Husbands Or Wives: Which Is Scarce?

I hear ladies complain that Husbands are in 'short supply', While the guys say they have to search and search before they can find a wife. Who's telling the truth?

none,search and you will find.

Far too many ladies to few men. Now you see why men take two or more wives!

You mean to say that thugs, pimp daddys and all the criminals are plenty and the real men are scarce?
My guy it cld go both ways, and who made the hoes whores? women? men made the whores who they are . . .so let us all stop pointing fingers and take care of the problems we ave created

And i am sure someone will come and say in UK, the woman are useless . . . .
I think it all depends on the yardstick used in measuring

I am 20 now and believe me It's hard to find a guy in his 20s serious with his studies. They all brag and brag they are too big for the Italian educational system and end up doing the jobs of the first generation: labouring.

It is shameful. The hope is in those who were born here but they are simply too young.

Since when did spouses become commodities that they have to be scarce and abundant?

I am not trying to be sexist but do you know the stress some ladies go through to find a 'husband'?
A successful young lady trying to settle down has to go through the labourous task of sifting through the enormous junk out there.
You say it does NOT go both ways but I tell you, when it comes to marraige men run out of time too (or maybe you want to have your kids at 65 years old and not live to see them get married and have kids of their own. Even worse, have disabled kids due to old sickly semen that was used to pregnate that unfortunate lady. Seen that happen quite often in Naija).
So at the end of the day, a lady has choices espcially if she is fortunate enough NOT to live in Naija and is not much into African/Naija men.
My 2 cents.


By the way, I am already happily married , na una know with all these myths and delusions and constant Naija female bashing. I am glad I do not have to deal with that nonsense in real life.

@Poster
I don't know. Here in America, husbands are not scarce unless you would like a Naija spouse, then probably. I wouln't know.
Peace out!

At 20, most guys just wanna lay as many babes as possible, so dont lose hope 

Me and you on same page jare.

Since the ladies are going all over to look for a reliable man and men are begging God for good iyawo.