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Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by Godmother(f): 10:11am On Nov 09, 2009
There is this chick I know. We are not really close, just on a hi-hi level. She is getting married next month and I even collected her aso-ebi in church yesterday. The problem is that the guy in question she is getting married to is gay.

There's a gay club in my hood which the guy frequents a lot. I didn't want to base my conclusions on that, but the guys in my neighbourhood confirmed that the guy is actually gay. My question is should I throw hints to this girl or just ignore since its not like we are actually friends.
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by KennyG6(m): 10:25am On Nov 09, 2009
MIND YOUR BUSINESS, angry angry angry angry angry

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Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by izeek(m): 10:32am On Nov 09, 2009
since when did u become a gay watcher!
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by Shola2009(m): 10:37am On Nov 09, 2009
MIND YOUR BUSINESS,
simple.
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by frank317: 10:39am On Nov 09, 2009
how does that concern you? I suspect that you like this guy and want to have him for urself
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by Nobody: 10:41am On Nov 09, 2009
So what makes you think she doesent know already
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by Godmother(f): 10:49am On Nov 09, 2009
frank3.16:

how does that concern you? I suspect that you like this guy and want to have him for urself

You have got to be kidding!! Me, like a gay? Do I look like a wacko to you?  angry Lol

Ujujoan:

So what makes you think she doesent know already 

Alrit, I'll mind my business.Just that my heart feel heavy for her, that's all. I just put myself in her shoes and I know in that situation I'd want someone to tell me
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by Abbeycity4(f): 10:56am On Nov 09, 2009
Singing >>>>> wat God has joined 2geda let no Godmother put assender
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by Abbeycity4(f): 11:00am On Nov 09, 2009
Godmother, nt dat u can't tell her but nt wen d wedding i.v or asho ebi is already out it's too late 2tell her such. . . . .
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by izeek(m): 11:28am On Nov 09, 2009
thats how people dont mind thier bussiness.

how are u sure she doesnt know.

just come for the wedding, thats all u was invited for.
leave the extra info for those that have been accorded the right to give it.
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by Tcharged: 11:40am On Nov 09, 2009
Don't tell her anything.
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by ammamat(f): 11:44am On Nov 09, 2009
Don't tell her, make she no think say , u no want make she marry oh, make she find our herself oh,
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by TheSeeker(m): 11:52am On Nov 09, 2009
Your hi-hi friend wan marry you still dey house as a spinster dey plan coup to halt another woman's wedding. Shameless!
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by izeek(m): 11:57am On Nov 09, 2009
well theseeker just played out the situation.
u just want her to remain single like u do!

let her be, as i suspect she already knows .
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by Abbeycity4(f): 12:03pm On Nov 09, 2009
the seeker dat's too harsh nw grin
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by Godmother(f): 12:23pm On Nov 09, 2009
Na wa o. Some of you guys are making it seem as if marrying is the ultimate, even if the guy in question is a basket case. I'd rather remain a happy spinter till the "correct" guy comes than become an unhappy married woman and cry in the confines of my room everday
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by Nobody: 12:25pm On Nov 09, 2009
Just let him be. You don't even know if he's trying to turn a new leave. thats if he's really gay.
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by edoyad(m): 12:45pm On Nov 09, 2009
grin Fairy godmother as noble as your intentions might be, better mind your binezz. As a Nigerian girl you should know that your sisters nor dey joke with marriage at all. Infact the whole darn thing could back fire on you(and i'm sure it definitely will if you talk).

Infact i can predict her reaction.
". . . . god mother ko, good fellas ni. So It's my own marriage you want to destroy eh ? E no go better for you and the children wey you go fit born.
Neighbours ! Neighbooooours iioo ! ! Make una bring petrol and tyre make we destroy our enemies " grin grin
BE WARNED !
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by skittles18(f): 12:49pm On Nov 09, 2009
Godmother don't mind your own business tell the lady that he's gay or she's not going to have a happy life
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by 190yaris1: 12:55pm On Nov 09, 2009
Godmother

Just keep it to yourself after all u aint close to the girl in question here~


@theseeker

u wan start fight now abi?
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by Godmother(f): 1:03pm On Nov 09, 2009
Thank you, jare 190 and dont mind The seeker.

