When Your Spouse Starts Getting Fat: what should you do?

I would just find summin to get out at least 4 litres of blood from him/her everyday..... how do u c that?

allright............. I will make her prepare pounded yam for me every day............. lift heavy stones every morning................ his/her meal will be pebbles every seconds......... the liquid shes going to take will be nescafe with urine

well.............. I wouldnt marry her if she was fat.............. am saying supposing she got fat after mari eji (marriage)

[b][/b] Oh dear, so much for my question. My hubby has got as fat as a pig over Christmas...and it's all my fault. I didn't intend to fatten him up but I couldn't stop myself cooking for him.....and he couldn't stop eating... So now what do I do ?

I go burst you if am the husssie

ok this is a realistic answer..if you're newly married, it is understandable that happiness and confort might make her fat up. If u werent planning on getting a baby anytime soon, just ask her to find a job that will make her wake up early in the morning. Very stressful job like working in mc donalds and standing up for hours. She does not even need the gym and she will melt within a week. I am saying from experince....
If she lives in nigeria and ofcourse no business in open by 6 7 in nigeria, just advice her to wake up early with alarm clock and do some jugging in the house. It will not help as much as starting work early in the morning though in an office where she will stand up for hours..good luck to the men with fatties. Definitly not my type..The beautiful ones are not yet born....

Yes because people like u refuse to ..........

oh gawd!

go to gym sessions together, find a way to tell her shes putting on weight, {don't say shes fat o} and help her to help each other not that u stick a needle in her thinking she will burst

since he is a pig, I think there are places where pigs are meant to be

Encourage them....start exercising with them. Don't go and pay for a lifetime's subscription for your spouse and really expect her to go every single day. Motivate her, engage in bonding talks when you do that. Exercise doesn't mean just the gym, go for brisk walks together. It's not only good for the spouse, it's good for the other too.

On a lighter note,  according to Oprah, when your spouse starts getting fat, copulate more often. As often as twice a day. The fat will be shed in no time!

Well,  ...you know....!

As a woman I will put kitchen strategies in place to enable him get down the weight. As the master of the kitchen, I will watch what I serve him. "Copulation" gives weight.ooo.So if possible reduce the frequency.

Putting kitchen strategies can be a plan that will hang up on you. There's a couple whereby the guy was fat, and the lady was really worried. She cooked all her food with like a teaspoon of olive oil and made sure that there more veggies than anything, and she skinned the chicken, and made sure they ate fish that wasn't oily, and all that stuff. The guy ate and gained weight.....until she found out that after work, he'd pass through a fast food restaurant and grab a whole meal, then come back home and eat a second complete meal! Gaining weight from copulation is coupled by other factors as well.....the energy to copulate.....eat food to get the energy....a vicious cycle.

it depends on the style and techniques too, you could turn all those fat into hard boiled muslces with some abs stregthening techinques during copulation, try it with him and see how well it works  _{i call it custom-made home gym}

don't let him eat too much

ohhhhhhh  my,
dangel,
obesity can be a big problem. It's also a breathing ground for other problems as well, (high blood pressure, high  cholesterol, etc, )  Obesity complicates everything and worsens problems that could have easily been treated had the person not been obese.

Tell your wife you love her and you want to grow old with her, something you might not get to do if she doesn't get help. Try to find out why she's eating more--is it emotional eating? is she stressed out about something? or even depressed? Hire a dietician (sp ?) (if there's one where you are) to start preparing her food for her and advising her, if you can't afford to do this, clean out whatever is in the fridge and storage/pantry and replace it with healthier things, change how you prepare your food--i.e. don't fry everything, try baking, get her interested in something active and participate in it together, get rid of anything that's not water or a healthy liquid, start counting calories and gradually reduce it as times go by, and have her talk to a doctor about the potential consequences of being obese in case she doesn't want to listen to you, sometimes we need to hear things from the horses mouth, you know. 

www.webmd.com is a fairly informative site for good health info,

good luck.