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yicob (m)
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What would you do if you go to your spouse's personal office and find a used condom in the waste basket?
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ollyruffy
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i'll call her attention to it and expect a convincing explanation.without one,i'll set my trap for me to catch her red-handed
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iice (f)
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Leap to conclusions immediately
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caffinehi (m)
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dude, don't tell her before setting a trap
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Akinagirl (f)
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catch her red handed, then explain that u found the condom in her waste bin at work. But don't tell her before hand.
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Mc Omo (m)
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I will congratulate her for a job well done  |
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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as someone said above i would keep my cool and make sure i look for a way to catch him on the spot.
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almondjoy (f)
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The reassurance that my "spouse" sometimes practices "safe sex". Not much to say there. Must have proof that the "spouse" used it and not the messenger or the secretary. But------Just write my will somewhere and hope for the best. May never find out the truth afterall send and done. Just to busy to play detective for what is very obvious. No be im office?  |
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tonia2000 (f)
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I don't ever pray to experience that its really silly.I may over react
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olyco
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@ poster,
This your imagination weird no be small, to start with, am sure i must have been smelling some rat in her cupboard to make me jump in conclusion that it was her, but for a reasonable guy, the chances are wide, it could be her office assistant "plus including" her office cleaner that just had a quick one, so i will be dumb like "ollyruffy" calling her for explanation and setting a trap for my wife just because of a condom in her wastebin, please let these women rest and stop crucifying them, if na you she come find condom for your office, what will your explanation be? that you are trying to research on how the condom works
abegi, take the mole in your eye out first before removing for your wife's one
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Seun (m)
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How does catching your spouse in the act of cheating on you help your marriage?  |
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emmeno (m)
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@ poster,
This your imagination weird no be small, to start with, am sure i must have been smelling some rat in her cupboard to make me jump in conclusion that it was her, but for a reasonable guy, the chances are wide, it could be her office assistant "plus including" her office cleaner that just had a quick one, so i will be dumb like "ollyruffy" calling her for explanation and setting a trap for my wife just because of a condom in her wastebin, please let these women rest and stop crucifying them, if na you she come find condom for your office, what will your explanation be? that you are trying to research on how the condom works
abegi, take the mole in your eye out first before removing for your wife's one
Nice on there, my question is "wetin make u go the dustbin in the first place (to peep for evidence)" @topic, I'll just show her, and if she has no clue, i'll just watch out!!!!!!!!! |
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Bolarge (m)
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I'll just say "Honey, please make sure these things're properly disposed of. The cleaners don't have to know the exact details of our daily transactions here".    |
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showbobo (m)
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She must definitely know about the condom but i would still ask her how the condom got there.As soon as i get an explanation from her then the rest would happen
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edatika (m)
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what if she's set up?
why would someone doing such be as dumb
as leaving it in the waste basket??
even if not for me, what will the cleaners say?
what will visitors who somehow dispose smthg into the waste bin feel?
you shdnt even get involved with smone that dumb
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crazyp (f)
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Nice on there, my question is "wetin make u go the dustbin in the first place (to peep for evidence)"
@topic, I'll just show her, and if she has no clue, i'll just watch out!!!!!!!!!
lol nice one!!!  |
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efuah (f)
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. . . and what will u be doing around the trush bin? |
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freeguy (m)
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@ poster, You said my wife's personal office? I will definately ask her about it because my mind wont be at rest seeing such thing in her office and not talking about it. What the eye doesnt see, the heart doesnt crave. If however, she actually does such a thing and i caught her red- handed, the relationship is over, period. I can't stay married to an unfaithful woman even if she has ten children for me! So she better has a good and sound explanation for what a used condom is doing in her office. You know this days, strange things do happens and maybe the condom waka on his own to her office |
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almondjoy (f)
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Nice on there, my question is "wetin make u go the dustbin in the first place (to peep for evidence)"
@topic, I'll just show her, and if she has no clue, i'll just watch out!!!!!!!!!
. . . and what will u be doing around the trush bin? Sometimes when you have been around your "persons" for a while---you definitely know what "they smell" like. Even from the thrash can. Have had to throw away lots of thrash cans in my life time.  |
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kaylala (m)
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I pray it never happens to me,but just incase it does i really can't say what i will d.God help us!!!
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juli4real
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He might not be d one that used it, Bcos i've worked in a place where
my M.D use Condom and left it on my table.
So be carefull b/for you kill someone.
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obyann (f)
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what if she's set up?
why would someone doing such be as dumb
as leaving it in the waste basket??
even if not for me, what will the cleaners say?
what will visitors who somehow dispose smthg into the waste bin feel?
you shdnt even get involved with smone that dumb
Thank you jare. @poster, Please be very careful about this matter. It could actually be a set-up. I don't know how big the organisation is, but the truth is that some people can do anything to dent another persons image. You might be visiting your spouse's office regularly and may be she have issues with somebody in the office. The person might use that means to strike her. I mean, condom is not what you expose like that. From my own opinion, I will advice you to ask her jokingly. Peace |
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saucekid (m)
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she has to give me a very convincing and CONVINCING explanation otherwise, OPERATION MAGUN |
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ST3V3 (m)
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Na DNA test go solve the matter!
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akara (m)
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Before bringing out my cutlass, would have to check again if the condom was actually used, who else has access to the office, after which Don't blame of temporary insanity as anything can happen. |
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fesse (f)
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Nice on there, my question is "wetin make u go the dustbin in the first place (to peep for evidence)" IS it only women it happens to? what of you guys out there? the house keepers or the cleaners can be held responsible for that. this kind of thing has happened in my place of work and the it wasnt the fault of the person in that office but the cleaners. why will our men like to kill the women race for any small thing? What of you guys that carry condoms around? i don't believe in all this kind of trash but enventually it happens that i caught my spouse in that kind of act or see it in his personal office, as person i have to ask to get a reasonable answer but not going to take it so far because i hate stress then we sort it out in the house amicably without third party. |
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Seun (m)
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How does catching him or her help your marriage? Whether you catch or not, you're in trouble!
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tglaz (m)
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@saucekid
na wah for you o!
as for me,i would simply ask her and read her verbal and non verbal comments.these days,i wonder why immorality is so much on the high side,while trust keeps fading away every passing second.
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jkpretty (f)
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Hmmmmmn! funny funny day, it will be
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oko-omoge (m)
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I would be happy she used a condom! at least no transfer of HIV.
After which I would pay attention to her behaviour and have someone to sniff for me in her office.
I would never confront her until I have a real proof of she is being sleeping with.
The truth is that we can all fall for temptations, if she accept and show remorse and promise to do awau with such
infidelity.
Case Closed oooo, who knows may be na me no dey make love to her well.
I would want to know the reason behind her action to prevent such wahala.
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