I Am Tired Of Gay Life

you tell me DOC

for those that show concern i'm very greatfull, and for those who are trowing abuses, i'll pray that your sons and daugthers will not fall in 2 d hands of homosexuals.

This na true prayer. Many homos were induced into the act by people older than them. It's not really their fault but that's why I commend those who make effort to change.

hmmmmmmmmm!

Anytime big mouth. . .

 :-x

There is a pervasive misunderstanding of homosexuality about, which is not surprising since they are the minority. Outright hatred and persecution, known as homophobia of heterosexism is still prevalent even in countries where homosexuality has been legalised. Homosexuality is not something anyone ever decides to take on. The idea that homosexuality is something people are lured into in all-boys schools is scurrilous nonsense. It is now taken for granted in the scientific community that people are born homosexual. Thus, homosexuality describes an attraction, an orientation, not just a practice. Homosexuality is pretty widespread in the animal world. Says American Psychology Association, "Sexual orientation is not merely a personal characteristic that can be defined in isolation. Rather, one’s sexual orientation defines the universe of persons with whom one is likely to find the satisfying and fulfilling relationships that, for many individuals, comprise an essential component of personal identity." Scientists are still trying to determine why people are born with their orientation and they believe certain factors are involved. These include genetic factors, environmental factors, prenatal hormone exposure and prenatal stress on the mother.

Religiously speaking, homosexuality is unequivocally condemned by the"holy" books. Thus while the Anglican Church and others have in the spirit of new age liberalism opened the doors to openly gay people, they are in violation of injunctions clearly stated in the Old and New Testaments.

Health wise, there are also inherent risks. The human anal canal, up through the rectum, is lined with delicate tissues which are easily ruptured when penetrated.  The chances of this happening during anal intercourse are high, opening up direct blood-to-blood infection channels. This is why the AIDS pandemic in the West decimated the gay MALE population, while having a substantially smaller impact on the straight population. In fact when the virus came to light around the early 80s, I think, it was known as THE GAY PLAGUE.

On the problems of back biting and general bad behaviour in the gay community you speak of, sorry, no one can help you. The world is like that and you will have to get used to it. Back at university, I saw intrigues. Here at the office you have such problems.

NOW, TO THE MAIN ISSUE: YOU WANT TO CHANGE, TO BE STRAIGHT!

Given that being a homosexual is not something you chose, but you were born that way, is this possible? Several psychiatrists who believe that homosexuality is a disease have tried to change people and they have ALL had one result, FAILURE! Says the American Psychology Association, "Sexual orientation has proved to be generally impervious to interventions intended to change it, which are sometimes referred to as 'reparative therapy.' No scientifically adequate research has shown that such interventions are effective or safe. Moreover, because homosexuality is a normal variant of human sexuality, national mental health organizations do not encourage individuals to try to change their sexual orientation from homosexual to heterosexual. Therefore, all major national mental health organizations have adopted policy statements cautioning the profession and the public about treatments that purport to change sexual orientation."

Does that mean there is no help for you? No. Right now, I can think of FOUR options.

1. You accept your situation and remain the way you are. Being gay does not make you less of a human being. But you don't want this, that is why you opened this thread. So that leaves you with three options really.
2. Sex change. Since you are a man who feels attracted to men, you can go for a sex change operation so that you become a woman, complete with a tear rubber pair breasts and a vulva. You can then have all the penile sex you want in the right orifice. This suggestion is radical and expensive. But many people have taken this option.
3. The third option is celibacy. Just as some heterosexual people choose not to have anything to do with the opposite sex, some homosexual people do it. I have read of priests who are gay by orientation but chose celibacy. Whatever anyone might tell you, it is possible to live without sex. Some Catholic priests who choose to stay faithful to their callings do it. There are people who maintain their virginity into their twenties and thirties when they get married.
4. Impractical as the fourth option may seen to anyone who has taken time to study this issue, I am including it because it is not impossible. You stop having sex with men and take on women. You marry a woman. The problem is that you are not attracted to women in the first place so you will find the sex unsatisfying. Your partner may notice this and leave you. You may live a "false" life for the rest of your life or find yourself sneaking out to find male sex partners. But if you try hard enough, and if you are lucky, it is possible for you to abandon homosexuality.

I will be the first to agree that none of these suggestions will be particularly easy for you. But you see, we all have issues that we battle with in life, and believe, many are worse than being of a hated sexual orientation. Think carefully and make your decision.

I know many have offered to pray for you. That is good. But there is no where in the "holy" books where self help of not encouraged. So should you decide to take up residency is a shrine, church or lodge, please remember to save this information because you will come back to it.

I hope this helps. And I hope people get a tad less judgmental about these things.

Then the fourth option CAN work for you. Stop seeing men. What is needed here is WILLPOWER. Good luck!

