Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication

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KunleOshob (m)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #608 on: August 13, 2008, 05:10 PM »

The problem of this impression that fornication is a sin is actually that of interpretation of the bible from it's original text. I actuallyhave a "Strong's Bible Concordance" which interpretes key words in the bible from the text it was originally written in and can confrim to you based on the hebrew/ greek words that were used in the original bible pre-marital sex does not form part of what was defined as sin of fornication. How ever, in the English language Fornication may include pre- marital sex. So essentially i submit that pre-marital sex is not what was being refered to inthe bible as the sin of fornication. To clarify my point further, i would post the real definition of biblical fornication based on the original text of the bible tomorrow
rampant (f)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #609 on: August 13, 2008, 05:14 PM »

Quote from: madamkoko on August 13, 2008, 04:46 PM


If sex before marriage is a sin then " thinking"  about sex is also a sin. Which many single people do: they at some point "think" about sex.

Anyone who lies and says they don't think about sex in my opinion is lying.

no doubt about that,but the question is-----------------pre-marital sex and fornication,and not thinking about it or harbouring it in your mind

sex before marriage is a sin,plain fornication,there r no two ways about it
samba123 (m)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #610 on: August 13, 2008, 05:24 PM »

I saw in tV  interview by Oprah Winprey a Christian fellow who has sex with 1000 women every years what a thirsty it is
samba123 (m)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #611 on: August 13, 2008, 05:25 PM »

I saw in tV  interview by Oprah Winprey a Christian fellow who has sex with 1000 women every years what a thirsty heis.
rampant (f)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #612 on: August 13, 2008, 05:28 PM »

oh gawddddd i pray i don't die of headache wt all dis english
samba123 (m)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #613 on: August 13, 2008, 05:31 PM »

Quote from: rampant on August 13, 2008, 05:28 PM
oh gawddddd i pray i don't die of headache wt all this english

see you find difficulty in comprehension  Grin
rampant (f)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #614 on: August 13, 2008, 05:32 PM »

Quote from: samba123 on August 13, 2008, 05:31 PM
see you find difficulty in comprehension  Grin

  Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked *faints*
madamkoko
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #615 on: August 13, 2008, 06:06 PM »

heheheehehehehe!!! Grin Grin Grin Grin
madamkoko
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #616 on: August 13, 2008, 06:07 PM »

Quote
The problem of this impression that fornication is a sin is actually that of interpretation of the bible from it's original text. I actuallyhave a "Strong's Bible Concordance" which interpretes key words in the bible from the text it was originally written in and can confrim to you based on the hebrew/ greek words that were used in the original bible pre-marital sex does not form part of what was defined as sin of fornication. How ever, in the English language Fornication may include pre- marital sex. So essentially i submit that pre-marital sex is not what was being refered to inthe bible as the sin of fornication. To clarify my point further, i would post the real definition of biblical fornication based on the original text of the bible tomorrow

Kunle you are right. For many to understand the bible, I think that there needs to be clarity and an understanding of the greek, aramaic, and hebrew version.
otokx (m)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #617 on: August 16, 2008, 01:13 PM »

am waiting for oga kunle's argument; his discourse does seem to establish a difference between pre - marital sex and fornication but for now lets all agree that both of them are sin.
jokepearl (f)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #618 on: August 16, 2008, 03:29 PM »

lets assume pre marital sex is not sin (I don't agree sha). I am sure many of us has been in a relationship that didn't work out even though we had the intention of getting married initially. So we sleep with the person because u plan to marry him or her then u break up (for whatever reason), then u meet some1 else and u were so sure that he/she is the ONE then u have sex with him/her again but something happens (maybe genotype prob) then u break up again then it goes on and on and on and on and on,  U've end up sharing the thing meant for your husband with 10 people yet u have not sinned.

if your body rules u then u are not of the spirit.

Gamine (f)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #619 on: August 16, 2008, 11:01 PM »

Fornication.

is used to describe any sexual activity outside that of a committed male+female relationship.

it is a sin.


Pre-marital sex,

is a term used to describe sexual activity before a marriage ceremony takes place, and may include

sex with a commited partner or several other people or things.


Sex with a committed partner is no sin, whether you don chop cake for white wedding or not.


so at topic, IT COULD BE.
A_K_O (m)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #620 on: August 16, 2008, 11:05 PM »

Quote from: Gamine on August 16, 2008, 11:01 PM

Sex with a committed partner is no sin, whether you don chop cake for white wedding or not.


So if I may ask, what is the bible definition of marriage? How does a couple get married biblically?
Gamine (f)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #621 on: August 16, 2008, 11:14 PM »

What do i mean by Committed.

The bible says, A man shall leave his parents and cleave to his wife.

The bible never talked about White Wedding

If you show commitment by telling others about it.

registering your union in the court, in a church, it dosnt matter.

A life-long Commitment is what matters.
joshjosh (m)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #622 on: August 16, 2008, 11:17 PM »

Quote from: jokepearl on August 16, 2008, 03:29 PM
lets assume pre marital sex is not sin (I don't agree sha).yet u have not sinned.[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font][/b]  if your body rules u then u are not of the spirit.  
Quote from: Gamine on August 16, 2008, 11:01 PM
Fornication.

[b]Sex with a committed partner is no sin, whether you don chop cake for white wedding or not
[b][/b].
so at topic,IT COULD BE.

sodom had no bible. It is a long way from sunday school to broadway
Christians are not suppose to be singing sinners song. gamine you must have heard these words before.  i thank God you are still human  but preach the whole truth you said you preach. bible in ife is bible everywhere. no choping of no ugly cake in between satanic marraige or any fleshy one for that matter.

there is hope for you at the cross
Gamine (f)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #623 on: August 16, 2008, 11:21 PM »

What are you saying?

