Should I Dump Her Or Forgive Her (True Story)

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denko (m)
Should I Dump Her Or Forgive Her (True Story)
« on: November 04, 2009, 05:15 PM »

One evening I went to my lover's house, on reaching there, her younger brother told me she went to see her aunty. Before then she normally complains about one guy that is disturbing her. but then I still have some doubt in my mind, I decided to wait for her. I waited till around 10:30pm in her house, after then a thought came to me to call her I then discovered that she left her phone in the house.

I pick up the phone I search for the guy's number. Then I call the guy if she know someone call (this) the guy reply no. After a while I decided to go home with her phone she now appear, I ask her where are u coming from she is coming from her aunty's house she replied, I then got a bit provoke and decided to go with her phone although she never knew I was with her phone.

On my way going home I then dial the guy in question number I kept mute the guy pick and said have you reach home. men I was mad! I just need some advise what to do with her.
finemocha (f)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #1 on: November 04, 2009, 05:25 PM »

eiya. sorry oh, um well im pretty sure u know what happened. just do what makes u feel comfortable. either u break up or forgive her.  i would end it sha
michelin89 (f)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #2 on: November 04, 2009, 05:25 PM »

Quote from: denko on November 04, 2009, 05:15 PM
On my way going home i then dial the guy in question number i kept mute the guy pick and said have you reach home.

Ahahahhahahahahhaha!!!!! Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
eyonigger (m)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #3 on: November 04, 2009, 05:26 PM »

Dude you better investigate well before you have yourself to blame at the end of the day.

You dnt know if the guy saw her on her way coming from her auntys place or when she was going.

Besides improve your grammatical structuring.
Godmother (f)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #4 on: November 04, 2009, 05:33 PM »

Quote from: eyonigger on November 04, 2009, 05:26 PM
Dude you better investigate well before you have yourself to blame at the end of the day.

You dnt know if the guy saw her on her way coming from her auntys place or when she was going.

Besides improve your grammatical structuring.

Abi o
posakosa (m)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #5 on: November 04, 2009, 05:46 PM »

dishonesty is a bad sign in a relationship--- why not talk with her about this matter ?
IFELEKE (m)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #6 on: November 04, 2009, 05:48 PM »

Poster,
Isn't it obvious?
posa
hwdy?
posakosa (m)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #7 on: November 04, 2009, 05:49 PM »

Hi Ife----loong time.  Smiley Smiley
190.yaris
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #8 on: November 04, 2009, 05:56 PM »

please dump her scary smellin ass~
Macgreat (m)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #9 on: November 04, 2009, 06:03 PM »

Leave her. . .
IFELEKE (m)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #10 on: November 04, 2009, 06:06 PM »

Quote from: posakosa on November 04, 2009, 05:49 PM
Hi Ife----loong time. Smiley Smiley
yeah yeah. . .o to jo meta,bawo ni?. . .let's chat  Wink
kpolli (m)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #11 on: November 04, 2009, 06:12 PM »

if u dont break up then whatever she does again, take it like that
kokonets (m)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #12 on: November 04, 2009, 06:22 PM »

Pls investigate the koko of the matter cos the guy might have seen her on the road and escorted her or sometin!
Macgreat (m)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #13 on: November 04, 2009, 06:24 PM »

Quote from: kokonets on November 04, 2009, 06:22 PM
Pls investigate the koko of the matter cos the guy might have seen her on the road and escorted her or sometin!

Nollywood
tkb417 (m)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #14 on: November 04, 2009, 06:26 PM »

u called the guys number while in the babes house but u got no response
how come the babe and the guy didnt worry about who called him when they both knew the fone was kept at home?

u called again and the bobo picked the fone without hesitating?

your script needs some proof reading.

However if the story is true, then shes not worth the stress
send her to BIN
tpm (m)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #15 on: November 04, 2009, 06:31 PM »

No, dude. Don't be in a hurry else you make a mistake. It's true you have got a tip of her whereabout on the said day, you need to follow her up more smartly. She must not know you are invetigating her moves. I assure you soon, you will get all the answers you seek from NL.
scottN (m)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #16 on: November 04, 2009, 06:42 PM »

Quote from: tkb417 on November 04, 2009, 06:26 PM
u called the guys number while in the babes house but u got no response
how come the babe and the guy didnt worry about who called him when they both knew the fone was kept at home?

u called again and the bobo picked the fone without hesitating?

your script needs some proof reading.

