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sure4live (m)
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Hello everyone,
Pls I need your kind suggestions. I am in a dilemma at the moment, two people are in love with me, The one I love among them is a muslim and my parent do not know him and they won't allow me marry a muslim but the other one is the person my parents know about, he is a christain but i don't love him although he is willing to provide anything I ask from him. what do I do? Do I just continue with the one i'm in love with and let the other know that i'm quitting my relationship with him not minding the consequences it may lead to from my parents or do I continue with the one my parents know about which i don't have any love for, even though he is willing to provide anything i ask for.
thanks, awaiting your kind suggestions.
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treasbuk
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Why not stick to what will get you your parents blessings? i have come to understand that parental blessings in a marriage goes a very long way
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safex101
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If u are a christian i would advice you go for the christian guy as long as you are sure he is sincere.
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coolier (f)
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Follow your heart.
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22medinat (f)
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please go for the christian guy,as far as you know that he is sincere.religion is a very very sensitive,and also be sure that he is a xtian,not a follower
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sista-jay (f)
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Sorry o, the decision is yours, pray and follow your heart.
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iice (f)
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Are you male or female? 
Just pick one 
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izeek (m)
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@iice,
i think the problem started with the gender thing. lol
if she/he can decide which gender to pick, am sure the love thing will be resolved.
@post,
if you are not materialistic, i suggest you stick with your love.
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Bertbert
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From your profile you claimed to be a male but from what you now wrote its as if you are a female because the people you are talking are beign referred to as 'him"
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truelover (m)
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Why not Pray to God to guide you, follow your heart.
Don't be decieved by others comments about your relationship.
The major thing is: Are you happy with what you intend going for? If not, then turn it down.
Bye
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justwise (m)
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Hello everyone,
Pls I need your kind suggestions. I am in a dilemma at the moment, two people are in love with me, The one I love among them is a muslim and my parent do not know him and they won't allow me marry a muslim but the other one is the person my parents know about, he is a christain but i don't love him although he is willing to provide anything I ask from him. what do I do? Do I just continue with the one i'm in love with and let the other know that i'm quitting my relationship with him not minding the consequences it may lead to from my parents or do I continue with the one my parents know about which i don't have any love for, even though he is willing to provide anything i ask for.
thanks, awaiting your kind suggestions.
If u don't love him let him go, stop leading him on and collecting stuff from him. |
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kpolli (m)
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r your parents marrying the guy or u,
dont go n make mistakes n claim is your parents fault o,
, plus your profile states male (hope your aint gay)
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nne_mak (m)
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Fast for 10 days,
then the first one u still after the fasting is the corrcet choice
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justwise (m)
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Fast for 10 days,
then the first one u still after the fasting is the corrcet choice
Joke? |
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shayoor (f)
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you just have to pray about it
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r231 (m)
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follow your heart and pray about it
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sure4live (m)
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Its a female that has this problem, and she is searching for a way out.
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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If your prepared for the issues that would come up in future. . .cus I have seen it happen many times and it'll definitely come. . .then go ahead and marry the muslim guy. . .  |
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sure4live (m)
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thanks for your honest suggestions.
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