Your post is rather incoherent Undecided Undecided
A_K_O (m)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #624 on: August 16, 2008, 11:36 PM »

Quote from: Gamine on August 16, 2008, 11:14 PM
What do i mean by Committed.

The bible says, A man shall leave his parents and cleave to his wife.

The bible never talked about White Wedding

If you show commitment by telling others about it.

registering your union in the court, in a church, it dosnt matter.

A life-long Commitment is what matters.

Yes, but that dont make 'white weddings' wrong.

Infact, 'white weddings' existed even in the bible days; a King in the NT condemend a man for coming to his son's wedding without a wedding garment, which gives the impression of a 'white wedding setting', etc. . .

Personally I believe that in as much as it is not wrong for christians to get married in court et al., it is more ideal to be married by a Reverend/Pastor/endless titles in the company of a few believers; witnesses. It does not have to be in a church and you dont have to be in 'white wedding dress and suit'; for those who cant afford the luxury or want a quiet wedding.
Again, thats my opinioin.
Gamine (f)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #625 on: August 16, 2008, 11:38 PM »

Yeah. Didnt say white wedding was wrong Tongue

There should be witnesses, to the commitment.

Check out how Isaac married Rebecca.
A_K_O (m)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #626 on: August 16, 2008, 11:47 PM »

Quote from: Gamine on August 16, 2008, 11:38 PM
Yeah. Didnt say white wedding was wrong Tongue
E ma binu Smiley
joshjosh (m)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #627 on: August 17, 2008, 04:12 PM »

Quote from: Gamine on August 16, 2008, 11:21 PM
What are you saying?

Your post is rather incoherent Undecided Undecided

learn to say " there goes i but for the grace of God"  it will really help you in the race called life
rampant (f)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #628 on: August 17, 2008, 04:30 PM »

Quote from: joshjosh on August 17, 2008, 04:12 PM
learn to say " there goes i but for the grace of God"  it will really help you in the race called life

 Huh Huh
Gamine (f)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #629 on: August 17, 2008, 04:48 PM »

LOL

omo , the guy tire me.


@Topic.

Fornication is simply having multiple sex partners.

Because a married person can still fornicate.


Pre-marital sex is not necessarily a sin.

the sin is having multiple sex partners.


if i have one sex partner till i die, it is no sin!
otokx (m)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #630 on: August 17, 2008, 08:18 PM »

according to the little oxford dictionary,

fornicate=extramarital sexual intercourse

premarital sex is not fornication but its still sin
madamkoko
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #631 on: August 17, 2008, 08:23 PM »

Quote from: otokx on August 17, 2008, 08:18 PM
according to the little oxford dictionary,

fornicate=extramarital sexual intercourse

premarital sex is not fornication but its still sin


How is this a logical statement?


If fornicate means extramarital ? then how is premarital affairs a sin. On what logical basis are you basing your statement/argument on.

Anyways ehin  people yi, ke ma ton ra hin je.
otokx (m)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #632 on: August 17, 2008, 08:30 PM »

@madam koko

it is you that introduced the word "affair" into the equation and is now confusing yourself

dictionary say that fornication is an extra marital affair which taken in its simplest form indicates that only married people can by guilty of fornication

fornication with a married man/woman other than your spouse is adultery

madamkoko
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #633 on: August 17, 2008, 09:08 PM »

Quote
which taken in its simplest form indicates that only married people can by guilty of fornication


makes sense, therefore we can conclude that premarital sex is not fornication.
olabowale (m)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #634 on: August 17, 2008, 11:52 PM »

@Gamine: Learn to say no, first. Aburo, make yourself available in Islam. Then you will know that Allah forbids every sexual intercourse except that which is between a husband and a wife. I am waiting for the introduction, which I have requested from you.

Don't keep me waiting. I ain't got all day.
Gamine (f)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #635 on: August 18, 2008, 11:41 AM »

han han

i have attempted to add you

check
KunleOshob (m)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #636 on: August 18, 2008, 12:47 PM »

@ otokx & others
This is the greek interpretation of fornication as defined by the bible. (Source STRONG'S exhaustive bible concordance) please note that most of the new testament was written in Greek. The greek word for For fornication is pornei>a pronouced as por-ni-ah. The word porneu was also used to describe fornication. posted below are the accurate English translation.

(4202) pornei>a, — por-ni’-ah; from (4203) (porneu>w); harlotry
(including adultery and incest); figurative idolatry: — fornication.
(4203) porneu>w, — porn-yoo’-o; from (4204) (po>rnh); to act the
harlot, i.e. (literal) indulge unlawful lust (of either sex), or
(figurative) practise idolatry: — commit (fornication).
Gamine (f)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #637 on: August 18, 2008, 01:08 PM »

When you make Sex a god to you, by having multiple partners.

yeah
Chrisbenogor (m)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #638 on: August 18, 2008, 02:39 PM »

As far as I am concerned all of them join the lie lie wey all this people dey tell us since
emmy4naira (m)
Re: Pre-Marital Sex Is Not Fornication
« #639 on: August 18, 2008, 03:11 PM »

hey guys, what is all this we are talking about here, l was a kind of amazed when l came across this argument, well l will want to say that we hve to be both philosophical and at the same time diplomatic here. thus for everyone who will want to have this kind of argument must as a matter of fact be someone of free mind all else we will be biased by our religion and we'll face to see beyond religion.

what matters most is that when it comes to the bible we can have as many interpretation as we want and that is what is happening here. also we have to note tht the many things that were written in the bible especially all the letters written by paul to the churches were written due to what was happening then in the churches and al the conditions then were all applied and that is why we cant as a matter of fact relate what was happeneing then to what we now have in the world.

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