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tpm (m)
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Nairalanders, who would you marry? Your LOVE or your BEST FRIEND?
As in guys, you have a girl you love so much (pure) and then another that only makes you feel so excited whenever she is around, drink and party with you, exchange jokes and mess with you, bath and shit together with you etc. You just feel happy and free when you are with her. You like her for that alone not any other thing. Would you prefer such a friend for marriage to someone you truly love but who do not make you feel same way?
Choice answers to be followed by sincere and convincing reason(s).
Cheers.
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sista-jay (f)
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Men una sabi make simple things so complicated. Love or best friend ko!!
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sexyLeamon (f)
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are u in love with your best friend or wot?  answer dat question and then we can move on from there. |
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tpm (m)
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No am not in love with my friend. U could read it straight from the post: Like her for that, not any other thing. Please digest the point and try to avoid sentiments.
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sexyLeamon (f)
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your story is complicated jare do not give me headache, how can u think of marrying someone u are not in love with?  |
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davidylan (m)
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Been there before . . . pick the one you love. You may not be as free with her as your best friend but that's because you always want to be the best when you're with her. Your best friend will bore you as a lover very quickly.
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toba (m)
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What kind of question is this? If u lv some1 why cant u marry her if u truly lv her
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tpm (m)
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davidylan, thank you very much for you thoughtful remarks. I wish NL wil learn to see issues as adults and not as amatuers.
Regards
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Dr. Lorenz (m)
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@poster I guess what you're asking is 1. If we'd marry someone we can and would marry someone we love who will become very boring later on, or 2. Get married to someone who makes us happy whenever we're around them. To answer your question, personally, i would like to get married to someone who's a friend. At the same time, i also would like to get married to someone i love. So it's kinda difficult to answer your question. If i get married to someone i love who is not a friend, i'll get bored later on. On the other hand, if i get married to my friend, i might grow to love her. Well i guess i'll wait until then  |
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Godmother (f)
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Been there before . . . pick the one you love. You may not be as free with her as your best friend but that's because you always want to be the best when you're with her. Your best friend will bore you as a lover very quickly.
Abi o |
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scottN (m)
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@Poster
This is a tough one. It's like asking what makes up a complete automobile the engine or the body.
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OAM4J (m)
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This is a difficult question. You have to marry someone u love and that person should also be your best friend. So how do I advice u? Wait until your lover becomes your best friend or until you begin to love your best friend. Whichever one happens 1st.  |
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