What Matters Most To you In A Relationship?

love,trust/honesty,respect,

To me Trust is wot matter most

Honesty.
pure and simple

IT'S ALL ABOUT
LOVE+TRUST+HONEST AND UNDERSTANDING = TRUE AND LONG LASTING RELATIONSHIP

honesty.trust,love and looks

I'd suggest a regrouping of the above options.

Moral values in my own opinion covers trust, honesty, respect, commitment, dependability.

Sexual compatibility should be rephrased with "attraction" replacing "compatibility"

all matters to me

COMMUNICATION

love, chemistry, sexual compatibility, trust/honesty,

but to find all these in one person is the problem, lol,

Communication. 

To me Love is the most important thing! It will make you stand when trust fails, it will make you carry on when the bridge of communication collapse, it will make you swallow your pride when you are treated with disdain, it will make your go extra mile to put a smile on the other party's face when you are perfroming below expectations, etc

It's not how people feel about you, it's how you feel about them. Read below message sent to me by a frien and you'll understand better:


A thought to share
It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80s arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00.

I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch and decided since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound. On examining it I saw it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors and got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.

While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry. The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to her health. He told me that she had been there for a while! As she is a victim of Alzheimer's disease.

As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now. I was surprised and asked him, 'And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?' He smiled as he patted my hand and said, 'She doesn't know me but I still know who she is.' I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm and thought, 'That is the kind of love I want in my life. True love is neither physical nor romantic.

True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
Peace is seeing a sunset and knowing who to thank. The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.

Personality of course is very important. If you can't connect with someone then a relationship is pretty pointless.

And once you're in a relationship the most important things are trust and honesty

From my experiences, I have always cherished ladies who have good communication lives. That means we can freely talk about 'anything'.

skillworks

i think it is the fear of God first. the rest can then follow

I think it goes without saying dat d most imp.ingredient in rela/ship is lov and others in your list are actually products of lov.in these part of d world,som ppl only definition 4 lov is sex and dat is where we got it completely wrong.

COMMUNICATION IS THE ROADMAP TO ALL THE OTHER QUALITIES.
ONE THING I BELIEVE ABOUT LOVE IS THAT ONCE YOU LOVE GOD, HE WILL CAUSE YOUR PARTNER TO LOVE YOU.

if u want a relatnship 2 last,u must respect each other first,trust & be honest 2 each oda,then u av 2 commit urself in other 4 d LOVE 2 grow.