After They Lose Their Virginity They Want More

because when they loose their virginity they feel there's nothing more to keep. So they just keep having sex.!

For example you have not been eating rice one day you decide to test rice and finds out that rice is sweet, what do you do. You will be demanding rice all the time isn't it?

thank you for your input. many folks loose control of their will power once they start. they are willing to be the 2nd wife , or dwell in relationships that they are abused or cheated on. ok good comments but why is it that once people have lost it, they want others to loose it. they just tell them "good things" and say go ahead do it. I think thats unfair for non V**** to encourage vi***** to give away their "treasured possession". many folks after loosing their V*** do not have self worth. many disrespect their body a lot and treat as cheap what God made to be sacred in the bonds of marriage. I think if people remain celibate/abstain, there would be less of STDs, unwanted pregnancies, abortions, broken hearts, etc.  I think that a woman/man  would feel less cheated/less pain in disolving a relationship where there is no premarital sex . same goes 4 a guy. please before you play on that woman think about this you don't want other men taking advantage of your future wife or your sister. same goes 4 a woman, u don't want other women treating your brother/future husband as a draining machine. drain him of his money , play with his heart and dump him. Please let us treat our bodies with respect. I think the fight is not "make abortion legal" or feminism. the fight is how to say "no" as a woman. Onyeka sang "if you love me , you would wait for me". as a woman you don't want men to see you as a whore. but sorry they would call you one if you behave like one. I know of a guy who was living with his girl friend and each time they fight he calls her a "whore". he says "yes I'call her that because she is cheap, why is she living with me, if she's not one". I think some women act worst than whores. at least a whore does it for money but many women sell their bodies for nothing. I am not being judgemental because I know all have sinned , whether its lying or whatever, sin is sin but I am saying we shoud reconsider for the sake of a good concience, . what goes around comes around. reflect on this words. would you feel comfortable facing your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend  in the presense of your future husband/wife. hmm. sins of the past follow people ooo.don't think you can get away with breaking hearts just like that.
to the issue of respect, I have noticed that many men treat "untouched " women with more respect than women who appear cheap. I think when a woman gives in the first time, after that , it is much easier to get her to bed. so please sisters, we should value ourselves. remember you earn respect, if you respect yourself, others would respect you.
ok to the issue of consequences, have you read of stories where a woman kills a man on the bed, or a man kills a woman or steals body parts. you don't want to put yourselves in such risks.
dear brothers and sisters do you want to be a role model to your kids or to future generations, I think the area of purity is very important. also to sisters who are unmarried , I have discovered that the more people sleep around the less likely the guy is to marry them.I also discovered that many men delay sex if they really want to marry a woman . I have heard of so many stories where a guy would live /date a girl for 7 years, he keeps sleeping with her and never proposes to her, then he sees another girl and 3 months later, they get married. please you don't want to be treated like a "cheap, good for nothing sex machine. you want to be treated with respect and pride. not someone who everyone has "used and dumped". you want to be able to tell your daughters  "I kept myself for your dad, please keep yourselves,". Please fellows let us keep ourselves pure , I know there are temptatiions out there but with God's help we can be celibate or Virgins when we marry. I know marriage has challenges but at least you can say I did my bit in this area. I can keep speaking on and on but I shall stop here, bottom line, Please keep yourselves pure.

I have a friend who's had sex before. He keeps telling me I'm fucking up and that I should hook myself up with a girl and have fun. I just smile when he's saying it.

Funny enough, this same friend of mine says he's had it only once and he doesn't want to do it again. He says there's nothing special about sex.

The reason why girls want to lose their virginity is so they can be 'free' to have sex with any hunk that passes their way.  [shakes head].  So once they lose the virginity it's like "Eureka, no more virginity to worry about!  Now I can sleep with as many men as possible, yay!" 

So what you're observing is not an addiction or afterthought, it's the original plan of those girls.  The person that disvirgins them doesn't really matter; all they want is to be set free to go and boink, boink, boink.

YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEPAAAAAAAAAAAAA.... haAaaaaaaaaaa!! Did she really say that?? 

Mamba, I don't understand u oo...1 week??!!

So when u didn't get through during the 30mins - 1hr, what did u use the rest of the time for?

LAYI!


seun youve told us why gals want to loose their virginity, what about guys? why do they want to loose thiers cause guys can also loose their virginity can't they?

MAMBA! youre really a snake! Finishing what you started indeed!

methinks there's an obsession with virginity on this forum 


wow i didn't know "Virginity"' bestowed such special powers on women and stopped them from being too promiscuous, get real please,  i knew of a girl who was a virgin but was known as the 'mouthblower'    she was a 'virgin' but her mouth surely wasn't...



from a biological point of view, there's nothing for a guy to lose, the woman wouldn't really know if it was his first time unless he puts it in the wrong place 

@ singer, Great encouraging and wise words, most especially on the issue of STDs. keep spreading the word sister! i'm with you on that one!

well, i feel sorry for such men because they do not realise that women are much more than that!

 :-x

yea,it's sweet

wonder who licks sugar first and stops licking it.