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aqua (m)
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Hi guys. I have a friend who has zero experience when it comes to girls what more he is shy. He is in love, really in love with a girl. How or what steps does he need to take to get this heart of his. Remember he is shy so he will be using email. Girls what would you want the guy to do so you will notice him and guys steps please?
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hot-angel (f)
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Your friend or you?
Anyways... my main advice is that, he should just be him.
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layi (m)
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Its obvious this is U because it seems u know not better.
Anyway as for email...He should get that off his mind except he's ready to edate, ekiss, etalk, etouch and emarry.
Send him this words.
"How do you want to date a girl you can't talk to. How will u be talking to her if u win her. U've got to talk to her because you're going to be talking to her for d rest of your life (hopefully). If you can't talk to her now, U r never going to talk to her. So step up your game, get off your butt and go talk to her".
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cheekee (f)
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seems to me that he's not a man enough!how can he be afraid of a chicork he reallly loves?i can advice him to probably GROW UP!!!!or else he's going to suffer for something he can help himself....
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aqua (m)
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Hot-one and layi you girls sure think you are smart. well in some way that was me and my friend ten years ago in secondary school when we could not talk to girls well me i don open eyes for university while he was not that lucky since we went to seperate universities. Met him recently and asked if he had overcome our problem imagine my shock when he told me nah. Anyway trust me i gave him my special steps. I just decided to put it in the forum to know what u guys will say. Thank you for making me laugh.
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Oracle (m)
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if a girl likes u she likes u
if she doent then she doesnt itz a simple fact
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aqua (m)
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@ chillipepper. i be witch wey i go confess?
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hot-angel (f)
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Is the question, How to get a girl to notice him or HOW TO APPROACH A GIRL. A guy that can't approach a girl, can't get a girl to notice him. Layi has said it.. TALK TALK. You see if it's only notice.. U can go the earthly way. Just be flashy! She'll deff know that there's one flashy guy arround the block. But if she notices you and you can't talk to her.. You are screwed! Being shy only put you in trouble.. tell ur friend to just try hard and overcome shyness. Overcoming shyness |
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aqua (m)
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I think prayer and fasting go cure his shyness. I will arrange prayer meeting with him.:-D
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hot-angel (f)
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hehehehe... Prayer and fasting ehh?? That whole fasting thing is long journey. Just go and Bath his head in "omi odo".. River! And wash his head with "kain kain" Sponge.  with "ose dudu" black soap. |
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layi (m)
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What are you washing away? The little confidence he's got to tell u his prob? Haba! after the ritual..he'll become too shy to even talk to his mother. Nor try am o.
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Bilspop (m)
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U guys make me laugh alot. Thanks for that. Come to think of it, lets feel 4 this guy. Such shyness once 'lived' with me but it has 'packed' now. Though, it comes visiting sometimes. Just tell your friend to b himself. He should hav it in his mind that the girl can't kill him for excusing her. Once he got there and after introduction, words will some, since feeling is inside. He should go along wt d flow. 'ose dudu'(black soap) + 'omi odo' (river water) wil just clean up d dirts in his body. And even if he fasts, he stil need to talk to the girl. We all expel air. Tell him its not fire that comes out of d girls mouth. Also, let him knw that time is nt on his side. Girls got easily hooked these days
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Bilspop (m)
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Words wil come
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layi (m)
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Words wil come
U sumed it all. Thats the problem with most shy guys. They keep wondering-"Wetin I go talk?" but hardly think of that when meetin another guy for the first time. Its a complex i guess. Tell him the girl is just as human as he is. She nor go kill am. The worst is she'll say No. Even though i always subscribe to the friends first tactic. Its d best for assurance and insurance purpose.  In fact all ladies love beign toasted. If you're nice, u'll be warmly received. |
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raregroove (m)
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Mr Shy guy, launch yourself into a situation, where you can have a casual chat with her (nothing heavy), on closure tell her that you'll like to see her again, maybe you'll be rewarded with some promise (her digits to start of with) or maybe you'll get punished, but that comes with the territory. Just remember you're a prisoner until she sets you free with her "kiss of life", don't you forget that ole'boy!  |
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chillin (f)
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heyyy aquaa!! wetin u juss call me?? chillipepper?? lol mehn!! ohh yeahh bk 2 bznezz...i guess u sld tell d guy 2 do as hot-angel said...but hez gatta watch out 4 layiz point oooo before d guy wasssh every thang comot! lol lol na wa!!!
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WesleyanA (f)
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aqua, i thought you said girls were fake . . |
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hot-angel (f)
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Now he wants to get em to notice him. ?
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christyne (f)
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I think he should try n be bold.Remember dt any relatnship dt starts wit frdship last longer.He should first approach her as a frd before talkin to her about love.Never think about what will i tell her,words will definitely come.Success.
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aqua (m)
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@ da808 and hot one. You are right baby. You can imagine ma horror when they strip and you start asking what da.... when did i toast this person. #Jumping out of my skin#. The best thing is to find babe early in the morning when they are just waking upwhen the wowoness can be viewed in true form  |
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otokx (m)
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after a couple of email exchanges, he should set an e-razzling session using yahoo messenger where he will move from general to specifics, then if the cash is there he could move to phone calling (but not for long because its very distressing) then he could arrange a 'little' get together 1 on 1 at a private joint.
PS He has to be versatile in the art of sweet talking and resource control or he will end up with a voice loss and an empty bank account.
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chillin (f)
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heyy adeoba!! what do do?? what u'v juss said makes alotta sense dawg! u new rite.welcome to the land...i'v gatt sum 2 say tho...why u no even use your full name since u'v gatt your first name?? na wa! |
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aqua (m)
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@otokx thanx man your style seems to be the best will let my friend in on that. |
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mikebuddy (m)
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Hahahaahahah ;Dwell this tin dey happen too much to many guys,let me advice him just tell ur friend to b flashy after that he can start with hi gurl,i am this and u r ? if the gurl asnwers then he proceeds like this asking her about her abode what brought her there and so on,bt vey stupid asking her can we b friends at 1st meet ::)it's craze.well more training pay me!hahahaha
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madam (f)
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take off ur pants... she definitely would notice u
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ldollier (f)
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hahaha its easy.. impress her with m o n e y |
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timmy (m)
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spen the money man $$$$$$$ |
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jummiee (f)
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Women are emotional creatures, and once u can tap into that, it's easy to get that girl of your dreams , even if she doesnt like or notice you at first, just do these 5 things and you could end up captivating her 1. Talk 2. Talk 3. Talk 4. Talk 5. Talk. that's right my brother , jus like layi and hot angel suggested, keep on talking (don't yarn rubbish though, it might just backfire), talk about the things she likes, and if you don't know, find out, do you homework, then initiate those things into conversations with her. Above all, be sincere, if you jus want to play around, she would know instinctively, believe me, women have a 6th sense about that. |
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kelvin (m)
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Why would your friend want that Just kidding... I sure don't know how.. |
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