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primetimed
Does My Ex Want Me Back
« on: November 04, 2009, 08:31 PM »

My girlfriend dumped me this past weekend rather suddenly.  I thought things were going great.  I saw her the two nights before and we were having a lot of fun together and sex.  Then she dumps me cause she said she doesn't want to be tied down with a boyfriend.  She prefers to be alone (yea right).  So whatever I was hurt for a day and then started to move on.

A couple days later she starts contacting me in email and chat about random things.  Just some of our inside jokes and what was going on in her life and mine.  I thought this was weird cause she told me like 2 days before she said she didnt want to talk to me anymore.  Guess it was overreaction.  Anyway, I played it cool and played hard to get cause I still have deep feelings for her.  She always iniatated everything in the conversation.  Then the next night the same thing happened.  We started emailing and chatting, all iniatated by her.  She starts telling me she was sorry that it ended and feels horrible.  She said she used to be a party girl but now just likes to be home alone.  It souded like guilt or maybe closure, or maybe she was regretting the breakup.  I told her it was alright blah blah blah.  We kept chatting and joking around.  And when she ends the conversation she said I enjoyed talking with you.  You have always been able to make me smile and I still like that. 


So what the hell, does she want me back?  What is this?
FL Gators
Re: Does My Ex Want Me Back
« #1 on: November 04, 2009, 09:27 PM »

No na. . . . when she told you she wanted you back, she was telling you she hates you.

roll eyes
primetimed
Re: Does My Ex Want Me Back
« #2 on: November 04, 2009, 09:29 PM »

She didn't say she wanted me back.  don't know what you mean???
FL Gators
Re: Does My Ex Want Me Back
« #3 on: November 04, 2009, 09:34 PM »

Quote from: primetimed on November 04, 2009, 09:29 PM
She didn't say she wanted me back.  don't know what you mean???
Ok, ask her directly and tell her to stop wasting your time.
Its either she wants to be your friend or she wants you back.
justwise (m)
Re: Does My Ex Want Me Back
« #4 on: November 04, 2009, 09:39 PM »

She want to be able to pick her nose in public and get away with it. She just want to shag whoever she wants without feeling bad ab it.
sista-jay (f)
Re: Does My Ex Want Me Back
« #5 on: November 04, 2009, 10:34 PM »

@ Poster

Oh yeah, she wants you back alright, so she can continue to play with your heart!!
Okolobia
Re: Does My Ex Want Me Back
« #6 on: November 05, 2009, 12:04 PM »

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iice (f)
Re: Does My Ex Want Me Back
« #7 on: November 05, 2009, 05:40 PM »

'I was hurt for a day and started to move on'
'I have deep feelings for her'


I laugh in Finnish.


Both of you should stop playing games and just ask each other whats up.
Busy_body (f)
Re: Does My Ex Want Me Back
« #8 on: November 05, 2009, 05:47 PM »



She wants to eat her cake and still have it .NEPA and GENERATOR/ LANDLORD and CARETAKER comes to mind.


If it is a consolation, she still wants you though but I dunno if it is as the main man or the back up Cool
justwise (m)
Re: Does My Ex Want Me Back
« #9 on: November 05, 2009, 05:50 PM »

Quote from: Busy_body on November 05, 2009, 05:47 PM

She wants to eat her cake and still have it .NEPA and GENERATOR/ LANDLORD and CARETAKER comes to mind.


If it is a consolation, she still wants you though but I dunno if it is as the main man or the back up Cool

I go 4 that
Busy_body (f)
Re: Does My Ex Want Me Back
« #10 on: November 05, 2009, 05:55 PM »

Quote from: justwise on November 05, 2009, 05:50 PM
I go 4 that


You are not justwise, you are toowise Tongue I thought strongly about that too but didn't want to be too direct. She found someone else, fell head over heels in love, dumped the OP, but the other person starts playing up and this is giving her cause for concern so to be on the safe side,  has kept the door open to ease the passage in case she has to return to the OP.


The funny games people play Cool
justwise (m)
Re: Does My Ex Want Me Back
« #11 on: November 05, 2009, 06:09 PM »

Quote from: Busy_body on November 05, 2009, 05:55 PM

You are not justwise, you are toowise Tongue I thought strongly about that too but didn't want to be too direct. She found someone else, fell head over heels in love, dumped the OP, but the other person starts playing up and this is giving her cause for concern so to be on the safe side,  has kept the door open to ease the passage in case she has to return to the OP.
The funny games people play Cool

Hmmmm, the way u break this down, are u sure u don't have a page in sunewspaper as an agony aunt? Grin.
Seriously u just hit it spot on. Never under-estimate any woman
Lord_Reed (m)
Re: Does My Ex Want Me Back
« #12 on: November 06, 2009, 11:01 AM »

U better be careful or u'll get played like a football.
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