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chrisshado (m)
Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« on: November 03, 2009, 10:47 AM »

i was discussing with a friend and she told me that becos she refuse to have sex with her guy he broke up with her  so i want to know if relationship is all about sex
mrperfect (m)
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #1 on: November 03, 2009, 10:56 AM »

For girl and boy friends relationship yes, but for marriage I doubt.
smooooooth
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #3 on: November 03, 2009, 11:13 AM »

YES! sex is the real reason for a relationship. if there not gonna be doing it then the girl shld go hang out wiv her gf's and discuss hair, nails and fashion. while the guy shld hang out with the boys and talk football, girls and booz. then they will have the ''no sex'' kinda of relationship they crave.
Mr blazer (m)
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #4 on: November 03, 2009, 11:20 AM »

OH GOD Shocked, Dont be naive guys, relationship is not all about sex. Whao! I cant believe this Angry. IRRESPOSIBLE GUYS
kpolli (m)
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #5 on: November 03, 2009, 11:34 AM »

Quote from: Mr blazer on November 03, 2009, 11:20 AM
OH GOD Shocked, Dont be naive guys, relationship is not all about sex. Whao! I cant believe this Angry. IRRESPOSIBLE GUYS

come, guy r u a sissy?, i go report u to moderator o, na real men dey here so,
Mr blazer (m)
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #6 on: November 03, 2009, 11:37 AM »

Quote from: kpolli on November 03, 2009, 11:34 AM
come, guy r u a sissy?, i go report u to moderator o, na real men dey here so,

You called me sissy for opposing? Am sorry, I was in the wrong thread. But I got one word of advice and that is F***K  YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU![/size][size=8pt][/size]
Abbey_city (f)
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #7 on: November 03, 2009, 11:46 AM »

Quote from: chrisshado on November 03, 2009, 10:47 AM
i was discussing with a friend and she told me that becos she refuse to have sex with her guy he broke up with her  so i want to know if relationship is all about sex

Hell nooooooooooooooo!!!!! Sex is lost & nt love!!!! but unfortunately there's no Agape love anymore!!! there's only conditionally love everywia dis century  Tongue
kpolli (m)
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #8 on: November 03, 2009, 11:47 AM »

bros u dont have to go all girlish on me, i was only kidding, guy get a sense of humour
d.diamond (f)
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #9 on: November 03, 2009, 01:03 PM »

gushhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!! sex is not all about relationship and it not the main thing that keep relationship going, Wat of people who are not in relationship and do have sex?but guys are really mad abt it. Grin
beingme (f)
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #10 on: November 04, 2009, 01:13 PM »

any relationship that is based on sex will not last guy
adiona (f)
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #11 on: November 04, 2009, 01:45 PM »

i hate sex, it irritates me, i wuld only love to do dat wif ma hubby, dats wen am married, i used to date this guy, bt we parted ways in the sense dat i rejected sex frm him, i cn neva have sex wif a guy dat am nt married to, so cut dat crap dat sex lastens a relationship, love is all that matters nt sex, c'mon guys, @any relationship that is based on sex will not last guy, kudos to u, one love
THE-AMAKA (f)
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #12 on: November 04, 2009, 01:48 PM »

to answer your topic question, for some relationships it is the thing that keeps it going.
and im afriad to say it SHOULDNT be the thing that keeps the relationship going. it should be real love, not just sex.
cause after a while it can get boring, then what do you people do?
i would hate to have a relationship based on sex alone, that sucks.
sista-jay (f)
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #13 on: November 04, 2009, 01:50 PM »

From a man's point of view . . . . . . YES!!! and if he aint gettin enough of it, he goes out and get some more!!!  Sad
Macgreat (m)
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #14 on: November 04, 2009, 01:52 PM »

Yes
THE-AMAKA (f)
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #15 on: November 04, 2009, 01:53 PM »

Quote from: Macgreat on November 04, 2009, 01:52 PM
Yes
sorry to say you will never know what real love is.
and you will probably marry and divorce countless women.
thats if you ever get married anyway.
scottN (m)
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #16 on: November 04, 2009, 01:54 PM »

It's all about give and take. Men give love for sex while women give sex for love.
kpolli (m)
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #17 on: November 04, 2009, 01:56 PM »

