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tithe (m)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #32 on: November 04, 2009, 05:29 PM »

Quote from: davidylan on November 04, 2009, 05:26 PM
The real woman will cherish the thought that went into that gift, not its monetary value per say. Its sad that most women have been reduced to selfish parasites no thanks to poverty and the need to "belong" in a world that has become increasingly materialistic. What gifts did her parents give her for her birthday? Do women now just keep men for the gifts they hope to receive on their endless 21st birthdays?

Better Talk bi dis
michelin89 (f)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #33 on: November 04, 2009, 05:30 PM »

What is this fuss about a Bible? I mean who buys a Bible as a gift?

Couldn't you find some earrings or bracelets or necklaces?? Why a frigging Bible??

@ David

The girl hasn't proved she is a golddigger by refusing his gift. She simply didn't like what he bought for her. Simple! How did you come about the golddigging story?

I think you are upset because she wasn't interested in the word of your God. What's so special about it anyways?
Kenny_G (m)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #34 on: November 04, 2009, 05:30 PM »

Jerusalem Bible ke,  Grin Grin Grin Grin
davidylan (m)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #35 on: November 04, 2009, 05:31 PM »

Quote from: michelin89 on November 04, 2009, 05:22 PM
She just spoke her mind. I'd have hated the gift too and throw out the giver from my party. I mean you come to eat and drink at my party and can't buy a decent gift?

What if I had offered you grandnuts instead?

I cant believe this is really your level of thinking as regards this issue. Seriously.

Quote from: ibkaye on November 04, 2009, 05:26 PM
5 days after meeting her he got her a present and she's complaining?  Bible or even tissue roll, phooey.

What nerve Cheesy

Na the giver (tithe)  i blame . . . if she even got a text on her birthday she shld be grateful. Why waste money on a someone you met barely 5 days ago? Has she no parents or doesnt she have a job?

Quote from: Godmother on November 04, 2009, 05:27 PM
While Im not supporting the girl's attitude I believe the poster is just too rational. How can you give a woman a Bible[i][/i] on her birthday for God's sake, even if you bought it for 12k. Im sure she was expecting something romantic

err what do you mean by "something romantic"? You mean something material and expensive? Is a car gift romantic too? Would she have been ok with a box of chocolates and a teddy bear?

yjay (f)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #36 on: November 04, 2009, 05:32 PM »

@poster, y do u think she ll b pleased to get a bible as a gift??? it baffles me, and u say u did that cos ure a believer, Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
michelin89 (f)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #37 on: November 04, 2009, 05:33 PM »

David I am mad because he bought a Bible. Even though the girl was the holiest of all Christians that is a horrible gift for a bday party. You can buy that if she was newly baptized. I mean couldn't he use his common sense to know there are GOOD and BAD gifts?
finemocha (f)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #38 on: November 04, 2009, 05:34 PM »

buhahahahhahaha

u bought a 9ja babe a bible. that is priceless. see all u men should learn from him. from now on when your babes are being too materialistic buy them bibles, rosarys etc
davidylan (m)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #39 on: November 04, 2009, 05:35 PM »

Quote from: michelin89 on November 04, 2009, 05:33 PM
David I am mad because he bought a Bible. Even though the girl was the holiest of all Christians that is a horrible gift for a bday party. You can buy that if she was newly baptized. I mean couldn't he use his common sense to know there are GOOD and BAD gifts?

Err so what's a "good" gift? A car i suppose?
tithe (m)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #40 on: November 04, 2009, 05:36 PM »

Quote from: yjay on November 04, 2009, 05:32 PM
@poster, y do u think she ll b pleased to get a bible as a gift??? it baffles me, and u say u did that cos ure a believer, Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
What's wrong in giving someone u just meet 5days ago bible, Even Jerusalem bible for that matter
Ebonyeyes (f)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #41 on: November 04, 2009, 05:36 PM »

My guy atleast you got some feedback on your gifting skills, better than seeing the bible and the other thing you bought in the trash or re-gifted to you on your next birthday Wink.
davidylan (m)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #42 on: November 04, 2009, 05:36 PM »

Quote from: michelin89 on November 04, 2009, 05:30 PM
What is this fuss about a Bible? I mean who buys a Bible as a gift?

