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denony (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #64 on: November 06, 2009, 10:18 AM »

QUAESTION: At what Point Does A Man Stop Chasin

ANSWER: Until she says  yes  Grin
sleak (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #65 on: November 06, 2009, 11:04 AM »

@poster
after the SEX! Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
sayso (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #66 on: November 06, 2009, 11:08 AM »

when she is about to surrender stop right there, when you visit twice stop right there.
Ben-10
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #67 on: November 06, 2009, 11:14 AM »

It goes on forever Grin
beelyjay45 (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #68 on: November 06, 2009, 11:21 AM »

@ what point do we stop chasing?

the way I see it, the man stop chasing when he has lost intrest in the lady. it's like the hunter n d hunted, GOD asked MEN to chase(Hunter) and HE asked women to run (HUNTED). So when do the hunter stop chasing the hunted?

1. When the hunter has hunted down his prey

2. When the HUNTER sees a more intresting prey and loses intrest in the first prey

3. And the last condition, which by no means is the least when DA HUNTER BECOMES D HUNTED which is very rear but do occur

So to all my HUNTERS out dere dont stop hunting, because u are a HUNTER  and u re destined to hunt wether u like it or not so hunt till your last breath drops and chase d PREY till she meets any of the three conditions stated above

N:B just tot of another one when d hunter see's a superior hunter is also after d same  prey he's huntin could back off or take his chances Grin Grin Grin
Koikoi
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #69 on: November 06, 2009, 12:31 PM »

the ladies like to make interesting things difficult and thereby taking the fun out of it. it is the dishonesty of the ladies that put the poor men on dilemma. afterall, love is for sharing.
darqly (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #70 on: November 06, 2009, 12:36 PM »

When he either gets bloody tired or the woman crosses the finish line.
DDMoses (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #71 on: November 06, 2009, 01:23 PM »

I like this subject and the intelligent answers that some people offer, this gives me succor that this useless lady of mine can still come back
dramenda
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #72 on: November 06, 2009, 01:28 PM »

go with the slogan of MTN

UNTIL YOU =ACHIEVE WHAT YOU WANT TO ACHIEVE
snokky (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #73 on: November 06, 2009, 01:52 PM »

@poster,

once your know her birthday is very near!!
sweetmadam (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #74 on: November 06, 2009, 02:28 PM »

When he feels like he is losing his dignity, which explains why some men back off so easily while others remain persistent until they are humiliated and disgraced.

Back in the days when i was still young and carefree Grin , i never bothered chasing women. yes  i had dashing good looks but that wasn't the reason why.

It was simply because i had a lot of pride. If i called a girl up and she acted just a teeny weeny bit uninterested, I would delete her number after that call. The funniest thing is that after a few weeks, i would receive a call from an unrecognisable number(since it's been deleted) asking why i hadn't called all this time.

My answer. Well i called you and seemed a little unreceptive so i deleted your number.  I don't have time to play silly games.

The moral of the story is that they ended up chasing me instead, what a twist of fate.

Why bother liking someone that doesn't like you? save your love for someone who does.


sweetmadam (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #75 on: November 06, 2009, 02:36 PM »

When he feels like he is losing his dignity, which explains why some men back off so easily while others remain persistent until they are humiliated and disgraced.

Back in the days when i was still young and carefree  , i never bothered chasing women. yes  i had dashing good looks but that wasn't the reason why.

It was simply because i had a lot of pride. If i called a girl up and she acted just a teeny weeny bit uninterested, I would delete her number after that call. The funniest thing is that after a few weeks, i would receive a call from an unrecognisable number(since it's been deleted) asking why i hadn't called all this time.

My answer. Well i called you and seemed a little unreceptive so i deleted your number.  I don't have time to play silly games.

The moral of the story is that they ended up chasing me instead, what a twist of fate.

Why bother liking someone that doesn't like you? save your love for someone who does.
oseiwe (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #76 on: November 06, 2009, 04:28 PM »

When the babe begin dey demand cash immediately u signal interest, my guy match brake. U go spend but it should be later and willingly.
koltoy
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #77 on: November 06, 2009, 09:03 PM »

a guy dat really loves a girl wouldn't stop chasing her until he gets her. the so called girls chasers are only after girls 4 d fun of it and that is why they backout after a short period of time.
Igwe.
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #78 on: November 06, 2009, 09:09 PM »

Quote from: koltoy on November 06, 2009, 09:03 PM
a guy dat really loves a girl wouldn't stop chasing her until he gets her. the so called girls chasers are only after girls 4 d fun of it and that is why they backout after a short period of time.
you got it right man, chasing is only for the responsible ones not for area 11 girls

what if it's the other way round?
koltoy
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #79 on: November 06, 2009, 09:14 PM »

hey sweetmadam,what was disturbing u was your good looks. i also believe dat those girls u dated are only pretenders and do not know what they really want. u never really cared and that's why u deleted those numbers b'cos u are nt really after their heart or love but something else.
Tcrack
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #80 on: November 06, 2009, 11:48 PM »

1, YOU SHOULD NEVER CHASE A LADY.meet her, become friends and make you intentions known early enough. its either yes or no.if she says no, move on immediately because there are so many others waiting for someone like you.
2, the fact that you are still at the chasing stage, means you dont even know her well yet.(you are not even sure she is what you want. you are only attracted by what you see/hear).
3, if she is playing hard to get, its because you have presented yourself as easy to get.
190.yaris
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #81 on: November 06, 2009, 11:54 PM »

HEY LADIES IN THE HOUSE IF U ARE INTERESTED IN CHASING ME

LET ME KNOW,

IM FREE~
gram
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #82 on: November 07, 2009, 04:24 AM »

personally, i believe a matured man should understand certain truths before asking a lady out.

