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honeric01 (m)
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #32 on: November 06, 2009, 04:00 PM »

Quote from: lemmycop on November 06, 2009, 12:32 PM
Show me a woman with all these qualities and i will marry Cool

lol
omega25red (m)
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #33 on: November 06, 2009, 06:31 PM »

Quote from: lemmycop on November 06, 2009, 12:32 PM
Show me a woman with all these qualities and i will marry Cool

if i showed you, then you will want to marry my woman  Tongue
Fhemmmy
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #34 on: November 06, 2009, 08:08 PM »

her heart, trust and support
missSexy
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #35 on: November 07, 2009, 02:39 AM »

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You sound like one who wouldn't give a hoot abt your partner's welfare as long as he spends the cash on you.
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what's your definition of "providing" anyway?  doesn' it mean providing cash?

 
 
 
Sagamite (m)
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #36 on: November 07, 2009, 12:31 PM »

Quote from: omega25red on November 05, 2009, 06:17 PM
A woman provides a level head sometimes when things seem grime
Yep, they do that.

A woman would tell you what your friends wouldn't tell you about the bad decisions you make in your life
My own friends would look me in the face and tell me straight. We actually do this every year as feedback, so I think they do it better than most women

A woman would be there to remind you that the world is not ending because you had a string of bad luck
I am very competent in not letting any misfortune move me, I am an existentialist. So I do this greatly on my own

a woman would call you baby and tell you she loves you
Yep, they do this well

A woman would work and carry the responsibility of the house when you are sick or injured
Most are fantastic at this

A woman would connect you with the people who could help you get that new job you are looking for
Can't see myself needing a woman for these

A woman would remind you to go get a medical checkup because you need it
So true!!!

A woman would keep you warm on those cold nights
I actually think the burden is the other way round

A woman would carry you children
They have no choice

A woman would help you talk to your daughter about the things you as a man feels shy to talk about
I personally definitely would need them for this as my family life is virtually masculine bar mother

A woman would settle for a man who is not established because she believes in you
Eh . . . . .think again, mate. If you still arrive at the same conclusion after thinking then adjust to include a timespan

ETC the list goes on and on
olanie
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #37 on: November 07, 2009, 12:53 PM »

Now we once more can see that a female only sees herslf as only useful for ''services'' a man can pay for and get elsewhere. And one wonder why the most concise responses so far as been from men?
atilla (m)
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #38 on: November 07, 2009, 01:53 PM »

@poster
its not that bad, I love seeing succesfful women in fact those are the ones I make my friends. I always trip when i see a woman who is confident, successful and FRIENDLY loll
Winnergal (f)
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #39 on: November 07, 2009, 01:59 PM »

Her Kpomo . . .
revolt (m)
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #40 on: November 07, 2009, 02:13 PM »

guys has anyone here been heartbroken before.  well ladies i guess 90 percent of you have broken an innocent dudes heart once so you created all the beasts you see around you. afterall u develop much faster than we. all we need in women is understanding ie that were aroused by what we see and that sleepn wit someone else doesnt nean u dnt luv her. im bein veryv realistic sompn most guys will nt cm out to say
anddrewz
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #41 on: November 07, 2009, 03:15 PM »

Quote from: missSexy on November 06, 2009, 02:31 PM
cooking and cleaning?  are we maids?  i never clean for any man. i cook for them sometimes, just like they cook for me sometimes.  but if my man insisted that i cook and clean for him on the regular, i  think i would but we would have to negotiate a good hefty weekly or monthly  "allowance".  anyway for those who think the perfect woman is supposed to clean and cook and never ask for money or gifts, what's in it for women?  what do women gain?

