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sammie256
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Honestly speaking i love the 1st one,but just recently b/4 i met this small girl i got to know that my girl friend is older than me.now i have decided to keep the two of them but I'm planning to get married next year & i don't know who to propose.the two girls don't know that i have but of them but right now am betwixt two end.what do i do since my girl also know that she is older than me and is willing to carry on with me, don't u think there will be any future consequence.pls help me
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kech (f)
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 Chai, there's nothing one will not see on nairaland. Wo, my friend, just ask us what you want to ask us. - "Should I dump my old girlfriend because she old pass me and it can have consequences in the future?" - and stop all this one wey you dey yarn. "Betwixt" ko, "Betwixt" nii.  From your tone, you want to be with the "small girl". Please just let your "older" girlfriend go so that she can move on with her life jare. Don't waste her time any longer. You are planning on getting married next year and you don't know who you want? Are you waiting for the ninth hour to break her heart? I don't get guys sometimes. 
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igbele (f)
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U said u truly love the first one though older than u, my brother dont let the new girl 2 confuse u over a long built relationship.This is not your first time of knowing her. Her age, character, & all other qualities were supposed 2 be put into consideration b/4 u started. If u truly luv her as u said, carry on cos LOVE IS THE BEDROCK OF ALL RELATIONSHIPS[b][/b]. Consider how she is going feel if u jilt her. Put yourself in her shoes  2 me no consequence but best known 2 u |
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Sisi_Kill
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I love how you've decided you wanna get married next year even though you don't know to whom.
It reminds me of how last week i knew i wanted a new shoe but didn't know which kind until i got to the store. Maybe you should go ahead with your wedding plans and on the d day you do eeeny minny manny moo betwix the two girls. That's how i made the final decision on which shoe to buy and it worked out well.
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Godmother (f)
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*shakes head in pity for the poster gfs*
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whitesturd (f)
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I love how you've decided you wanna get married next year even though you don't know to whom.
It reminds me of how last week i knew i wanted a new shoe but didn't know which kind until i got to the store. Maybe you should go ahead with your wedding plans and on the d day you do eeeny minny manny moo betwix the two girls. That's how i made the final decision on which shoe to buy and it worked out well.
funny girl |
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sammie256
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igbele thank u sisi_kill u are not serious
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smooooooth
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i am going to be sincere with u and help u sort your feeligs better. u are in love with the first and lusting after the younger one. choose what feeling makes a marriage work for u and know who to choose.
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Ben-10
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How can one be in love with two. . .pls check what you have for the other, cos it aiint loff. I love how you've decided you wanna get married next year even though you don't know to whom.
It reminds me of how last week i knew i wanted a new shoe but didn't know which kind until i got to the store. Maybe you should go ahead with your wedding plans and on the d day you do eeeny minny manny moo betwix the two girls. That's how i made the final decision on which shoe to buy and it worked out well.
Try this, poster and get the beating of ya life. . I wonder whose name would be on the I.V |
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sista-jay (f)
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Poster
You no get problem at all, at all, to solve it simply convert your religion to Islam. That way you are allowed to marry as many as four wives.
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Fiona0007
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^^ No, he wants to marry only one of them.
I'd say wait til next year and see who is left with you, poster. One of them might change their mind too or find someone else.
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The Henrys (m)
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@sisi kill,
You are really tru to your name,so you want to kill him.
@poster,
take sisi kill advice,
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kpolli (m)
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ask Tony Tetuila how he dealt with his own situation that time,
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asscend
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Mr Poster, you are truely not ready to get married. i will suggest that you go back and think properly of what you want. Remember, marriage is not for kids but for men. If at this stage you are still thinking on who it is, the same will happen after you get married. It shows your heart or do i say your privates is not truthful to one lady,
Don't play with your life and that of other women. Choose wisely and not by young or old. Go with your heart and not between your legs. Cheers.
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OAM4J (m)
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I love how you've decided you wanna get married next year even though you don't know to whom.
It reminds me of how last week i knew i wanted a new shoe but didn't know which kind until i got to the store. Maybe you should go ahead with your wedding plans and on the d day you do eeeny minny manny moo betwix the two girls. That's how i made the final decision on which shoe to buy and it worked out well.
Beautiful answer.  |
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dizzywezzy (f)
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Beautiful answer. I second dis, u are a big fool, pls no one should answer him. his lookin 4 attension |
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sammie256
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[quote author=asscend Don't play with your life and that of other women. Choose wisely and not by young or old. Go with your heart and not between your legs. Cheers. Thank you |
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sammie256
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I second dis, u are a big fool, pls no one should answer him. his lookin 4 attension
Am really serious, but i have gotten the answer i needed and i have made my decisions.u just told me that i can not really trust witth important issue.thank u |
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Macgreat (m)
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U said u truly love the first one though older than u, my brother dont let the new girl 2 confuse u over a long built relationship.This is not your first time of knowing her. Her age, character, & all other qualities were supposed 2 be put into consideration b/4 u started. If u truly luv her as u said, carry on cos LOVE IS THE BEDROCK OF ALL RELATIONSHIPS[b][/b]. Consider how she is going feel if u jilt her. Put yourself in her shoes 2 me no consequence but best known 2 u Nice |
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