@Blazing99

Obviously you did not read my entire post. You saw the first highlighted part and dismissed the rest and as "liberal crap", pandering to devilish sexual practices. That is dangerous. For if you had read a little more you would have found I took a holistic view of the subject and highlighted the problems genuinely associated with it. You would have found, too, that several of your postulations are on all fours with mine.

Nice talk Myjoe, but one thing you have to realise is that science doesn't own the answer to everything. Just like science has proven there is no God, I expect it also to give normality to homosexuality. I do not feel like arguing much with you but i am going to point on these:
First off, science has NOT proved that there is no God. Neither has it proved that there is. Proof of the existence of God in the usual scientific method does not exist. You see, if God was something you can call people and say come here and see him, he would not qualify to be God. I believe in God but my views of him are quite different from what is presented by the popular religions. But that is a different subject.

1. I was almost initiated into homosexuality when i was 10-12. I thank God i was strayed from it. Later years, when I sat down to reflect the reasons for homosexuality, I realised it is bottomlined to sexual perversion. We humans have various sexual preferences but some go way too extreme like homosexuality and other fetish. One's sexual life is exclusive to him or her but when it is religiously immoral and outrightly unnatural, it should be discouraged.
You have fallen into the same trap most people fall into - thinking you made a choice. You could not be initiated because your sexual orientation is heterosexual. YOU FIND NAKED WOMEN, NOT MEN ATTRACTIVE. Some are born different. It is possible there are people who try out things out of inordinate curiosity. But that is not the case with the vast majority of homosexuals.

2. Most religions in the world condemn homosexuality. Christainity does like i know in the bible(I can quote the verse), Islam does cos i know there's a death penalty for it in Saudi Arabia. Hinduism condemns it too as well as most traditional african religions.
Read my post - I said the same thing.

3. It goes against the natural. Opposites in nature are meant to attract. Didn't you study physics??? The anus is meant for excretion of waste for the body not a sexual inlet.
I my post I made some observations about the anus. As to what constitutes the natural, that is a tenuous argument because deviations abound in nature. In case you don't know, homosexuality, bisexuality and being transgender have been documented in over 1500 animal species, from worms to primates. THEY DIDN'T CHOOSE, THEY WERE NOT INITIATED.  THEY WERE BORN THAT WAY. What can be more natural?

4. It is more disease prone. HIV was first discovered in homosexuals. Medical research has proven that anal sex is the riskiest form of sex when it comes to STDs. Elton John the renowned fag is suffering from numerous diseases now, check it out online.
Read my post - I made exactly the same points.

5. IF YOUR PARENTS WERE HOMOSEXUALS, YOU WOULD NEVER BE BORN.
This argument is academic. Are you a Catholic? You can say the same thing to your priests and them Buddhist monks. Whether in the animal or plant kingdom, it is not every individual that is born that reproduces. Some die before reaching maturity. Some are incapacitated by ill-health. Others choose not to indulge. Species survive because at every time there are enough people to carry on the reproduction business.

So quit the liberal freedom of sexuality crap. Homosexuality is outrightly wrong else the poster won't want to leave THE GAME.
There is nothing that I have written that suggests that I am an advocate of sexual freedom. In deed, I am not. Go read THE ENTIRE post. I do not consider myself a liberal or a conservative. I take issues on a case-by-case basis. I was once a part of the anti-gay mass hysteria until I decided to take a closer look at the matter. Neither am I a part of any movement campaigning for the legalisation of gay marriages. I am only presenting facts here.  As for homosexuality being "outrightly wrong", all I can say is that for every individual in any issue, his position is the default option. If you are a Christian, did you know that one billion Moslems consider you "wrong" and vice versa?

From my posts you can see that I have taken time to learn about this matter. I am surprised, too, that you see any ideologies in my posts because there are none. I do have a few ideologies but there are none in these posts. I am simply stating facts - how people feel, what studies have shown, etc. You want me to listen to what God says without telling me where to hear him since there are people and systems of different hues claiming to speak for God. Anyway, I will not go into the religious aspects of it; if you wish we can debate that in another thread. God is never wrong, those claim to hold the patent on him often are.
Have a nice weekend.

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm    SO THIS MEANS HALF THE GUYS WE DATE RE GAY,  AND THERE I AM BUSY SUCKING ON HIS BALLS WHEN THE BLOODY NIGGA WAS BUSY SUCKIN ANOTHER BLOKE S BALL,  OH MY GOD,  WONDERS WILL NEVER CEASE,  WAT NEXT,,, U FUC,K A GOAT ,, A CHICKEN , NOTHING WILL SHOCK ME IN THIS WORLD,,,

Oh gosh!!! This topic take style funny sha!!!

Abeg, I thought being gay is completely normal?  Why not just keep being who you know best?