Quote from: adiona on November 04, 2009, 01:45 PM
i hate sex, it irritates me, i wuld only love to do dat wif ma hubby, dats wen am married, i used to date this guy, bt we parted ways in the sense dat i rejected sex frm him, i cn neva have sex wif a guy dat am nt married to, so cut dat crap dat sex lastens a relationship, love is all that matters nt sex, c'mon guys, @any relationship that is based on sex will not last guy, kudos to u, one love

so from your words, how does it irritate u if u've never done it before? n goodluck in the quest of waiting until u marry,


Quote from: THE-AMAKA on November 04, 2009, 01:48 PM
to answer your topic question, for some relationships it is the thing that keeps it going.
and im afriad to say it SHOULDNT be the thing that keeps the relationship going. it should be real love, not just sex.
cause after a while it can get boring, then what do you people do?
i would hate to have a relationship based on sex alone, that sucks.


reason y it is boring is cos thats all they do, but if u restrict it to just a few times it wil last long,
netotse (m)
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #18 on: November 04, 2009, 01:59 PM »

sex and love are not enough to keep a relationship going o. . .wot happened to compatibility?
sista-jay (f)
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #19 on: November 04, 2009, 02:02 PM »

Quote from: netotse on November 04, 2009, 01:59 PM
sex and love are not enough to keep a relationship going o. . .wot happened to compatibility?

It still boils down to sexual compatibility!!!  Cheesy
netotse (m)
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #20 on: November 04, 2009, 02:06 PM »

Quote from: sista-jay on November 04, 2009, 02:02 PM
It still boils down to sexual compatibility!!!  Cheesy

its deeper than that. . . what if y'all have great sex but cant have a decent conversation?
cridbak (m)
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #21 on: November 04, 2009, 02:06 PM »

sista jay has the rite ansas
Princek12
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #22 on: November 04, 2009, 02:07 PM »

If you want to find out, do not have sex with your partner for one month and see what happens. Reality and all these mouth running are two different things.
scottN (m)
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #23 on: November 04, 2009, 02:09 PM »

Quote from: netotse on November 04, 2009, 01:59 PM
sex and love are not enough to keep a relationship going o. . .wot happened to compatibility?
believe me chum those are the only 2 things that keeps a relationship that's not blood related!
Macgreat (m)
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #24 on: November 04, 2009, 02:10 PM »

Quote from: THE-AMAKA on November 04, 2009, 01:53 PM
sorry to say you will never know what real love is.
and you will probably marry and divorce countless women.
thats if you ever get married anyway.
Don't be. . .

Maybe . . . maybe not

You never know  Wink
scottN (m)
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #25 on: November 04, 2009, 02:11 PM »

Quote from: netotse on November 04, 2009, 02:06 PM
its deeper than that. . . what if y'all have great sex but cant have a decent conversation?
Y bother conversate with someone u don't love?
sista-jay (f)
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #26 on: November 04, 2009, 02:29 PM »

Quote from: netotse on November 04, 2009, 02:06 PM
its deeper than that. . . what if y'all have great sex but cant have a decent conversation?


We all know women are more verbal than guys!! A man likes to cut the small talk and get into ACTION!!  Grin
Nengi iyalla
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #27 on: November 04, 2009, 03:30 PM »

no sex is nt the altimate n any relationship though its part of the game bt sme do it selfishly.nengi
Nengi iyalla
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #28 on: November 04, 2009, 03:33 PM »

scott i disagree wit u dat men gve love 4 sex while women gve sex 4 love,d reverse is the case
Abbey_city (f)
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #29 on: November 04, 2009, 04:29 PM »

Quote from: Princek12 on November 04, 2009, 02:07 PM
If you want to find out, do not have sex with your partner for one month and see what happens. Reality and all these mouth running are two different things.
nothing will happen if d love is real and nt fake!!!!!
d.diamond (f)
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #30 on: November 04, 2009, 04:41 PM »

love can really exit without sexual intercourse u hear abbey city
Cheesy
Duduknight (m)
Re: Is Sex The Real Thing That Keeps A Relationship Going
« #31 on: November 04, 2009, 04:45 PM »

Quote from: chrisshado on November 03, 2009, 10:47 AM
i was discussing with a friend and she told me that becos she refuse to have sex with her guy he broke up with her  so i want to know if relationship is all about sex

It depends on the relationship. If a guy and girl are in love, then sex is like glue. If there is no love, then sex is very important. A guy will break up with a girl who refuses to sleep with him if he was only after her for sex. If he loves her, lack of sex is no reason to end a relationship. Some girls also make the mistake of enticing guys with sex and then complain when the guy leaves after not getting it.
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