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ebony21 (f)
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Ok, my friend introduced Timi to me @ her wedding in LDN. From the first time I saw him, I had a crush on him. We chatted @ d wedding n got along really well. we even left 2gether, In nutshell, I am currently in a relationship and i'm happy wif my boo but i cant take my mind off Timi. If i dnt hear from him 4 2days I feel like a part of me is missing  . He didnt ask me out but we r vry close n talk alot. We ve only gone out 2gether once since i met him ( i wont CALL IT a date  ) . I dnt understand y i ve dis sort of affection 4 him (its really not a sexual kind of affection though). all i can think about is him n its ovr 3 wks nw, i tried to stop talkin to him. I went as far as discouraging him from calling me n i also deleted his contact details frm my phone but it didnt wrk. K d backgroud story is dat--~~~-- i jus moved frm one city to a new city. n i'm nt vry good @ makin new friends although i ve few male friends in d city i am in now. Or is it cos my boyfriend doesn't stay in d same city as me . i dnt wanna cheat on him  . Pls help me, (I'M in a DILEMMA). PLS NO INSULTS N MOCKERY . |
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FierceDiva
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ebony21, i understand what you mean girl. i would advise that you stick to your man. its really a privilege to have a relationship that is going smoothly particularly in this kind of century we are in. its not worth it to lose your man over some silly crush. you will regret it later dear. forget about him and stick to your boo. its difficult but deal with it, never see the other guy again or it will be more difficult. try and communicate more with your guy, you can even discuss how you feel with him. i have been away from my man for 3 months and talking to him about it worked for me. An advice from experience.
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tommieze
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may be we can talk about it. call me up on 08065249981. trust me i am a speciallist
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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Ok, my friend introduced Timi to me @ her wedding in LDN. From the first time I saw him, I had a crush on him. We chatted @ d wedding n got along really well. we even left 2gether, In nutshell, I am currently in a relationship and i'm happy wif my boo but i cant take my mind off Timi. If i dnt hear from him 4 2days I feel like a part of me is missing . He didnt ask me out but we r vry close n talk alot. We ve only gone out 2gether once since i met him ( i wont CALL IT a date ) . I dnt understand y i ve dis sort of affection 4 him (its really not a sexual kind of affection though). all i can think about is him n its ovr 3 wks nw, i tried to stop talkin to him. I went as far as discouraging him from calling me n i also deleted his contact details frm my phone but it didnt wrk. K d backgroud story is dat--~~~-- i jus moved frm one city to a new city. n i'm nt vry good @ makin new friends although i ve few male friends in d city i am in now. Or is it cos my boyfriend doesn't stay in d same city as me . i dnt wanna cheat on him . Pls help me, (I'M in a DILEMMA). PLS NO INSULTS N MOCKERY . Your happy with your man and he's done nothing to upset you so why jeopardize that for something you ain't sure about? Girl if your wise enough. . .you'll know the grass isn't always greener at the other end and you'll stick with your man!  |
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sexybabes (f)
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Gal don't jeopardize your relationship for a crush. I know how difficult it is to be far from your man, I've been in a long distance relationship myself and I know how tempting it can be sometimes. Every time u think of this Timi character as you said you cant stop thinking about him or even thinking of doing something silly just call your man and talk to him instead. Trust me it works. We all human so it doesn't mean you are not going to be attracted to other men just because you have a man and happy with him, its just the matter of prioritizing and faithfulness so if you know how much he means to you then you already know what to do.
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ebony21 (f)
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Thnks guyz
@Fiercediva
Wow, Hw will i break it down to my boo dat i have a crush on some guy,
@Sexybabes
thnks girl, calling my boo actually worked
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sexybabes (f)
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Thnks guyz
@Fiercediva
Wow, Hw will i break it down to my boo dat i have a crush on some guy,
@Sexybabes
thnks girl, calling my boo actually worked
Gud gal. Keep doin dt b4 u knw it u'll b sayn Timi who? Lol! |
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earthrealm (m)
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yeah, it happens.u just gotta tsit back, n think very well, the start of a new relationship is always extra sweet.thats prolly what u r feeling now
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koolboi (m)
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just tell your boo after u have fucked enuf of timi. he ll not take it against u if he is your boo
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Macgreat (m)
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Is okay to cheat in video games
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ebony21 (f)
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@ Platos
FCUK Timi!!!!!!! ( hmmm trial n error innit)
@koolboi
wut an advice lol
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omega25red (m)
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I guess i would like to know if you had a chance to be with him at the wedding or were you attached then?  Also i think you are lusting after this guy and you are emotionally cheating on your so called boo. I bet if you had the chance you will physically cheat with this guy too. If i were you i would start reevaluating your current relationship because it might be time to move on and you should never wait for a guy to ask you out if you like him and you know he is single. good luck |
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omega25red (m)
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As in were you single when you were introduced to him and because he didn't ask you out, you didn't make a move yourself or were you already with your boo when you met him at the wedding and you were already plotting your escape from your unsuspecting boo??? That was what i meant |
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ebony21 (f)
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oh no i was n still in a relationship whn i met him.
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platos
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wat sort of sh**t is dis? why giv urself headache over such a fucking little matter, i said FCUK TIMI BUT dont break up wit your boo
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platos
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@ poster ebony or wt did u call your name, wat part of london are u sef? u know u only hav only one life to live so enjoy it  |
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