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JustGood (m)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #64 on: January 19, 2007, 10:12 AM »

na so them lie for you inside pretty woman
so na film story you dey take live ya life. i pity you ma bros.
all the tori weyd em dey tell about love stories, them no go tell you how the story take end.
kaecy5 (m)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #65 on: January 19, 2007, 10:19 AM »

Quote from: babyosisi on January 18, 2007, 09:18 PM
To all you guys who are ready to trash a woman because of a former lifestyle please think again.
I went to college in Nigeria and in the evenings,especially on weekends our hostel parking lot was swarming with men picking up and dropping off  girls
and believe me they were not going for choir practice.


Many of these girls got lots of financial paybacks for their services from these men and we saw their spoils of war like electronics,refrigerators,clothing,some even got cars

well said- saw the same when i was in uniport
one particular night 2 girls were fighting over whom the guy called first.

at one point or the other most girls have practised prostitution either officially or non-officialy and i have come to understand that the few that practice it unofficially even carry out more exploits to the legally recognised many.

i would marry an ex-prostitute any day anytime

love is suppose to be blind
naijacutee (f)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #66 on: January 19, 2007, 10:21 AM »

I do beg your pardon, osegwu. How dare you come on a public thread and say that 95% of Nigerian women are prostitutes? In saying this, you must remember however that your mother is a Nigerian woman too, and so are all your sisters, aunts, cousins, daughters (if you have any). Therefore they are all not exempt from this insult.
afrikangal (f)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #67 on: January 19, 2007, 10:38 AM »

u guys r rotten u can sleep wit prostitutes when they cm ur way.LADY T i like ur point it is challenging all this guys can f******k one ,dump them but can,t marry them.I'm nt sayin u shld marry them bt  Angry Angry Sad :(u shouldn,t try to go ther because is no go area so why messin about.lol Angry Shocked Sad
afrikangal (f)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #68 on: January 19, 2007, 10:44 AM »

naijacutee i like ur point and wot u said to osegwu or wot is d name called.she self na prostitute.u kow some people don,t think they just talk and cover there mouth.as soon as they travel go one place like that not even uk dey start to they do yanga and denies not to be a nigerian. Angry Angry >:(tell am say make she com bac home because no place like home.lol Angry me am stil prod to be a nigerian anywhere,anytime and anyday.
osegwu (m)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #69 on: January 19, 2007, 11:28 AM »

95% of our girls go into relationships for money and in
 my humble opinion that makes them prostitutes.

Quote from: babyosisi on January 18, 2007, 09:18 PM
To all you guys who are ready to trash a woman because of a former lifestyle please think again.
I went to college in Nigeria and in the evenings,especially on weekends our hostel parking lot was swarming with men picking up and dropping off  girls
and believe me they were not going for choir practice.


Many of these girls got lots of financial paybacks for their services from these men and we saw their spoils of war like electronics,refrigerators,clothing,some even got cars

Now they didn't regard themselves as prostitutes even though they did everything prostitutes did,the only difference was that they were students also so maybe not "professional" callgirls.
There was also a well known  underground escort service at the hostel.

To the poster,if you see genuine repentance in this girl and you love her and believe her,you don't even need to tell her past history to your family.
It's none of their business.
True love is hard to find and if you see a girl that meets all your criteria,please don't let her past life be the deciding factor.
If she is forgiven by Christ,she is not what she used to be.

Precisely my sentiment
And those guys who don't want babes to do yanga for them and so suck up to them, i am not envying you your stance. If you want to marry one by all means do so and don't antagonize somebody because he made his choice clear and by the way, I think I like you.

Look guys, I don't mean no disrespect when I say I will never marry a prostitute, oh well , maybe that is a little too harsh, I will not marry someone I know that is or was a prostitute and reason been that I am a jealous lover but any man who can pack up courage to marry one should be commended and of course, awarded.

Still me
osegwu (m)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #70 on: January 19, 2007, 11:52 AM »

Quote from: afrikangal on January 19, 2007, 10:44 AM
naijacutee i like your point and wot u said to osegwu or wot is d name called.she self na prostitute.u kow some people don,t think they just talk and cover there mouth.as soon as they travel go one place like that not even uk dey start to they do yanga and denies not to be a nigerian. Angry Angry >:(tell am say make she com bac home because no place like home.lol Angry me am stil prod to be a nigerian anywhere,anytime and anyday.

I am not prejudiced over prostitutes at least it is a profession albeit a debased one. All i am saying is that I will not marry one and I am not going to condemn any man who does because he can stand it and believe  me honestly, I can't. I have never been against them after all, without Men there won't be prostitutes and I guess that makes us all prostitutes because we are the one who patronize them but I still say I can't marry any.

