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Ujujoan (f)
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You guys broke up . . . . but are still friends. He calls you up, makes an appointment and comes bearing gifts. He dosent want you guys to get back together oh . . but he saw some nice things, thought of you and got them for you! 'No strings attached' he says! Any implications in accepting  |
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kokorunna (m)
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I will take them with a full heart  |
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asha 80 (m)
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No long throat here.
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xynerise (m)
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If she offer me a mouth watery food? Of course I will take it with a kiss on her lips. I send?
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Explosive (m)
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No strings attached u say. If she gives me, sure y wouldnt i accept them. |
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Missy B (f)
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What do You stand to lose in accepting it?
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iice (f)
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I dunno  My ex has tried giving me gifts. . so far i haven't accepted even if i know there are no implications. Lately he's like, "ok i'm getting you this and before you talk, there are no implications. I saw it and just wanted to get it for you". . .when the time comes. . .i don't know if i'll accept it. Even when we dated, i only accepted food
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Ujujoan (f)
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I dunno My ex has tried giving me gifts. . so far i haven't accepted even if i know there are no implications. Lately he's like, "ok i'm getting you this and before you talk, there are no implications. I saw it and just wanted to get it for you". . .when the time comes. . .i don't know if i'll accept it. Even when we dated, i only accepted food Hmmn! Well, it's d first time it's happenin to me. It was some pieces of clothings and I accepted. Though in retrospect I dont know if I did right by taking. Oh well, it'll be rude to return dem right?  |
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xynerise (m)
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@iice. Onye nri
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iice (f)
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Hmmn! Well, it's d first time it's happenin to me. It was some pieces of clothings and I accepted. Though in retrospect I dont know if I did right by taking. Oh well, it'll be rude to return dem right?
Give it sometime, if you still don't feel right about taking them, then you try to return them |
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jay bee (m)
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no big deal  just make sure u don't starting feeling u owe him one as well. |
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Ujujoan (f)
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Haha, well depends on how you return them and how well he knows you. In my case, they all know how i'd react so even if it comes off rude to others, they totally get me
Give it sometime, if you still don't feel right about taking them, then you try to return them Ok, that's sounds nice. Tnx! no big deal just make sure u don't starting feeling u owe him one as well.Oh my . . his b/day is coming up do u think he'll be expecting a gift from me . . cos am not ready to buy him anything oh |
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nethacker (m)
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i dnt think i will cos that will pave way for future pleasanteries which can lead to disaster |
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whitelexi (m)
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i dnt think i will cos that will pave way for future pleasanteries which can lead to disaster I thought of that too |
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smooooooth (m)
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a gift is a gift, and its not so polite to reject or return them when they dont come with a condition. i think u shd accept them.
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Ujujoan (f)
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i dnt think i will cos that will pave way for future pleasanteries which can lead to disaster Well, we are not enemies. Like I said, we are still friends. It's not like we quarelled or anything, We just broke up . . . so the future will always be pleasant for us! with or without d gifts! |
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whitelexi (m)
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a gift is a gift, and its not so polite to reject or return them when they dont come with a condition. i think u shd accept them.
some men will feel betrayal. . . uju, imagine how you'd feel if your bf started accepting gifts like boxer shorts or perfumes from his ex. . . Would u feel comfy with that even if it was 'just a gift'? He does that and all he'll hear is talk of not respecting u  |
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Ujujoan (f)
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some men will feel betrayal. . . uju, imagine how you'd feel if your bf started accepting gifts like boxer shorts or perfumes from his ex. . . Would u feel comfy with that even if it was 'just a gift'? He does that and all he'll hear is talk of not respecting u Hmmmn! Well my BF dosent mind!  |
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whitelexi (m)
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Hmmmn! Well my BF dosent mind! u dodged the question, nice one. how's your bf sef? abeg ask him to forgive me about the other day. . . Tell him i had a hectic weekend, travelled to train some new staff and got back to work on monday, i've not had the time to get back at him. |
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steve49ja (m)
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Girl gives Boy? No biggie
Boy gives Girl? Dont accept (If you're in a relationship)
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olanajim (m)
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Ther is nothing wrong in taking his gift as loong as he is not sending the photograph of both of you unclothed in a crazy position to you and your husband. If he has money to throw and the goodwill to back it up, if your spouse trust you, then there is no problem.
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Mr blazer (m)
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Till date I dont forget to wish my ex a happy birthday with certain amount of airtime. Though she is married with a child I still remember her birthday. I make sure I will be the first to send her a birthday text.
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Ujujoan (f)
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u dodged the question, nice one.
how's your bf sef? abeg ask him to forgive me about the other day. . . Tell him i had a hectic weekend, travelled to train some new staff and got back to work on monday, i've not had the time to get back at him.
It's aiight hon. I'm sure he understands! |
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rubi (f)
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I will not it brings back old memory which might hinda me from moving on
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misssexy u (f)
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sure, buh wld b hoping dat wldnt b an attempt of reconcilation'
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y me (f)
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of course i will we are just frds remember |
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Ujujoan (f)
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I will not it brings back old memory which might hinda me from moving on
Well I've moved on and there are no memories to bring back! sure, buh wld b hoping dat wldnt b an attempt of reconcilation'
I dont think so. There's no going back for us and we both know it. Any sort of reconciliation is completely unneccesary . . cos we know we can never be together! |
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Sisi_Kill
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I'll grab it so fast, he himself will wonder if he actually brought gifts.
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Lord_Reed (m)
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I think it depends on who the person is. There are some folk who if they say 'no strings attached' u beta take to your heels. So I guess u figured this was 1 of the safe 1's huh?
But still in a relationship u need to be careful dat your BF doesn't become paranoid.
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pc guru (m)
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Only if it's a ps3
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