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jerrymania (m)
Is Masturbation A Sin?
« on: January 06, 2007, 05:27 PM »

Is masturbation a sin? if it is how is it a sin?
Mustay (m)
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #1 on: January 06, 2007, 05:55 PM »

it is a sin cos it deals with d ORGANS!
kiki (f)
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #2 on: January 06, 2007, 06:41 PM »

i don't think it is a sin or where in d Bible does it says it is a sin and where in the bible does it says cos it deals with organs it is a sin
opia (m)
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #3 on: January 06, 2007, 08:08 PM »

Young People Ask . . .

How Serious Is Masturbation?

“I’m wondering if masturbation is wrong in the eyes of God. Will it affect my physical and/or mental health in the future and if I ever get married?”—15-year-old Melissa.

THESE questions have plagued many youths. The reason? Masturbation, or deliberate self-stimulation to produce sexual arousal, is widespread. Reportedly, some 97 percent of males and more than 90 percent of females have masturbated by the age of 21. Furthermore, this practice has been blamed for all manner of ills—from warts and red eyelids to epilepsy and mental illness.

No physical illness, however, has been proved by modern medical research to have been caused by masturbation. Add researchers William Masters and Virginia Johnson: “There is no established medical evidence that masturbation, regardless of frequency, leads to mental illness.”

Nevertheless, many Christian youths are concerned about the gravity of this habit. “When I gave in to it [masturbation], I’d feel as if I were failing Jehovah God,” wrote one youth. “I got seriously depressed sometimes.” Another youth asked: “Is masturbation an unforgivable sin?”

What Does the Bible Say?

Though sexual offenses such as premarital sex (fornication), homosexuality, adultery, and bestiality are plainly condemned as gross sins in the Bible, masturbation is not mentioned. (Genesis 39:7-9; Leviticus 18:20, 22, 23; 1 Corinthians 6:9, 10) Masturbation was common in the Greek-speaking world during Bible times, and several Greek words were used to describe the practice. Interestingly, not one of these words is used in the Bible.

Since masturbation is not directly condemned in the Bible, does this mean it is harmless? Absolutely not! Even those not especially concerned with God’s viewpoint feel uneasy about the practice. For instance, Dr. Aaron Hass in his survey of the sexual practices of 625 teenagers reported: “The majority of adolescents who masturbated reported feeling guilty, ashamed, dirty, stupid, embarrassed, or abnormal.” Surely, masturbation is an unclean habit. But since “uncleanness,” according to the Bible, is a term that allows for a wide range of degree of seriousness, masturbation is not to be classed with such serious sins as fornication or other types of gross sexual immorality.—Ephesians 4:19.

However, God realizes that observing the Bible’s prohibitions against gross sexual immorality is not easy. He, therefore, gives advice on how to avoid sexual immorality. He ‘teaches you to benefit yourself.’ (Isaiah 48:17) The principles of his Word indicate that you “benefit yourself” by strongly resisting this unclean habit, primarily because it . . .

Excites “Sexual Appetite”

“Deaden, therefore, your body members,” urges the Bible, “as respects . . . sexual appetite.” (Colossians 3:5) This “sexual appetite” is not the new sexual sensations that most youths feel during puberty, of which there is no need to be ashamed. “Sexual appetite” exists when these feelings are intensified so that one loses control. Such sexual appetite has led to gross sexual immorality, as described by Paul at Romans 1:26, 27.

But does not masturbation “deaden” these desires? On the contrary, as one youth confessed: “When you masturbate, you dwell mentally on wrong desires, and all that does is increase your appetite for them.” Often an immoral fantasy is used to increase the sexual pleasure. (Matthew 5:27, 28) Given the right circumstances, you can easily fall into immorality. One youth bemoaned after committing fornication: “At one time, I felt that masturbation could relieve frustration without my getting involved with a female. Yet I developed an overpowering desire to do so.” In fact, a nationwide study revealed that of those adolescents who masturbated, the greater number were also committing fornication. They outnumbered those who were virgins by 50 percent! The practice surely had not diminished their “sexual appetite”!

