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jenijade
Think About This!
« on: January 10, 2007, 01:49 PM »

hi guys,

i don't know if u all feel what am feel, for a while now, our dear forum has soon become a place where we tease folks with presing issues on their mind.
like the saying, "do unto others what u will others do unto u".

i am of the opinion that if one sends a post seeking for direction or any of the like, and we can be of any help, we acn do that easily but in a case where ths reverse is the case, suffice it to say that dia would be no love lost if we gave the right info rather than becoming unnecessariyl cheeky.to a large extent, in my own opinion, such an attitude is not just annoying to others, but demoralising to the one who thto it wise to ask everyone on the forum.

i really don't know how we would feel, if we asked a question and all around puts us down, and worse stil,in so many cases, we notice a new member announces his or her arrival by asking some really simply out of "this world" question, and evryone is quick to "attack" the person. its not fair!because the only reason he /she got on d forum was in most cases due to the recommendation of others.

i don't think it would b a bad idea if our dear forum would be known as the very best 4 what it does in Naiga @ leatst for now.
its not about keeping track record of howmany memberz there are on d site.It goes beyond that really!itz about our morals!to be candid, the real u may just not be the u , you c in the mirror eacxh day because someone might just be looking. But the u, that u are when diaz no 1 around!

its a diff. case when old members wake up one morning and decide 2 get noticed, but in a case wia they are new(because most times they make use know thay are but new members on d site), i still think they need 2 know that they are apprciated by the entire house.

u might not have a job , yes, but the feeling of knowing u have friends u have never even met who feel what u r feeling and have got ur back can really make you feel much better.

i think we really need to think about this one because u don't know that persons`s story. you don't know how long he has sought 4 a job, or it could b one who is yet 2 or still serving and whose dreams are really all that,who feel the job will land in dia laps immediately after service year or while dey are yet serving that u hurt with your wordz!

like someone once wrote,"tread softly, that u tread not on my dreams"

itz in times and places as this that we need 2 b our brother`s keeper.
Nikegenius (f)
Re: Think About This!
« #1 on: January 10, 2007, 03:00 PM »

Nice one. I've been worried about this fact too. Its not fair how some people attack others because they post what they don't need. please, lets try to be a little more accomodating. If you don't like a post, just ignore.

I hope people will learn from this.
zaree
Re: Think About This!
« #2 on: January 10, 2007, 03:02 PM »

i share ur views.nice words
beau1 (f)
Re: Think About This!
« #3 on: January 10, 2007, 04:25 PM »

Please tell them Grin Grin Grin
alaskaa (m)
Re: Think About This!
« #4 on: January 11, 2007, 05:28 AM »

You have a point there bro i feel you,
medal
Re: Think About This!
« #5 on: January 11, 2007, 05:41 AM »

I have been observing that as well.i think it is quite unfair to be treating your fellow human being rudely.i think we should start preaching" be friendly to others"to them.
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