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dappssee (m)
At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« on: November 04, 2009, 02:41 PM »

At what point should a man back out on a chase and when does a man become a nuisance to a lady?
ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #1 on: November 04, 2009, 02:47 PM »

A man backs out  when he realizes that seriously she ain't playing hard to get but she's just not into you! And probably when the man has chased and chased and realizes she's not who he thought she was at first. . .or when a lady is interested in the guy but has carried the playing hard to get damn to far!

And some men just don't know when to stop. . .when a man becomes a nuisance is when the lady is practically not into you but you keep persisting and thinking in your delusional mind that she's playing hard to get. . .some men seriously need to be nigga slapped!
Kenny_G (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #2 on: November 04, 2009, 02:50 PM »

@poster
while there is life, then there is hope that he can still have her, so my advice is Never Give Up on your dreamsCheesy
IFELEKE (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #3 on: November 04, 2009, 03:05 PM »

Quote from: dappssee on November 04, 2009, 02:41 PM
At what point should a man back out on a chase and when does a man become a nuisance to a lady?
Simply put, a man should back out before he becomes a nuisance. . .A responsible man should know when his advances are not welcomed and he should honourably back off before he dishonourably becomes a nuisance.
sista-jay (f)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #4 on: November 04, 2009, 03:25 PM »

To the point when she invites him over to hers and make him watch her makin love to another man/woman!! Seriously some men don't know when to back off. They cant handle rejection, they persist and persist hopin you'd become the object of their desire. Not easy bein a woman, I tell ya!!
chipmunkey (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #5 on: November 04, 2009, 03:30 PM »

I think a guy will stop chasing as soon as he finds another girl who catches his interest. Sometimes such diversion of interest works and also if the guy is a Chase addict, Works too when the girl is playing hard to get.
Abbey_city (f)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #6 on: November 04, 2009, 03:33 PM »

Quote from: Kenny_G on November 04, 2009, 02:50 PM
@poster
while there is life, then there is hope that he can still have her, so my advice is Never Give Up on your dreams!  Cheesy

i agree wit u
chipmunkey (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #7 on: November 04, 2009, 03:37 PM »

I Don't think Dreams apply to Girls.
Thats a different Ball Game.
You make your dreams come true first, then aybe somfin else will happen.
It's like chaing the Kingdom of God first and other things will follow.
Thats what Nija girls are about.
smooooooth
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #8 on: November 04, 2009, 03:44 PM »

a man stops chasing when they lady is serious in her saying ''NO'' most ladies dnt want a relationship, but they keep encouraging the dude by being accomodating, smiling, beating around the bush, saying things like ''look its not like i cant date u but, '' mess shit, be blunt, direct and unfriendly. the guy aint dunmb, he will get the message. no one likes to be a nuisance, the women encourage them with thier not too direct replies.
Duduknight (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #9 on: November 04, 2009, 03:52 PM »

Quote from: smooooooth on November 04, 2009, 03:44 PM
a man stops chasing when they lady is serious in her saying ''NO'' most ladies dnt want a relationship, but they keep encouraging the dude by being accomodating, smiling, beating around the bush, saying things like ''look its not like i cant date u but, '' mess shit, be blunt, direct and unfriendly. the guy aint dunmb, he will get the message. no one likes to be a nuisance, the women encourage them with thier not too direct replies.

You are so correct. Women know how to get the message across when they are not interested. But sometimes, for various reasons (dry spell, gifts, attention, showing-ff to friends, making boyfriend jealous) they do not get the message across properly so that the guy can continue the chase. Once the objective is satisfied (sometimes it never is), they get nasty. Most guys don't like to have their ego bruised badly, so they get the message while some dull boys hang around like fools even when the game is over.
lemmycop
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #10 on: November 04, 2009, 03:56 PM »

Quote from: ThoniaSlim on November 04, 2009, 02:47 PM
A man backs out  when he realizes that seriously she ain't playing hard to get but she's just not into you! And probably when the man has chased and chased and realizes she's not who he thought she was at first. . .or when a lady is interested in the guy but has carried the playing hard to get damn to far!

And some men just don't know when to stop. . .when a man becomes a nuisance is when the lady is practically not into you but you keep persisting and thinking in your delusional mind that she's playing hard to get. . .some men seriously need to be nigga slapped!
I agree with u 100% Smiley
190 (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #11 on: November 04, 2009, 03:58 PM »

Quote from: ThoniaSlim on November 04, 2009, 02:47 PM
A man backs out  when he realizes that seriously she ain't playing hard to get but she's just not into you! And probably when the man has chased and chased and realizes she's not who he thought she was at first. . .or when a lady is interested in the guy but has carried the playing hard to get damn to far!

And some men just don't know when to stop. . .when a man becomes a nuisance is when the lady is practically not into you but you keep persisting and thinking in your delusional mind that she's playing hard to get. . .some men seriously need to be nigga slapped!