Even if you feel that you could control yourself in a morally dangerous situation, why take the chance by exciting yourself sexually by masturbating? If the opportunity to commit fornication arose, would you really be able to say no?

Mentally and Emotionally Defiling

Masturbation also instills certain attitudes that are mentally corrupting. (Compare 2 Corinthians 11:3.) This habit teaches one to treat his or her body as merely an object to be used for sexual pleasure. When masturbating, a person is immersed in his or her own bodily sensations—totally self-centered. Sex becomes separated from love and is relegated to a reflex that releases tension. But God intended sexual desires to be satisfied in sexual relations, an expression of love between a man and his wife.—Proverbs 5:15-19.

Losing this viewpoint can lead to problems in adjusting to a right relationship with those of the opposite sex. Such ones could be viewed as sex objects rather than as sensitive human beings. One may tend to exploit another as a mere tool for sexual satisfaction. Such wrong attitudes taught by masturbation can defile one’s “spirit,” or dominant mental inclination. For good reason, God’s Word urges: “Beloved ones, let us cleanse ourselves of every defilement of flesh and spirit.” (2 Corinthians 7:1) True, after marriage most couples are able to work out the problems caused by masturbation. Yet, many examples document how difficult and persistent some of these problems can be, often affecting compatibility of a married couple.

But what if a person is striving to overcome this bad habit and, while generally successful, still has problems with it?

A Balanced View of Guilt

Though sin is sin, the Bible does show that God views our wrongdoing as having varying degrees of gravity, and he is very merciful. “For you, O Jehovah, are good and ready to forgive; and the loving-kindness to all those calling upon you is abundant.” (Psalm 86:5) When a Christian succumbs to masturbation, his heart is often self-condemning. Yet, the Bible states that “God is greater than our hearts and knows all things.” (1 John 3:20) God sees more than our sins. The greatness of his knowledge enables him to hear with sympathy our earnest pleas for forgiveness. As one young woman wrote: “I have felt guilty to an extent, but knowing what a loving God Jehovah is and that he can read my heart and know all my efforts and intentions keeps me from feeling too depressed when I fail on occasion.” By fighting masturbation, it is not likely that you will commit the serious sin of fornication.

The February 15, 1954, issue of our companion magazine, The Watchtower, stated: “We [may] find ourselves stumbling and falling many times over some bad habit that has bitten more deeply into our former pattern of life than we had realized. Then we are inclined to feel very discouraged and quite unworthy . . . Do not despair. Do not conclude you have committed the unforgivable sin. That is just how Satan would like you to reason. The fact that you feel grieved and vexed with yourself is proof in itself that you have not gone too far. Never weary of turning humbly and earnestly to God, seeking his forgiveness and cleansing and help. Go to him as a child goes to his father when in trouble, no matter how often on the same weakness, and Jehovah will graciously give you the help because of his undeserved kindness and, if you are sincere, he will give you the realization of a cleansed conscience.”

[Footnotes]

God executed Onan for ‘wasting his semen on the earth.’ However, interrupted intercourse, not masturbation, was involved. Furthermore, the execution was because Onan selfishly failed to perform brother-in-law marriage in order to continue his deceased brother’s family line. (Genesis 38:1-10) The “emission of semen” mentioned at Leviticus 15:16-18 apparently refers, not to masturbation, but to a nocturnal emission as well as to marital sex relations.

The original Greek word for “sexual appetite” (pa′thos) was used by the first-century historian Josephus to describe the wife of Potiphar, who, because of an “excess of passion [pa′thos],” tried to seduce the youth Joseph; and the man Amnon, who, “burning with desire and goaded by the spur of passion [pa′thos], violated [raped] his sister.” The passion both of Potiphar’s wife and of Amnon was out of control.—Genesis 39:7-12; 2 Samuel 13:10-14.