However if the story is true, then shes not worth the stress
send her to BIN
I lean towards your angle on this except that I won't just send her to the bin. I'll take advantage of the scenario  Wink !
Spyker
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #17 on: November 04, 2009, 06:44 PM »

Please confront her with it, don't just conclude. When there is no trust in a relationship, then that relationship is going to fail. On the second thought, start looking for another girl and let her go if you cannot stand it.
tkb417 (m)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #18 on: November 04, 2009, 06:45 PM »

Quote from: scottN on November 04, 2009, 06:42 PM
I lean towards your angle on this except that I won't just send her to the bin. I'll take advantage of the scenario Wink !
how? use and dump when she least expect such?

thats a good idea tho
scottN (m)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #19 on: November 04, 2009, 06:49 PM »

nope i won't DUMP her,(I don't dump girls rather I make sure that they dump me  Wink ) I'll just let realize that u can't eat your cake and have it  Grin
tkb417 (m)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #20 on: November 04, 2009, 06:53 PM »

Quote from: scottN on November 04, 2009, 06:49 PM
nope i won't DUMP her,(I don't dump girls rather I make sure that they dump me Wink ) I'll just let realize that u can't eat your cake and have it Grin
devil pikin Grin
i dey fear u; dont come near my compound. I have sisters and i wouldnt want them to meet you
bubblegum (f)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #21 on: November 04, 2009, 06:56 PM »

forgive her!!  Wink
stillwater (f)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #22 on: November 04, 2009, 06:56 PM »

Why should you take her phone home?  Huh

Anyway I wonder why she keeps the number of a guy who's supposedly toasting her. If she's not that interested, she should have deleted the number. She likes the attention. For him to even ask "have you reached" not only shows that she had met him but he has some rights only a boyfriend should have. Undecided
bubblegum (f)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #23 on: November 04, 2009, 06:57 PM »

Quote from: tkb417 on November 04, 2009, 06:45 PM
how? use and dump when she least expect such?

thats a good idea tho

haba! y r u so mean???
scottN (m)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #24 on: November 04, 2009, 06:58 PM »

Quote from: tkb417 on November 04, 2009, 06:53 PM
devil pikin Grin
i dey fear u; dont come near my compound. I have sisters and i wouldnt want them to meet you

Haba  Embarrassed I do have sisters as well. One can only get what he or she deserves.
tkb417 (m)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #25 on: November 04, 2009, 07:00 PM »

Quote from: bubblegum on November 04, 2009, 06:57 PM
haba! y r u so mean???
hehehe
see whos callin me mean; Bubble is the defination of MEAN

besides, i called your line and dropped sms, u didnt respond
ki lode ma'am


Quote from: stillwater on November 04, 2009, 06:56 PM
Why should you take her phone home?  Huh

Anyway I wonder why she keeps the number of a guy who's supposedly toasting her. If she's not that interested, she should have deleted the number. She likes the attention. For him to even ask "have you reached" not only shows that she had met him but he has some rights only a boyfriend should have. Undecided
the gurl is a twat with no brain and the bobo is a doofus
wonder where they met
tkb417 (m)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #26 on: November 04, 2009, 07:02 PM »

Quote from: scottN on November 04, 2009, 06:58 PM
Haba  Embarrassed I do have sisters as well. One can only get what he or she deserves.
with u 100%
just kiddin with the earlier comment
bubblegum (f)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #27 on: November 04, 2009, 07:03 PM »

Quote from: tkb417 on November 04, 2009, 07:00 PM
hehehe
see whos callin me mean; Bubble is the defination of MEAN
how??
scottN (m)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #28 on: November 04, 2009, 07:04 PM »

Quote from: stillwater on November 04, 2009, 06:56 PM
Why should you take her phone home?  Huh

Anyway I wonder why she keeps the number of a guy who's supposedly toasting her. If she's not that interested, she should have deleted the number. She likes the attention. For him to even ask "have you reached" not only shows that she had met him but he has some rights only a boyfriend should have. Undecided
At least he now knows that he has a competitor shld in case he wishes to press on.
MoneyRule (m)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #29 on: November 04, 2009, 07:09 PM »

Guy, i will opt 4 the dump her option but then, i think you still need to do some digging into the situation b4 u dump her so as 2 be sure of what u're really dumping her for. u're clearly still at d surface, i mean; it's possible she met d guy in her aunt's house Grin
who knows??
tkb417 (m)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #30 on: November 04, 2009, 07:10 PM »

Quote from: bubblegum on November 04, 2009, 07:03 PM
how??
i dont have to spell it to u. how are u?
bubblegum (f)
Re: Should I Dump Her Or Fogive Her(true Story)
« #31 on: November 04, 2009, 07:17 PM »

Quote from: tkb417 on November 04, 2009, 07:10 PM
i dont have to spell it to u. how are u?
im gud anyways
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