Where did you fall out from? i hope not from outer space.

did u not see your mom do all that u mentioned for your dad?

u better wake up -o
missSexy
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #42 on: November 07, 2009, 04:21 PM »

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Where did you fall out from? i hope not from outer space.

did u not see your mom do all that u mentioned for your dad?

u better wake up -o
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nope, not on the regular basis.  both my parents were professionals and business owners and both brought in the money
 
we had 2 maids, a houseboy and a gate keeper,

when we started growing up at the age of 13+, during summer vacations, my parents would send the maids and houseboy away and us the kids (the boys and the girls) would take care of the chores.  the chores were divided according to our school grades.  the boys actually always ended up doing most of the chores coz they always had the lowest grades.   during the weekends, our parents would help out, as a matter of fact, it's my dad who taught me how to cook coz we have the same style, ,
anddrewz
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #43 on: November 07, 2009, 04:35 PM »

hmmmmmmm Lips sealed Lips sealed Lips sealed Lips sealed
slimes (m)
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #44 on: November 07, 2009, 05:00 PM »

That is why regular conversations are needed in a relationship.
George_D (m)
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #45 on: November 07, 2009, 05:40 PM »

what a question! isn't it rather obvious what men want from women? Grin
mpraise123 (m)
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #46 on: November 07, 2009, 05:51 PM »

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Quote from: missSexy on November 06, 2009, 02:31 PM
cooking and cleaning?  are we maids?  i never clean for any man. i cook for them sometimes, just like they cook for me sometimes.  but if my man insisted that i cook and clean for him on the regular, i  think i would but we would have to negotiate a good hefty weekly or monthly  "allowance".  anyway for those who think the perfect woman is supposed to clean and cook and never ask for money or gifts, what's in it for women?  what do women gain?

missSexy, i think relationship is all about partnership. it shouldn't always be about who is doing the providing or whatever. Infact, i think the success of the man in providing is dependent on what the woman supplies, emotionally, morally and otherwise. that way there's some kind of balance. going back to basics, the woman was created as a Helper for the man. If you define who a Helper is, then i'm sure the riddle of what women really are to men maybe halfway solved!

Quote from: George_D on November 07, 2009, 05:40 PM
what a question! isn't it rather obvious what men want from women? Grin

George I don't think its that obvious! If it was, why do u think we have so many diverse opinions on this thread?
George_D (m)
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #47 on: November 07, 2009, 06:38 PM »

we have so many divergent views, mpraise123, because not everybody is sincere enough to admit it!  Grin
cvibe
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #48 on: November 07, 2009, 08:20 PM »

@ Omega25,

Your list was good, but incomplete.  A good woman.  You missed out the word good, cos not all women are the same.
cantell (m)
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #49 on: November 07, 2009, 08:53 PM »

@George_D,
You're right!
Not everyone is sincere to admit it. Men know what they want. I'm not quite sure about women.
justmoore
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #50 on: November 07, 2009, 09:59 PM »

all of the above
koolchicco
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #51 on: November 07, 2009, 10:04 PM »

Quote from: cvibe on November 07, 2009, 08:20 PM
@ Omega25,

Your list was good, but incomplete.  A good woman.  You missed out the word good, cos not all women are the same.

U can say that again, Mate!
freshmoney (m)
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #52 on: November 07, 2009, 10:05 PM »

Don't mind the missSexy gold-digger. She most definitely will not meet a man of her dream Angry. As long as men dey drop the cash, dem go dey punani am. Grin Idiot! Let me tell you missgold-diggerSexy, women are meant to be in the kitchen, they are meant to be phucked, they are meant to take care of the babies, and to eat the crumbs left by men. Women are good advisers though.
muffins (f)
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #53 on: November 07, 2009, 10:52 PM »

Just imagine it first and you'll find your answer. Wink
missSexy
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #54 on: November 07, 2009, 10:55 PM »

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missSexy, i think relationship is all about partnership. it shouldn't always be about who is doing the providing or whatever. Infact, i think the success of the man in providing is dependent on what the woman supplies, emotionally, morally and otherwise. that way there's some kind of balance. going back to basics, the woman was created as a Helper for the man. If you define who a Helper is, then i'm sure the riddle of what women really are to men maybe halfway solved!
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king/queen partnership? yes ; king/servant partnership?  no way no how  Grin
missSexy
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #55 on: November 07, 2009, 10:58 PM »

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Don't mind the missSexy gold-digger. She most definitely will not meet a man of her dream . As long as men dey drop the cash, dem go dey punani am.  Idiot! Let me tell you missgold-diggerSexy, women are meant to be in the kitchen, they are meant to be phucked, they are meant to take care of the babies, and to eat the crumbs left by men. Women are good advisers though.
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somehow i can't help but feel sorry 4 your motha Sad
Remii (m)
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #56 on: November 08, 2009, 09:59 AM »

