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sexmachine
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I need your help, people. Thers this girl I was going out with and I loved her, after some time she said we shdnt be sleeping with each other because she doesnt feel its right and its affecting her psychologicaly but i don't see nuthn rong, whenever she sleeps over at my place she always pushes me off saying am am making her want me and she doesnt want us to do it because she ends up condemning herself after. we quarelled nad now we are separated and the trail ha s gone cold, She says we can't continue making love am frustrated at the sudden change of heart, and i don't want to make her choose me over her beliefs. I love her and i want her to be happy but i think this is clearly going to be a problem 4 us. Should i break the relationship? Because it's making me consider other women already.
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PHBABE (f)
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if you love her, you would wait. thats all she wants to know, that you are not with her just to fulfil your sexual desires.
but then, if you can't take it, leave her alone, because you are playing with God, she would see you as the devil in her life making her to not be right with God and making her fight with God, so if u cannot take it better break it of.
Been there before, TRUST!
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noble_irc (m)
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Umh!!!what lust will cause.oh sorry!what love will cause!!!
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kollexy (m)
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Sex Machine,
You are really living up to your name.
If the girl no wan do, why u no leave am.
Bros cool down,
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layi (m)
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Its seems u only got a sexlationship. Burst it and get real. A guy who can't control his sexual urges is a bad candidate for marriage. She prolly has seen this.
Be a real gentle, control yourself. A real man can enjoy a beautiful night rest with his loved one without sex.
Sex is not the real thing. Sex is selfish.
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windywendy (f)
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Break off the relationship if you know you can't live without the sex, and find your match (i.e. someone who will be willing to have all the sex without feeling guilty) elsewhere. If you keep forcing yourself on now, she's going to hate you later for making her do something against her will and it's not worth it. SO Leave her alone!
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caffinehi (m)
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Just pay for sex. It's not that much, and it'll be the same as with your girlfriend. This way, you don't even have to talk to her afterwards. Good deal, no?
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Busta (f)
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are into the relationship with her in the first place for sex only?
what happened to "there's more to relationships and dating than just sex"
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chinkolo (f)
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sup am also in that kind of understanding with my man we started and it was beautiful but along d line(note he is my first) i kind of moved closer to God and took him along (note didnt force) and we started deciding not 2 av sex anymore but believe me it is not easy we tried nd failed but l8r got on our feet and knowing d kind of person i started going out with,he really was sumtig just tinking about it but now he knows about selfcontrol nd without this you're lost in this world he even trys avoidin us bein alone too much especially when i start feeling stuffs  u knw what i mean.When ever anytin starts, he stops it most of the time although may end up being quiet but he would get over it but initially it wasnt easy.If ulike this girl forget anytin is possible .Take cr  |
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okwanuzo3 (f)
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marry her, end of discussion
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toy boy
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sex na food  n if u can't do witout it n u really like her so much, marry am. shikena |
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McKren (m)
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If I were you this is when I will try to be the best boyfriend than I have ever been and yet not demand sex.
Where does this lead to? because she has had it before she will come begging fot it trust me. Dont give it to her immediately but when you finally do make sure you do it in style.
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mubowa (f)
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if she says no more sex, let it be
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angelchi (f)
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if she says u guys shld nt ve sex anymore y is she still coming to sleep at your place? well its your choice wht to do if u can wait then u shld, n if u can't then u go catch your fun outside as bodi no be wood. |
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Geolalisa (f)
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@ sexmachine
If u really love her, i think u should wait and u just have to respect her for that.i do not think she is asking for so much.but if u can't wait,then get married to her and rest your case.
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temmyabby (f)
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do u love her  |
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Akinagirl (f)
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oooh buddy your sh** out of luck, since your id says sexmachine, |
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sultaan (m)
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As Iya Aladunke would say 'letter re' (fire her).
Or marry her, so that you will spend the rest of your life having sex based on a timetable, outsourcing the sexual part of your marriage OR getting to have sex with your wife when the Pastor approves.
If sex is so bad between you that she pushes you off at a young age, believe me everything goes down hill from now on.
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Sweet T (m)
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@Topic
No more sex means no more sex, Biko ! Abi something wrong with your ears ?? Why don't you go fcuk a horse since you are a sex machine !
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anon101 (f)
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if you love me you go wait for me ( song by onyeka and sunny Ade)
two things she is either no more sexually attracted to you or she is really into her beliefs
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OrumbaS89 (f)
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wait or leave if you don't care about her.
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SAM MILLA (m)
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@poster, you showed up here with that kind of name and expect to get good replies from people,
think twice and thats if your thread is not a joke(FAKE),
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deola1 (m)
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@ poster
maybe the girl is just testing your knowledge, but guy u failed.
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AEjiro (m)
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Hey @ poster Guy,
no vex na woman na so them dey do. my own lady do be do like this some years back we take am quarrel so tay we nearly break up. but since i dey feel her groove i come say ok i don gree to her demand. but u know what, any time she come my crib i go lock up say nothing go shele. na so after some few weeks she come begin cry say me i know dey gree touch her say one woman for outside don snatch me take.
But me i no gree come dey shakara o! but later sha as me sef dey miss dey groove i come gree. and when we finally talk about how far she come comfess say dey thing hard her to hold so she come dey miss the level. Well that na some years ago, now we dey plan marriage so that we go dey legal.
so just try lock up and agree and if she be the type wey they like shopping like my lady, make sure say na now u go dey take her out more after that just drop her for her house and turn round she go run follow you but try discharge her say you want go house alone go rest say you no want distractions you go see gbege!
Nothing do you, just manage her, na woman and na the one your heart choose be that go treat her well. tk
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hammers (m)
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smooch her and jack off |
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