gave me her mobile, I call her, I txt her, yet all my gestures are not reciprocated. Then I decided to chill after a long time, So I don't knw!!Thnx all the same for ur contribution.