He Abandoned Her. Now He Wants "His Son" Back.

Its quite confusing and shocking but i don't know what to say:a cousin of mine got impregnated by a guy when she was in school, he denied his responsibility but a few months before she put to bed,he came back and accepted, though his parents and  relatives never showed up even till date.He never contributed to the up keep of the baby or the mother,it was the girl's parents that took everything up.He stopped comin to see them again after sometime,abandoning and neglecting them for about 4 years.Now the innocent girl has graduated,has a job and is already in another sweet relationship with a caring,responsible and loving guy who accepted her and her baby.The useless father now decided to show his face again,claiming that he still love her and he wants her and his baby back.
What do u think?because its quite obvious that the guy in question doesnt really love her,and   he has always been a player to the core,has no sense of responsibility and i don't think he has changed.please what step do u think can be taken?

  The so called father, should not be allowed back, no matter what. I won't tolerate such nonsense, if I was her i'd give him a piece of my mind. I don't have time for such idiots who come claim their "children" when one struggled to bring them up and was even humuliated and hurt by all those terrible words thrown at ya.

She must just not bother with him, let him stay away. He won't even win in court. He should come to my country and see how such man are treated.

Idiot

[b]Warn that guy never to show his ugly face again.
if he does so, you can report him to the nearest police station

am sure by the time he spend a week in jail, he won't bother you again

Yes i strongly agree, try, hard as it maybe, you friend should not deny the child his father, she should try not to look at it as being for him, rather for her child. Your friend knows him for the unreliable so and so that he is , and it is not for her to tell her child this about the father,. Trust me in time, if this guy continues to be unreliable, his child will grow to see for himself and then decide if he wants his father in his life or not.

She should try and swallow her pride, do away with the hurt and anger, it is not easy but she must try . She at the end of the day knows he is a no gooder, and now that she has her life on track , she should just tell him not to dare expect her to fall into his arms, he can look after his child but she must tell him where to go regarding him and her.