I KNOW U ARE INDIRECTLY TALKING 2 ME~
ibrokay (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #12 on: November 04, 2009, 03:59 PM »

@ Dudu
I agree totally with you.I stop chasing once she says no
smooooooth
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #13 on: November 04, 2009, 04:07 PM »

look guys, the truth is no girl is worth the chase, once she says no, then back out, no matter ow much u feeling her. cos u only end up bruising your ego, and women love the chase it swells their head, knowing that u kinda dying for them, but the truth is even knowing that, they still stick to that no. but once u back out first time, they come after u.
olelle
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #14 on: November 04, 2009, 04:14 PM »

 For the first part of the question, when he thinks he's not really getting anywhere after a good while of chasing.
Macgreat (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #15 on: November 04, 2009, 04:17 PM »

Quote from: smooooooth on November 04, 2009, 04:07 PM
look guys, the truth is no girl is worth the chase, once she says no, then back out, no matter ow much u feeling her. cos u only end up bruising your ego, and women love the chase it swells their head, knowing that u kinda dying for them, but the truth is even knowing that, they still stick to that no. but once u back out first time, they come after u.

true talk bro  Smiley
Sisi_Kill
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #16 on: November 04, 2009, 04:17 PM »

When she says NO, NEVER, NOT EVEN! NOT IN THIS LIFE TIME OR TEN TO COME
smooooooth
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #17 on: November 04, 2009, 04:29 PM »

Quote from: Sisi_Kill on November 04, 2009, 04:17 PM
When she says NO, NEVER, NOT EVEN! NOT IN THIS LIFE TIME OR TEN TO COME

i once met a girl who said all that, and we still fcuked in this life time, and wasnt up to 10yrs of chasing, cos she kept calling my no. visiting my house and hanging out wiv me, so its not in the saying it, they shld act it.
iice (f)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #18 on: November 04, 2009, 04:37 PM »

Quote from: ThoniaSlim on November 04, 2009, 02:47 PM
A man backs out  when he realizes that seriously she ain't playing hard to get but she's just not into you! And probably when the man has chased and chased and realizes she's not who he thought she was at first. . .or when a lady is interested in the guy but has carried the playing hard to get damn to far!

And some men just don't know when to stop. . .when a man becomes a nuisance is when the lady is practically not into you but you keep persisting and thinking in your delusional mind that she's playing hard to get. . .some men seriously need to be nigga slapped!

Gbam. . .especially the last part, so bloody irritating Angry
chic2pimp (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #19 on: November 04, 2009, 05:07 PM »

Well within a week, I can tell if she is interested or not. If she's not i'll back out.
NuhuRibadu
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #20 on: November 05, 2009, 04:02 PM »

till the lady marries!!! if a man likes a lady,  he does not need to back out, but he should never press the lady with his request.  just keep it hanging in the air and be friends as long as the lady does not object to ordinary frendship

note that i am talking about serious relationship and  not "i want to ph**k" -styled relationship
Kevo007
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #21 on: November 05, 2009, 04:15 PM »

Quote from: iice on November 04, 2009, 04:37 PM
Gbam. . .especially the last part, so bloody irritating Angry

Ok i dont think that stands all through.

Let me illustrate with a specfic example.

I know this gurl that i used to hang out with, she used to pratically tell me everything that was going on with her. Then she told me of this guy that was asking her out, you know right in my presence she swore and cursed that she would never go out with him, but then after about two years we lost contact,and then i met up with her friend and then guess what. She is now dating him.

You can never tell in what direction a woman would go.
Tell me about that,
r231 (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #22 on: November 05, 2009, 04:15 PM »

Quote from: chic2pimp on November 04, 2009, 05:07 PM
Well within a week, I can tell if she is interested or not. If she's not i'll back out.

within a week? you must be calling her or chassing her for like 20 times a day or something lol
hbrednic
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #23 on: November 05, 2009, 04:16 PM »

only when a girl knocks you down,
kick you on the head,bend down to piss and shit on you  Tongue
thats when you know the game is over  Cool
jdamian
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #24 on: November 05, 2009, 04:18 PM »

not until he marries her,lol, or the ladies in the house what do you think? Wink
saworoide
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #25 on: November 05, 2009, 04:25 PM »

Actor no dey die for film.

A man must persist until the lady finally says yes or goes to the altar with another man, in which case it is confirmed she's no longer available.
who cares?
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #26 on: November 05, 2009, 04:44 PM »

A man stop chasing a woman when there are no more teeth in his mouth. He can never be a niusance if there is money to spend.
cridbak (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #27 on: November 05, 2009, 04:51 PM »

The guy stops chasing when he lands a maybach and has ova 5million bucks in his piggy bank
seedord247 (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #28 on: November 05, 2009, 05:01 PM »

WHEN THERE IS MONEY,  I THINK THERE IS LOVE,  FOR WE NIGERIAN ONLY.
Nezan (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #29 on: November 05, 2009, 05:09 PM »

When he realises there is a God to whom we will account to someday!
cridbak (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #30 on: November 05, 2009, 05:13 PM »

Money is equal to Love>>>>>> so true
kem-kem (f)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #31 on: November 05, 2009, 05:14 PM »

when the girl says NOO, simple. when a girl says no and the guy keeps chasing it becomes v.annoying
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