Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?

michellin89, i have open a thread of apology, please  kindly accept my sincere apology

no more war, lets live in peace and harmony.

hey amaka, those people get power oo

but no prob. just let them accept my apology

well @replies,
my own take is its not about the GIFT, its about the heart behind the gift
at least first look at the heart offering the gift
why did God take Abel's gift over Cain's even Cain was richer or more appropriately, the widow's mite?
because of the heart.
There is nothing wrong with the bible as a gift. Believe me
all the women who did these things all came back to try and get back to me but I got married already
First let me say bless you women because you are God's gift to men but
honestly, it pains me when women cant see the pretty obvious.
For instance, they see a guy who is trying his best to position himself for good things in life but they look down on him and fall straight for some lying,419ing , irreputable guy somewhere or worse still they just keep praying to God for man when God already sent many to them.
I am talking from both personal and friends' experience.
The guy gets married and the woman now starts seeing him like a star, hello! its still thae same guy you looked down on , just that you dont know how to polish raw gold.
I was like that. I was trying and trying to position myself and some silly girl(sorry 4 my language , but hey let me say it was God that sent her away from me sha ) cheated because she met some journey-man guy(again , excuse my language, im usually a dignified gentleman) that earned £300 a week. That's like my daily earnings now .
and money apart, the guy was even a complete joke, character wise
why I am sharing this is so that you young ladies may learn
PLEASE, dont look at the present state of men but look at:
1. the potentials
2. the character
3. the faith and believe
honestly, I know too many ladies looking for their bone of bone but I think they missed it cos they couldnt see
Anyways God bless you all

@poster

Go to Ajegunle or Mushin olosha!!

  
u are right,

or even empire b/stop or allen avenue.

@poster.
Uve done well by giving her a bible. too bad she reacted dat way. dat should tell u something???

There is no definite place where u can find a wife material, just try to position urself @ d right places wit a plain mind set. no nid to mention places because am sure u are aware dat u will find sex materials just were u'l find the wife materials,  play safe 

i conqur

@ Tems

How can he learn what he couldn't in 25 years in few months? I mean did he really need me to tell him wash his teeth clean before getting close to someone?

I don't have patience to do all that. He wasn't a raw diamond but simply raw. If I didn't mind being his friends I hated it when people thought us to be a pair (with his consent) because they saw me laughing with him.

@Michelin89,
do you know why I took interest in you? the bible says how can they learn when no one will teach them. So thanks for replying
now to your question. the answer is yes and no, let me explain,
you see I am not basing this on this particular guy(hence im not saying this is your man but he could be, for real) but yes you can.
for instance, before I got married, I drove a very "ugly" car that was always dirty , because I was always busy and besides, the daily grind of trying to work and study (added up to 80 hours a week by the way) meant cleaning the car was farthest from my mind and my dressing was just basic.
Now I just get someone to wash it for me for £10 and even give him tips.
You know a girl could have said "he's dirty"? but a wife material would have said "Tems, do you think we can do something about your car? let me pay for the car wash" I bet you that would be the last time the car would be dirty cos he will get the hint
try this, buy a mouthwash and give him, he will get the hint and will definitely change. You dont have to if you are convinced he is not your man but hey, make sure you know first, gold is really black and dirty at first, believe me
id tell you a secret cos you really dont know me: I never really used to like bathing with sponge. just shower with soap but my wife prevailed on me , gently and I changed.
look my dear that guy may look like a star to you in 3 years for all you know I HAVE BEEN THERE.
What im saying is learn wisdom, even if this is not your guy, be ready to get your hands dirty for the right guy.
believe me, certain things can be changed and certain things will make you happy
I have too many lady friends wanting to get married and this is my passion, to see everyone fulfilled
God bless

LMAO SEE TYPICAL IGBO MAN

  you wan kill person! 

@ michelle,
you've got quite an assignment there. patience has it's rewards. no matter how dull he is, if you're interest @ all you'd think out possible solutions. the heart & mind are powerful tools when utilised.

'just ma 20kobo    

ok! point noted.   

@michelin89,
very good. He might not be good for you but lets try this experiment on him for 3 months and promise me you wont fall in love in those three months.
Please note: I am assuming he has a good character but he has flawed manners. If the character is bad then thats a no no
1. Tell him you will NEVER GO OUT WITH HIM(means if he really doesnt have something for you he will leave)
2. Tell him that you will like to contribute something to his life though
3. teach him how to use those cuttleries(the funny thing is oyinbo ppl dont really use them, ive worked in many  large multinationals, so I know
4. tell him to enrol in language schools for 6 months(if he still listens to you by now you might actually be unto something
5. Tell him to grow up- you will be surprised the effect women have on men

The funny thing is if you get this far, you would have invested too much in him that leaving him will not be easy but it would mean you worked together to achieve a lot and you will enjoy it
I can tell you stories lil' sis but gotta leave work
I will log in back when I get home(2 hours drive by the way)
God bless

Perhaps I should tell you how is character wise.

This is someone who claims he is great friends with some girls I know and this same guy lends his house to their boyfriends to screw other girls. How disgusting can that be?

He put a rumour around and told me his direct source. But when confronted he denied everything and couldn't even come out to take up his responsibilities when everyone thought I was the guilty. Can someone be more coward?

I don't just find him physically repulsive but also character wise.

nyz point gal!

@Poster,
The gift you gave her is very much okay. The problem was she is an ingrate and expected much even in the 5days you met her. She should have accepted same if she was a christian and cherish it being d word of God.
As for finding a good wife, just be yourself and she will come your way. Most times, we idolize our kind of wife and that is why we don't recognise them when they come. I know once your mind is opened and you date someone for who she is then you will likely date d right person. However, if you are not the right type n u're looking for d right woman, i bet u have goofed from d begining.