@Afrikangal,

I hope I am truly making sense. I hope i truly do.
So try to understand my point of view

Still me

By the way, what is in the uk? Can't really live there.
2old4that (m)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #71 on: January 19, 2007, 12:04 PM »

Quote
Now they didn't' regard themselves as prostitutes even though they did everything prostitutes did,the only difference was that they were students also so maybe not "professional" callgirls.

So in essence, there is no difference between prostitutes and normal people that involves in inexplicable sexual activities; afteral they get paybacks.
ruescho (m)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #72 on: January 19, 2007, 12:14 PM »

Quote from: 2old4that on January 19, 2007, 12:04 PM
So in essence, there is no difference between prostitutes and people that involves in casual sex; afteral there are paybacks.

At least the prostitute is a pro that will give u more pleasure, because she knows how to handle a man  Wink

(Sorry, silly question deserves sily answer)
JustGood (m)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #73 on: January 19, 2007, 12:40 PM »

pros toto don dabaru sef. she no fit feel ya thing again because too many different shape don enter there before
osegwu (m)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #74 on: January 19, 2007, 12:54 PM »

Quote from: JustGood on January 19, 2007, 12:40 PM
pros toto don dabaru sef. she no fit feel ya thing again because too many different shape don enter there before

don't even say
angelchi (f)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #75 on: January 19, 2007, 12:59 PM »

is she nt a human being? her own still good say she come out confess, it shows repentance n even God said it that u shld confess ur sins n u will be forgiving, family or no family no be them go follow una stay 4 house its wht u feel inside that matters.
crazykid (m)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #76 on: January 19, 2007, 01:02 PM »

Getting married to a prostitute wether retired or still in the business isn’t a wise thing to do. Co’s a prostitute remains a prostitute.
If we are to discuss the issue of dignity: a Prostitute doesn’t have that diginty in her she what we refer to as an outcast a public toilet, an expired product.
Now getting such person to a church and taking a vow by the name of the lord to be with her till death does’ you part isn’t isn’t that easy. You must consider the facts on ground and not be blinded by her physical beauty if at all she's beautiful

There’s also the issue of STD and other vernal diseases the girl might be infected for me, there's no second thought.
I can't marry an ex-Prostitute
naijacutee (f)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #77 on: January 19, 2007, 01:04 PM »

Quote from: osegwu on January 19, 2007, 11:28 AM
95% of our girls go into relationships for money and in
 my humble opinion that makes them prostitutes.

Precisely my sentiment
And those guys who don't want babes to do yanga for them and so suck up to them, i am not envying you your stance. If you want to marry one by all means do so and don't antagonize somebody because he made his choice clear and by the way, I think I like you.

Look guys, I don't mean no disrespect when I say I will never marry a prostitute, oh well , maybe that is a little too harsh, I will not marry someone I know that is or was a prostitute and reason been that I am a jealous lover but any man who can pack up courage to marry one should be commended and of course, awarded.

Still me

I respect your opinion, but going by your harsh generalisation, you should not forget to include that your mother probably went with your father for the money therefore, in your humble opinion . . .

My point is basically that if the average Nigerian man cannot marry an ex-prositute, then the average Nigerian woman should refuse to marry an ex-prostitute client!  
JustGood (m)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #78 on: January 19, 2007, 02:39 PM »

pipul wey don practice de thing before dey always support demsef
yeye
nikynike (f)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #79 on: January 19, 2007, 03:01 PM »

U can take any decision. Either u go ahead with the marriage or u forget it. No compromise in marriage.
olarewajuv (f)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #80 on: January 19, 2007, 03:48 PM »

please to round it up everybody has a past, the past is gone today is in our hand let use today well so that it will not spoil our tommorow.
babyosisi (f)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #81 on: January 19, 2007, 08:55 PM »

Quote from: naijacutee on January 19, 2007, 01:04 PM

My point is basically that if the average Nigerian man cannot marry an ex-prositute, then the average Nigerian woman should refuse to marry an ex-prostitute client! 


nice summary.
LadyT (f)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #82 on: January 19, 2007, 09:28 PM »

 Angry

Where do you get your silly statistics from??? 95% How dare you!
Quote from: osegwu on January 19, 2007, 11:52 AM
I am not prejudiced over prostitutes at least it is a profession albeit a debased one. All i am saying is that I will not marry one and I am not going to condemn any man who does because he can stand it and believe me honestly, I can't. I have never been against them after all, without Men there won't be prostitutes and I guess that makes us all prostitutes because we are the one who patronize them but I still say I can't marry any.