Couldn't you find some earrings or bracelets or necklaces?? Why a frigging Bible??

@ David

The girl hasn't proved she is a golddigger by refusing his gift. She simply didn't like what he bought for her. Simple! How did you come about the golddigging story?

I think you are upset because she wasn't interested in the word of your God. What's so special about it anyways?

why get her earings, bracelets or necklaces? They just met 5 days ago . . . what value does she add to his life to be worth such expense?
michelin89 (f)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #43 on: November 04, 2009, 05:37 PM »

Quote from: davidylan on November 04, 2009, 05:35 PM
Err so what's a "good" gift? A car i suppose?

A necklace or a pair of earrings would been perfect. Those 12K were simply wasted. Are you saying you can't get a nice set of jewelries with 12K? Undecided
ibkaye
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #44 on: November 04, 2009, 05:37 PM »

I really can't stand ungrateful people, honestly, even if you hate the gift, there's a way to go about things, a bible isn't exactly my ideal gift either but it really is the thought that counts, 5 days after meeting me and you bought me a present? I really would cherish it. One man's meat is another man's poison, he could have given her that present because he wanted her to know Christ and as a christian, that's one of the greatest gifts you could give anyone.

Sheesh.
michelin89 (f)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #45 on: November 04, 2009, 05:38 PM »

Quote from: davidylan on November 04, 2009, 05:36 PM
why get her earings, bracelets or necklaces? They just met 5 days ago . . . what value does she add to his life to be worth such expense?

But he spent 12K on a book. Couldn't he use that to get a dress?
Ebonyeyes (f)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #46 on: November 04, 2009, 05:39 PM »

I agree with Michelin, that 12k could have been spent on other things. Of all things a bible? common son this sounds like a Nollywood script. Grin
tithe (m)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #47 on: November 04, 2009, 05:39 PM »

Quote from: michelin89 on November 04, 2009, 05:33 PM
David I am mad because he bought a Bible. Even though the girl was the holiest of all Christians that is a horrible gift for a bday party. You can buy that if she was newly baptized. I mean couldn't he use his common sense to know there are GOOD and BAD gifts?
Bible, horrible? U need deliverance
yjay (f)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #48 on: November 04, 2009, 05:40 PM »

Quote from: tithe on November 04, 2009, 05:36 PM
What's wrong in giving someone u just meet 5days ago bible, Even Jerusalem bible for that matter

now that got me laughing! are u by any means clowning?Huh? or are u for real for real?Huh next thing u re going to be telling us its the revised king james version!!!!! its not a good gift sweetie ok!!!!!
FL Gators
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #49 on: November 04, 2009, 05:43 PM »

Tell the truth and shame the devil.
Just say you went to one of them church and stole a Bible. 12k ko
tithe (m)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #50 on: November 04, 2009, 05:45 PM »

Quote from: Ebonyeyes on November 04, 2009, 05:39 PM
I agree with Michelin, that 12k could have been spent on other things. Of all things a bible? common son this sounds like a Nollywood script. Grin
Funny enough, the first bible i ve was given to me by my former girlfriend, Infact i ve never recieved any like dat. It made me wat i am 2day to many testimonies.
davidylan (m)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #51 on: November 04, 2009, 05:46 PM »

Quote from: ibkaye on November 04, 2009, 05:37 PM
I really can't stand ungrateful people, honestly, even if you hate the gift, there's a way to go about things, a bible isn't exactly my ideal gift either but it really is the thought that counts, 5 days after meeting me and you bought me a present? I really would cherish it. One man's meat is another man's poison, he could have given her that present because he wanted her to know Christ and as a christian, that's one of the greatest gifts you could give anyone.

Sheesh.

wow you're way older than your age suggests . . . you encourage me daily that there are women out there worth dying for. Keep it up!
michelin89 (f)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #52 on: November 04, 2009, 05:46 PM »

Quote from: tithe on November 04, 2009, 05:45 PM
Funny enough, the first bible i ve was given to me by my former girlfriend, Infact i ve never recieved any like dat. It made me wat i am 2day to many testimonies.