Just laugh the following off, we need each other:

Men ' s Pearls of wisdoms of Wisdom

1. When I was born, I was given a choice - A big privates or a good memory. I don ' t remember, what I chose.
2. Your birth certificate is an apology letter from the condom factory.
3. A wife is a sex object,  Every time you ask for sex, she objects.
4,  Impotence: Nature ' s way of saying ' No hard feelings,  '
5. There are only two four letter words that are offensive to men - ' don ' t ' and ' stop ' , unless they are used together.
6. Panties: Not the best thing on earth, but next to the best thing on earth.
7. There are three stages of sex in a man ' s life: Tri Weekly, Try Weekly, and Try Weakly.
8. Virginity can be cured,
9. Virginity is not dignity, its lack of opportunity.
10. Having sex is like playing bridge. If you don ' t have a good partner, you ' d better have a good hand.
11. I tried phone sex once, but the holes in the dialer were too small.
12. Marriage is the only war where you get to sleep with the enemy.
13. Q: What ' s an Australian kiss?
      A: The same thing as a French kiss, only down under.
14. A couple just married were happy with the whole thing. He was happy with the Hole and she was happy with the Thing,
15. Q: What are the three biggest tragedies in a mans life?
     A: Life sucks, job sucks, and the wife doesn ' t,
16. Q: Why do men find it difficult to make eye contact?
     A: Breasts don ' t have eyes.
17. Despite the old saying, ' Don ' t take your troubles to bed ' , many men still sleep with their wives!!

Send to the men who need a laugh and the women with a good sense of  humour.
Magicwand
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #57 on: November 08, 2009, 11:01 AM »

sex!!!!
George_D (m)
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #58 on: November 08, 2009, 01:06 PM »

leave all the trilogy and just make it simple: the pink lips is what men want! Grin
Princek12
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #59 on: November 08, 2009, 04:37 PM »

looking pretty, sex, cooking, cleaning, companion, making babies, emotional support, etcetera.
mpraise123 (m)
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #60 on: November 08, 2009, 05:04 PM »

You have to admit though,  Sex seems to be a dominant reason men need women. I'm not contesting that. if you look at  my question, i stated besides these basic things, what else is there that will give a man a reason to have a woman. I have a feeling that most men think too much of their mothers and desire to see her in every woman he meets. Just a thought.
George_D (m)
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #61 on: November 08, 2009, 05:11 PM »

besides sex, what else?! abegi carry go! Grin
X_factor
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #62 on: November 08, 2009, 05:16 PM »

I love your answer Omega25red.
When all is said and done guys know the following:

Treat her like a queen and shell treat you like a king. Treat her like a hoe and she'll treat you like the pimp that you are.

From the mouth of a Queen.

The sad thing is the overwhelming response you've recieved that is negative and offensive to women. How you handle you most precious commodity is a reflection of your value/selfworth. and I must say from reading this thread I get the feeling that not many of you are worth much. Thank God for the few who have reason, and thank God for my King.
mpraise123 (m)
Re: What Does A Man Really Want From A Woman?
« #63 on: November 08, 2009, 05:24 PM »

Quote from: X_factor on November 08, 2009, 05:16 PM
I love your answer Omega25red.
When all is said and done guys know the following:

Treat her like a queen and shell treat you like a king. Treat her like a hoe and she'll treat you like the pimp that you are.

From the mouth of a Queen.

The sad thing is the overwhelming response you've recieved that is negative and offensive to women. How you handle you most precious commodity is a reflection of your value/selfworth. and I must say from reading this thread I get the feeling that not many of you are worth much. Thank God for the few who have reason, and thank God for my King.

I can feel you, x_factor. i'm glad for your king.

Quote from: George_D on November 08, 2009, 05:11 PM
besides sex, what else?! abegi carry go! Grin

haba George! biko take it easy o! Like x-factor says, your true value to your woman will be dependent on how you treat her. If sex is the only reason why u want your woman, then u r sure to have probs later when she can't "perform". A word is enough,  Grin
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