He's so different from the one in Legend of The Seeker
That one would never let anyone come to harm when he can help it tongue grin
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by firedancer(f): 1:15pm On Nov 09, 2009
hmmmm Godmother is looking for a Godfather so they ll have Godchildren not minding the fact that the guy involved is Godgay, so let her do the amebo ooo wink
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by TheSeeker(m): 1:59pm On Nov 09, 2009
izeek:

well theseeker just played out the situation.
u just want her to remain single like u do!

let her be, as i suspect she already knows .

Abi oooo!! No mind am!!! You sure say na the same Godmother wey I know for NL dey post this thing abi dem hack her account? Mscheeeewwww angry

Abbey_city:

the seeker dat's too harsh nw grin
You think? Then you don't want to hear the truth

skittles18:

Godmother don't mind your own business tell the lady that he's gay or she's not going to have a happy life
Yes, she should because she's what, her sister's keeper? Olofofo oshi. . . abi ojugun l'ege eti angry
190.yaris:

Godmother

Just keep it to yourself after all u aint close to the girl in question here~


@theseeker

u wan start fight now abi?
Start fight with who? Hope say no be with you? Because if na you, you don already lose. You know now grin cool

Godmother:

Thank you, jare 190 and dont mind The seeker.

He's so different from the one in Legend of The Seeker
That one would never let anyone come to harm when he can help it tongue grin
Yes, just as I don't want you to harm your reputation; telling her now will put you in a bad shape with her thinking you want to wreck her marriage, and to be honest, do you have a marriage going? No!! This is not what I'm saying, it's what she's going to think or tell her friends after you have finished your ranting.

What happens if you tell her, and she's like, "Thank you so very much, but he already told me and we've sorted it out. You see, he loves me and I love him so dearly; and nothing in the world will make me leave him."? I bet you'll walk away in shame wishing you never did talk.
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by lovemoi2(f): 3:10pm On Nov 09, 2009
mind yah business!!!! finish :-x
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by SisiKill1: 3:17pm On Nov 09, 2009
How much is the aso ebi. . . This is what will determine if i'll tell or not coz there's no way in hell i'm gonna spend alot of money on cloth for a wedding i'm 90% sure won't take place and even if it takes place, the marriage won't last. Shooooo!
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by Godmother(f): 3:40pm On Nov 09, 2009
@Sisi-kill
The aso-ebi is 7500 for six yards

Ok o, I have heard you all and I'll mind my business and not say a word, even if it kills me
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by Macgreat(m): 8:40pm On Nov 09, 2009
Godmother:

@Sisi-kill
The aso-ebi is 7500 for six yards

Ok o, I have heard you all and I'll mind my business and not say a word, even if it kills me

Waste. . . grin
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by deji2009(m): 9:01pm On Nov 09, 2009
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There is this chick I know. We are not really close, just on a hi-hi level. She is getting maaried next month and I even collected her aso-ebi in church yesterday. The problem is that the quy in question she is getting married to is gay.

There's a gay club in my hood which the guy frequents a lot.I didnt want to base my conclusions on that, but the guys in my neighbourhood confirmed that the guy is actually gay. My question is should I throw hints to this girl or just ignore since its not like we are actually friends.

Womens ! what are you like ?  cheesy
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by anims: 9:26pm On Nov 09, 2009
what God has join together let no chic put asunder,u hear?.
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by victorazy(m): 9:33pm On Nov 09, 2009
whats ur business
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by SisiKill1: 9:54pm On Nov 09, 2009
7500 for aso ebi? For a girl i only have a hi-hi relationship with? And there's on refund? Nah! I'm not gonna play myself like that. . . Not even. Sooner rather than later, some bride to be will be getting an anonymous phone call about their husband to be's down low lifestyle. 7k is not a joke.

Wait a sec. . .They have gay bars in Naija now? Lmao! All sorts of orishirishi.
Re: Her Fiance Is Gay. Should I Do Amebo? by Igwe9(m): 10:17pm On Nov 09, 2009
@Godmother sweetie, if being a guy is bad insomuch that could stop people from being husband and wife, please do discuss it with your minister of God, let him do the work, else, no one holy pass.

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