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Though masturbation may cause strong guilt feelings, sincere prayer for God’s forgiveness and hard work to resist the practice can give one a good conscience

shahan (f)
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #4 on: January 06, 2007, 10:42 PM »

Bless!  Smiley
Eurphoria (f)
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #5 on: January 06, 2007, 11:33 PM »

yes it is, i have done it i won't lie---**i am a work in progress pls**
yes the bible says its a sin.
chudy (m)
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #6 on: January 07, 2007, 11:39 PM »

i believe that masturbation is a sin cos it has to do with the corruption of the mind. remember that there are three ways we could sin, either by thinking about it, carrying the act out, the third, find that out urself. wat i am saying is that it is already bad enough for us to concieve it and then practice it. its a sin against God and it must be stopped. Angry
Amobi 1 (m)
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #7 on: January 09, 2007, 10:05 PM »

matarbation is good;
    Most people doesn't rape girls because of mast,  it helps a lot,  trust me,
jerrymania (m)
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #8 on: January 09, 2007, 10:09 PM »

@ amobi

matarbation??? u smoke weed wen u dey write or u nor know anything at all??
Amobi 1 (m)
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #9 on: January 09, 2007, 10:21 PM »

oga u understand me now!!!

mastarbation is good;
    Most people doesn't rape girls because of mast,  it helps a lot,  trust me. it makes you to study instead of thinking of woman all the time, no hiv, etc
eslynera (f)
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #10 on: January 09, 2007, 10:24 PM »

@jerry, lol everyone makes mistakes. Tongue
Amobi 1 (m)
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #11 on: January 09, 2007, 10:26 PM »

leave that porthacourt fufu!! he should be happy am chating with him,
jerrymania (m)
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #12 on: January 09, 2007, 10:33 PM »

See my point was that the guy doesnt construct his words well. Dont know if amobi got good vocabulary. US suppose help u now!
Amobi 1 (m)
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #13 on: January 09, 2007, 10:39 PM »

wat, You don't construct vocabs but sentence so "nwa banana" what r you saying. and what do you mean by "US"?
eslynera (f)
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #14 on: January 09, 2007, 10:45 PM »

cant answer if he din't ask me. Cheesy Grin
Eurphoria (f)
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #15 on: January 10, 2007, 02:24 AM »

Quote from: Amobi 1 on January 09, 2007, 10:21 PM
oga u understand me now!!!

mastarbation is good;
 Most people doesn't rape girls because of mast, it helps a lot, trust me. it makes you to study instead of thinking of woman all the time, no hiv, etc

UNREAL
Mr Ian
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #16 on: December 03, 2007, 12:13 AM »

Well then Men,

Theres a big PROBLEM, Once you have figured out whether or not masturbating is a sin or not, what are you going to do about it anyway?

Who do you know that has been able to say "I used to masturbate every day, and now, I have not for 3 months"? Not many.

My point is that if unless you understand what masturbation does to your BRAIN, you will have no chance in stopping.

If you can answer this questions of why do we do it, and so often, then you really will still have no chance of destroying the habit for longer than 3 weeks ( some cannot stop for over 3 days hey ).

I tried to stop for over 10 years, its a real monster to slay, but, guess what I SOLVED THE RIDDLE and I the simple steps I used have helped 100,000 plus guys break the habit.

So what changes can you expect when you stop mastubating every week, or every day?

Guess what! it makes a massive difference to your energy, peace, focus, relationships, sexual performance and satisfaction (for both of you), I could go on. Did I mention it is fantastic to feel in control again!

I am so stoked to be free from the addiction,

You will never know if you are addicted until you try to stop, If you have not gone 10 days without masturbating, chances are you are in for a real shock when you try to stop.