On your birthday??
davidylan (m)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #53 on: November 04, 2009, 05:50 PM »

Bottonmline . . . tithe, next time simply do as most guys with a brain do (i'm not saying you dont have a brain) . . . never give a woman a gift if she doesnt add anything of value to your life. If she's not happy with a text on her birthday she can go hit her head on the wall. For the most part i simply "forget" the birthday . . .
tithe (m)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #54 on: November 04, 2009, 05:52 PM »

Quote from: ibkaye on November 04, 2009, 05:37 PM
I really can't stand ungrateful people, honestly, even if you hate the gift, there's a way to go about things, a bible isn't exactly my ideal gift either but it really is the thought that counts, 5 days after meeting me and you bought me a present? I really would cherish it. One man's meat is another man's poison, he could have given her that present because he wanted her to know Christ and as a christian, that's one of the greatest gifts you could give anyone.

Sheesh.
U ar the bomb. Ar u married? m/f
Macgreat (m)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #55 on: November 04, 2009, 05:54 PM »

No matter what the gift is. . . one should appreciate and say thank you.


michelin89 (f)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #56 on: November 04, 2009, 05:55 PM »

 Lips sealed What is the point of smiling to a gift you hate? Undecided I just have to sincere and tell you I hate it.
tithe (m)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #57 on: November 04, 2009, 05:57 PM »

Quote from: davidylan on November 04, 2009, 05:50 PM
Bottonmline . . . tithe, next time simply do as most guys with a brain do (i'm not saying you dont have a brain) . . . never give a woman a gift if she doesnt add anything of value to your life. If she's not happy with a text on her birthday she can go hit her head on the wall. For the most part i simply "forget" the birthday . . .
It seems u ar rightoooo, text i think would ve saved enough stress
davidylan (m)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #58 on: November 04, 2009, 05:57 PM »

Quote from: Macgreat on November 04, 2009, 05:54 PM
No matter what the gift is. . . one should appreciate and say thank you.

Honestly . . . even simple manners have gone to the dogs these days.
Even if she didnt like the gift, there are ways of kindly pointing it out to the giver. Raining abuses on him? After meeting a mere 5 days ago?
Macgreat (m)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #59 on: November 04, 2009, 05:59 PM »

Quote from: ibkaye on November 04, 2009, 05:37 PM
I really can't stand ungrateful people, honestly, even if you hate the gift, there's a way to go about things, a bible isn't exactly my ideal gift either but it really is the thought that counts, 5 days after meeting me and you bought me a present? I really would cherish it. One man's meat is another man's poison, he could have given her that present because he wanted her to know Christ and as a christian, that's one of the greatest gifts you could give anyone.

Sheesh.

wow!,    Too much  Kiss
nich (m)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #60 on: November 04, 2009, 06:01 PM »

dont i just luv NL peeps?   Grin

i think some of you should seriously think of doing 'collabos' in writing movie scripts. i believe we'd get better stuff than nollywood's showcased for a while.

singing: .  .  . me i go yarn .  .  . me i go speak ma mind .  .  . me i go yarn .  .  . dem think say we blind .  .  . make we yarn .  .  . (remix)
.  .  . let dem say .  .  . elenu lo lenu .  .  . let dem say .  .  .   Smiley

no insult intended!  Lips sealed 
Macgreat (m)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #61 on: November 04, 2009, 06:05 PM »

. . .  Grin 


tpia.
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #62 on: November 04, 2009, 06:05 PM »

charm school is in order

maybe boot camp sha.
tithe (m)
Re: Where Can We Find Wife Material, Not Sex Materials?
« #63 on: November 04, 2009, 06:07 PM »

Quote from: michelin89 on November 04, 2009, 05:55 PM
Lips sealed What is the point of smiling to a gift you hate? Undecided I just have to sincere and tell you I hate it.
If u hate bible, it simply means u hate God, He is he word
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