Closeness

how can u get close to a lady wtout havn sex wt her as in real close stayn together 2 4

this issue of sex sef (shakes head)

Dude just google your topic, we don't have to explain it, how old are you sef, if you don't know this kind of stuff.

KIDNAP?----- anyone?

I think he means close in a figurative sense, and not literal. Like he wants a deep relationship with a girl.

I mean, if you want that, just listen to her when she talks and show that you have interest in her beyond sexual things. Don't have superficial conversations, really get to know her. Like likes and dislikes (and then expand on that, like why she/you dislikes that). Talk about politics, your life, future plans, things you used to do when you were young, just something different. And it's always important to open up, if you want there to be a comfort level, you have to be able to tell each other anything and everything. So you can start by sharing things that you might not tell people, and then hope that she will be able to do the same. And always let her know that if she needs advice, help, or whatever she can come to you. And don't be quick to judge. That should do it, if I understood your question correctly.

the point has been made ,sex is not everything going by way of morals it is bad in GOD'S eyes