If you want to take control and destroy the habit of porn, crazy thoughts, inappropriate desires, and masturbation, then drop me a line and I will help you out.

Peace to all the guys who are loving the habit still, enjoy it while you still believe your in control.


Have an awesome day!


Ian

raffite
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #17 on: March 28, 2008, 04:52 PM »


RULES OF MASTURBATION:

1. Anybody that says it is not a sin is into it
2. Those that say it is a sin can not be trusted
conny
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #18 on: March 29, 2008, 06:31 PM »

sex addiction,porn addiction and masturbation is a big problem,you will never know till you try to stop
try go a week with out em and see

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anything that is an addiction is a mini god,you must serve it regularly,it takes your time,your planning,your money,energy,it pushes all the important stuff behind,and you gain NOTHING,imagine what you could have done with the time you spent masturbating or planning to masturbate or watchin porn-you could be sleepin well rested for the next day,you could be reading,you could be nurturing a very important relationship,you could be praying
think about it
 Embarrassed
kola oloye (m)
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #19 on: April 02, 2008, 12:32 PM »

yes, it is a sin
JayFK (m)
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #20 on: April 02, 2008, 01:41 PM »

So let's say you're married, you're away on a trip and you're very horny.  You masturbate to your wife.  Does "teh lord" consider that a sin?  Also, one would think he would be more concerned about more important things.
Pastor AIO
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #21 on: April 02, 2008, 01:47 PM »

IF you masturbate you'll go blind and hair will grow from your palms.
zarazara
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #22 on: April 13, 2008, 10:52 PM »

I think it is a sin. It's self-pleasure which is selfish and it doesn't glorify God,
Abuzola (m)
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #23 on: April 14, 2008, 06:50 AM »

Mr lan, plz how do i stop masturbation, for good 2 years i can't be without it though i ve attempted to stop bt abortive
ukoma (m)
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #24 on: April 14, 2008, 07:45 AM »

I agree with Zarazara, it is a sin and it does not glorify God.
moreover, there are lots of side effects that accompany it.

Quote from: Abuzola on April 14, 2008, 06:50 AM
Mr lan, plz how do i stop masturbation, for good 2 years i can't be without it though i ve attempted to stop bt abortive

although it may not be easy,you can stop it.make sure you get the thoughts off your mind whenever it comes up and try not to stay alone at such times.better still, ask God to help you get out of it for there is nothing beyond God.all the best.
Abuzola (m)
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #25 on: April 14, 2008, 09:02 AM »

I ve fasted & prayed many time, i also don't lyk it cuz i feel guilty after it, Is like am pocessed with evil spirit.   
Abuzola (m)
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #26 on: April 14, 2008, 09:23 AM »

When i use the internet or TV, or indecent dressing i get irrigated,  though i don't masturbate everyday.may God help us
Abuzola (m)
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #27 on: April 14, 2008, 09:28 AM »

Am a very handsome young guy and attractive, so i segregate myself from d  girls cuz temptation can come frm her or me 
ukoma (m)
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #28 on: April 14, 2008, 10:40 AM »

I know its not easy, but it is achievable and do-able.dont limit yourself to a particular approach, try to tell yourself you can stop it, its just like a habit you intend stopping.do your best and as I said earlier on,God is always there to help you if you ask from Him with a faithful heart without doubt that you can stop that act.
Abuzola (m)
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #29 on: April 15, 2008, 12:48 AM »

Tanx ukoma, plz note dat am not the one who masturbates oo, its my friend, i talked on his behalf to get a good respond
Abuzola (m)
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #30 on: April 15, 2008, 12:48 AM »

Thanx ukoma, plz note dat am not the one who masturbates oo, its my friend, i talked on his behalf to get a good respond
Abuzola (m)
Re: Is Masturbation A Sin?
« #31 on: April 15, 2008, 12:56 AM »

Islamically a person who masturbates will go to hell fire becus of wasting his semen. God forbid i should masturbate.   
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