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waooo
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A young lady of 22 took in for me just three months into our relationship and was ready and stil ready to settle down with me even though I told her point blank the very month she took in that I was not settling down with her because of the situation we both found ourselves in, which she accepted.
She put to bed a year later. The problem now is that she has won d heart of my parents and friends alike, and they all are urging me to settle down with her against my wish. My reasons for not wanting to marry her is I hadly knew her b4 d accident and I stil dont know her to this moment. What do I do? pls, I need your candid advise
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sista-jay (f)
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Poster
Don't make me laugh you outta here!!
You were man enough to make love to her without a condom, now be man enough to do the right thing by her and the child!! Just give her a chance , your family has welcomed her with open arms!!!
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Macgreat (m)
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If everyone likes her then there's something there to LOVE. . . I say get to know her. . . Take your time. spend some time with her. . .
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waooo
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I hv already told her parents that I needed d boy and not her which they accept. Infact, am presently planning on hw to settle them.
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lemmycop
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You make me wanna laugh. The truth is that you have a lesson to learn from this.  Enjoy  |
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smooooooth
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u dnt know her too well, but u went inbtw her legs right? look man grow some balls, be a man and stand up to your responsibilities. its your child, and i dnt think u want that child to grow up without both parents around, the result aint always good.
besides this girl looks the good girl to me, for your friends, and particularly your mother to like her, she must be the really good down to earth kinda woman stick with her plssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss.
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Macgreat (m)
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besides this girl looks the good girl to me, for your friends, and particularly your mother to like her, she must be the really good down to earth kinda woman stick with her plssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss.
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Ebonyeyes (f)
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So she is good enough to wear out and babymaking but not wifey enough? Why did you go between her thighs without "getting to know her ist?  |
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imurboss
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you should have insisted on knowing her fist before getting between her legs,guess u were trying to play a fast one one her before it turned the other way round, sorry she's is the mother of your child!
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ifunayam (f)
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So she is good enough to wear out and babymaking but not wifey enough? Why did you go between her thighs without "getting to know her ist?
My thoughts exactly!
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Ujujoan (f)
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I hv already told her parents that I needed d boy and not her which they accept. Infact, am presently planning on hw to settle them.
This one too dey find wife material abi? Ha! I laugh in japanese!   |
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Duduknight (m)
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I don't understand some of the judgemental comments on this thread. Why castigate him for something most are guilty of? Most people are guilty of pre-marital sex; the only difference here, is that the couple got careless.
Poster, I suggest you spend time with your baby's mother and baby. Now that she has had a child for you, try and court her. You never know, she may be the one for you. The situation has been made easier for you because your loved ones like her. So they must see something good about her.
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MoneyRule (m)
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You pregnanted a girl you "hardly knew"??
And you need advise on whether or not you should marry her??
Men, you give "Worried" a whole new meaning!
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michelin89 (f)
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@ poster Don't marry her if you don't love her but there is nothing wrong in getting to know her. If she has won your parents' hearts then there must be something good about her.  |
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