I'm In Love With My Boss

aite it a bad 2 go 4 your boss even though uv gatta feelin 4 him or eachother while d 2 of you're still workin 2geda its ganna come 2 an unexpected end that u d humiliation will want 2 get u into another thing u just need 2 get control over your emotions and don't let your body dictate for you if u get what i mean     gd luck!!!!

Oh My God. NOOoOOOO *Prays that fire girl hasn't quitted her job* *Asks that God should answer my prayer*.

Oh no no darl. No no. Don't quit your job for a married man. He has a wife and you are okay with that? Okay yes i believe that you are happy and it's the best thing that has ever happened to you.

But come on now hun, there are better things that could happen to you. Things like you leaving that Boss of yours alone, and facing your job, and in the process you might find a young man who isn't married.

You are telling me that your boss is not lying to you? You think he's honest. WHere is honesty when a man has a wife at home and makes you believe that he loves you?  I believe that if someone loves you enough, he would want to be with you and wouldn't want to make you 'second choice'. Right now, he has a wife, and that automatically makes her first choice.

I am not in any way trying to tell you that you are . . . . . ohh hell, that's what i am trying to say. YOU ARE on The Wrong track. 

You might be in love wit this boss of yours, but you should know that dating a married man isn't really the best way to go. And Not just that, Also quitting a job you love isn't enough sacrifice to make for this man.  Why be the one to make the sacrifice?

I'm sure he hasn't told you about him quitting his job, or leaving his wife.

Sit down well and think about this, Please. I might not have any 'first experience', but i have had 'second hand ones', and trust me, it didn't end up well for those people.

An office romance is usually a volcano waiting to erupt especially if a senior staff and his subordinate are involved. However these things do happen and they have to be dealt with accordingly.If your boss is married it is best to curb your irrational feelings before any serious damage is done. Are you suffering from a bad case of unrequited love or does he feel the same way you do? bear in mind that most office romances are a flash in the pan for the boss. He's "the man" after all, who is pretty much used to eating his cake and having it. What makes you so sure that you're not just going to be another notch on his bedpost? However, if the reverse is the case and you are absolutely sure that your feelings go way beyond a bad case of infatuation, you can quit your job and go for the guy as long as he's willing to play ball. If he ain't, girl, forget about him no matter how difficult it might be so that you don't become the hottest topic during lunch break besides the English premier league. It's not easy to find a good job in this screwed up country of ours so don't throw yours away on a superficial whim.

I think this says it all ,  You are hitting on a married man? Sis thats bad.
I will advise you to face your job and stop distracting the poor guy.

There's nothing wrong with being in love with your boss, ceteris paribus (all other things being equal)! I recommend a dose of 12 M&Bs, Silhouette or Harlequin. Just make sure he is single

@ Fire

OOH! i'z reading the initial page, not knowing that "water don pass garri",, Geta grip o'urslf , the dude will by now be telling u all the bad things 'bout he's wife & promising u heaven & earth, I'm sory i have to say this, you are drowning, & the water seems so deep already, b'because your statements up here show already how much u have been overcomed.

Listen to these genuine advices from nairalanders,  the same damn thang i'll tell my sister,blood relative or close friend

I see. I understand you've gone far with him but I'll suggest you try and pull out from his life. Try and get over him and find yourself a man that you'll walk the aisle with. That will be a better life and free of hide and seek games. 

Goodluck in finding another job.

@ Christino

I been thinking say them don cure u since last year, but it seems
u still need like 6 more months for yaba the other side or Aro in Abeokuta!

@Debby

Here comes the new, improved, and matured Debby
Please keep it up!

Here's wishing you divine guidance in your final decision
What I know and am certain of is that heaven rules in the affairs of men
Listen to what God has to say!
Keep Kool and remember that we all LOVE u at Nairaland

as much as i really don't care hw u live your live, as long as u are happy wit your sef, but this situation calls for u to be extremlly logical.

You need the cash so stay

You love your boss, cool, but u can do wit out him. so try an live wit out him or just have fun n not give a dam

Seperated from his wife, !

Hard to believe girls still fall from the second most use lie/line by married men.

the first, of course is the "i'm going to divorce her and marry you" trick.

I see such trickery still reels in the girls, truly tis a  dumb world indeed!

Am sure you fancy your self in with him. It usually happens when your boss is not bad looking, good charisma, successful, nice, patient, hardworking. All these quality fits into what every woman dreams about in her man. you begin to think you have feelings for him. If you look within yourself you will see that you have admiration for his personality. I will advice you to think carefully, analyze and define what you really feel for him. Restrict your admiration of him to work and work related activities. If you make a conscious effort am sure you will be able to steer your feelings. Good luck. Trust me This NEVER MISS BUSINESS WITH PLEASURE

This is a better opportunity for u to grap your own huh. If u waste time, so other girl even your relation can taake over from where u stopped.

not a wise one though,but atimes it quite difficult to control ones emotions. wishing you a save trip to your happyland

Sammy, what exactly is your point ? 

well,  as for me am looking for a girl like you who will is so, caring and like you who i can me and give the best of me love for well, you can email me and let talk mor eor call me 08026944245 that is my number