1. your motive, fun or marriage?,

2.she does not have to say yes!

3. Ladies are naturally created to be deceived, dates back to the time of the serpent. They dont see beyond their noses. Once they see what they want in you, they will come back crawling

4. For every lady, there is always a better one, so why the chase?

5. Be bold and be in control, determine the course of the chase, determine when it will start and when it will stop, be nice ,patient and cool while it lasts and resolute when you decide to back out. When you stop, dont take her back, that is if you are seeking true love, if not, go ahead.

6. Do you want Real Love. This is rarely seen nowadays, It exists with few ladies, if you dont meet such ladies, please go for option 2: try to be successful. This second category of women are those who like successful men. Real love does not take too long to happen, they will be the ones chasing you.

7. For serious guys only, do not waste time on a Lady, most of them do not turn out to be who they seem to be,  before you ask out one lady, make sure you have 3 options, if you have only one and you want to kill yourself on that one, you may be played and manipulated, even married women love being chased, a chase is good to any lady, it shows she is still in demand, you may end up as areassuring factor.

DONT DO SOMETHING UNTIL YOU HAVE MORE THAN ONE WAY OF DOING IT, UNLESS YOU ARE DESPERATE, 

8.  Remember that a decision is as good as the time you make it. A good decision at a wrong time is wrong. If her answer comes at the wrong time, it may never work, that is why as a man you must learn to control as much as you can, dont give a blank cheque

9. Yes when you get that woman. Love her, care for her, WATCH HER, LISTEN TO WHAT SHE SAYS AND WHAT SHE DOES NOT SAY!

10. Finally, surmount the friendship hurdle, stay forever to make a lady your friend, not forever to receive an answer.
Amigoz (f)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #83 on: November 07, 2009, 04:51 AM »

D Gram has spoken!
RuuDie (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #84 on: November 07, 2009, 05:42 AM »

Quote from: Tcrack on November 06, 2009, 11:48 PM
1, YOU SHOULD NEVER CHASE A LADY.meet her, become friends and make you intentions known early enough. its either yes or no.if she says no, move on immediately because there are so many others waiting for someone like you.
2, the fact that you are still at the chasing stage, means you dont even know her well yet.(you are not even sure she is what you want. you are only attracted by what you see/hear).
3, if she is playing hard to get, its because you have presented yourself as easy to get.

what are u talking about. . . . the very first instance you meet her, open your mouth and declare your "friendship" intentions. . . .  man, the "chase" has started!
RuuDie (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #85 on: November 07, 2009, 06:31 AM »

@ topic,

i think a fair amount of this is dependent on TIMING and how EMPHATICALLY the lady says "NO"!
na2day? (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #86 on: November 07, 2009, 11:39 AM »

at the point where the woman's value is not worth it
190.yaris
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #87 on: November 07, 2009, 12:04 PM »

^^^

NA 2DAY is around


come give daddy a hug boy~ Grin
na2day? (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #88 on: November 07, 2009, 12:24 PM »

Quote from: 190.yaris on November 07, 2009, 12:04 PM
^^^

NA 2DAY is around


come give daddy a hug boy~ Grin

SLAP! ! ! u ney dey fear your elders again?  Angry Angry Angry Angry
Ranks007 (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #89 on: November 07, 2009, 01:25 PM »

I want to ask all these never give ups on women chasing, how many successful men or money bags
 in the world especially in NIGERIA have recorded more than a month chase with a woman, only in rare cases such happens why because maybe the lady is a discreet type or does not like fame or success, i'm tired of all these Nigerian girls and their fake lives, i have only one in mind and she changed my perception, and i owe to her only that believe, i love you Isi,
190.yaris
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #90 on: November 07, 2009, 09:21 PM »

abeg leave isi out of dis~
Phemour (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #91 on: November 07, 2009, 09:30 PM »

T.

as soon as he gets married.
Pweety4me
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #92 on: November 08, 2009, 04:36 AM »

Hey!Guys. . . Cheesy it was fun reading your responses some cool others very true,unrealalistic,or humorous.
no1madman (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #93 on: November 08, 2009, 08:40 AM »

Quote from: 190.yaris on November 06, 2009, 11:54 PM
HEY LADIES IN THE HOUSE IF U ARE INTERESTED IN CHASING ME

LET ME KNOW,

IM FREE~

u r always free. . .
vislabraye (m)
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #94 on: November 08, 2009, 04:43 PM »

 when he has finished shagging,  finito, mission accomplished
X_factor
Re: At What Point Does A Man Stop Chasing :
« #95 on: November 08, 2009, 05:39 PM »

Thank God for persistence. I did not like my husband at all when I met him. He kept at it for six months and moved the heaven to get my attention. When he finally did, , well this is our fifth year together and of my 33 years, they are the best years of my life.

But there is no set formulae. Before him there were persistant men whom I refused to even consider until this day. Go works in mysterious ways. So as a man, determine whether you will be the unexpected surprise or the nuisance. Smiley
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