@Afrikangal,

I hope I am truly making sense. I hope i truly do.
So try to understand my point of view

Still me

By the way, what is in the uk? Can't really live there.

and believe me with views like that your not welcome in the UK
debosky (m)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #83 on: January 19, 2007, 10:00 PM »

lol

osegwu apologise before they get the embassy to deny you visa oh!  Grin Grin Grin

my mama, sisters and friends aren't prostitutes so maybe they make up 5% i don't know, but glib generalizations show a poor understanding of issues.

even in Africa where you hear HIV is 'endemic' and 'prevalent', no country has up to 50% of its population infected!! So if this 'money for hand, back for ground thing is very common, it still cannot be up to 30% in my own estimation.

just my own 20 kobo oh! Wink
ruescho (m)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #84 on: January 19, 2007, 10:33 PM »

Quote from: naijacutee on January 19, 2007, 01:04 PM
My point is basically that if the average Nigerian man cannot marry an ex-prositute, then the average Nigerian woman should refuse to marry an ex-prostitute client! 

Clap for yourself, that´s it what all those hypocrites around here need to hear!!!
jeffrichie
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #85 on: January 20, 2007, 09:27 AM »

[color=#006600]I can't marry a prostitute because i don't want to die quick. Most of them are possessed of marine spirit :
ruescho (m)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #86 on: January 20, 2007, 09:55 AM »

Quote from: jeffrichie on January 20, 2007, 09:27 AM
[color=#006600]I can't marry a prostitute because i don't want to die quick. Most of them are possessed of marine spirit :

This is why u joined Nairaland to make this your generalizing first posting???
JustGood (m)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #87 on: January 20, 2007, 12:14 PM »

the past no pass go anywhere
the past go return when she meet her former customers and them dey laugh the man
why I go be the mumu wey go marry the broken chasis
which person go chose 2nd hand car when brand new dey available?
ruescho (m)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #88 on: January 20, 2007, 12:19 PM »

Quote from: JustGood on January 20, 2007, 12:14 PM

which person go chose 2nd hand car when brand new dey available?


Sometimes second hand Mercedes is better than brand new Toyota  Grin Grin Grin

But please don´t compare women to cars. because if u continue like this a former pro might be the Porsche
compared to an everyday boring Mitshubishi and this is not what u like to say I s`ppose.
osegwu (m)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #89 on: January 20, 2007, 12:22 PM »

Quote from: ruescho on January 20, 2007, 09:55 AM
This is why u joined Nairaland to make this your generalizing first posting???

Honestly, I don't know what you guys think is in the UK. I was born and brought up in Bulgaria. I have my EU Passport. I always go to the UK for my professional trainings especially in Aberdeen and whenever I had  a choice of school I always choose another country like the US of A,  but the UK is the last place I will like to live so don't come sucking up to me with that you are not welcome in the UK threat.

@ topic,
If my generalization statistics is wrong then you proof it. If the Ladies in my immediate family do the things elaborated above I guess then that makes them Prostitutes and I am not going to force any man to marry a sister of mine who is a retired but not tired prostitute.

If not for pay check why would a Lady go into a relationsip with two or more men at the same period? In my opinion again we have prostitutes and professional prostitutes just like professional Footballers and home based.
Again I don't mean no disrespect for prostitutes but I would not be found dead marrying one.

Still me
JustGood (m)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #90 on: January 20, 2007, 12:47 PM »

na lie.
prostitute wowo pass 2nd hand 504 sef
which kind yeye prostitute be that
she fit better pass some of ya own open eye girls sha
yeye
LadyT (f)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #91 on: January 20, 2007, 03:18 PM »

Whos sucking up to you??? And it was not a threat your the one mouthing off that theres nothing in the UK and I'm asking you:

1) what has that got to do with this topic?

2) what made you think anyone in the UK believes they are superior.  At the end of the day we are still black can't hide the skin colour,
JustGood (m)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #92 on: January 20, 2007, 05:09 PM »

as you don talk say make the guy no come uk because him no want prostitute, na I'm come mean say all of una for uk na prostitute?
na wa o
me sef no want come the place to meet una if una all be prostitute
JustGood (m)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #93 on: January 20, 2007, 05:11 PM »

na ya papa get uk?
you sef still be foreigner for uk. even if you get kpali abi bnp never catch up with you?
yeye
JustGood (m)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #94 on: January 20, 2007, 05:11 PM »

small time tories go win election and them go begin make laws wey go make pipul like you remember say you no dey for ya home
LadyT (f)
Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute?
« #95 on: January 20, 2007, 08:52 PM »

Quote from: JustGood on January 20, 2007, 05:09 PM
as you don talk say make the guy no come uk because him no want prostitute, na I'm come mean say all of una for uk na prostitute?
na wa o
me sef no want come the place to meet una if una all be prostitute

You clearly cannot read can you?Try to understand my post!  I just said even if you live in the UK you can't DENY where you come from.  And why should I?


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