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phanty (f)
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i can only ask u not to pray 4 d worst! but if u do nd u get d worst den get plan b which is to settle nd think don't do anytin rash because u mite just be suprised,d suprise doesnt mean he is innocent but u mite be at an advantage if u settle nd construct a tangible tactic. but rmbr be wise nd think twice so he/she doesnt play a faster 1 on u while u re tryin to play a fast1.
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dennylove (m)
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NA LIEOOOOOOOOOOOOO,THIS POSTER CAN LIE!!!!!!!!HOW YOU GO UR WIFE OFFICE THE NEXT THING NA TO GO LOOK INSIDE THE DUST BIN.WETIN YOU DEY FIND THERE?ABI NA YOU THROW THE CONDOM THERE?
ABEG, TELL US ANOTHER STORY JARE.
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adbaby (f)
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It would only mean that he's had sex. As per my reaction, e never do me when e do me anytin my brain tell me na im I go do.  |
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Bblak (f)
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Hmmmmm.It will be a funny scenario. 
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ibrahiem (m)
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did i hear someone say convincing explanation.
HABA,y wait 4 all that,KAI WAWA NE?
jump 2 conclusion and dump her ass.
OR play da mugu,get another who is going to b faithful and then u use this one to quench your sexual urge since that is what she turn her self into.
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cyprianjr (m)
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Keep your cool, if she's really cheating on you,one day na one day dude  but come to think of it, dennylove was right, wetin your eyes find go waste bin, abi you don turn to condom busters huh? |
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kaylala (m)
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In her office,wahala and in mine life goes on  |
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parislomo (f)
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I'm curious at POSTER like some people are, IS THE SPOUSE'S TRASH BIN A STOP-CENTER IN HIS/HER OFFICE? , And for "someone" sensible enough to use protection, I believe that "someone" would be discreet enough to dispose off properly. And again, why doubt your spouse's faithfulness anyway?(silly question shey?)
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phanty (f)
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did i hear someone say convincing explanation.
HABA,y wait 4 all that,KAI WAWA NE?
jump 2 conclusion and dump her ass.
OR play da mugu,get another who is going to b faithful and then u use this one to quench your sexual urge since that is what she turn her self into
now that is totalli pathetic aw can u say that? like u dnt ve your own share of rong deeds.i can't possiby saw what happenend nd d reason y someone old enof 2 work in an office lld b that dumb. but that advice is sure off it. what eva happened to dialogue nd if it got 2 u that bad forget it nd her/she. my dear lettin go is all necessary 4 mind nd word peace
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fntekim (m)
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Arrange 4 spy cams with internet facility, so that i go fit monitor her freely.
Bros, which ever way u look at it, u go develop hypertension for nothing.
Wetin u no know no go kill u.
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Shinatu
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I heard a female say she will trap him to find out, of what use is that?
What would you do with the information?
When did infidelity become a crime for men in this society?
You better throw way face like you no see anything, thank God that he is using protection and pray that God will continue to bless him so that your Children will be taken care of and their future not jeopardised.
Then you will regard your children with happiness in the future, that is how our mothers did it and we called them fools. Who is the fool?
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finemocha (f)
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jump to conclusions, haba now, maybe it miraculously fell out of someones pocket and into the waste basket. or maybe someone wanted to frame her. i mean mistakes like this happens all the time right  kpele o |
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phanty (f)
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In her office,wahala and in mine life goes on
how convenient
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denony (m)
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Julli are you sure your M/D left it or your !!!!!! just be truthful.
well for me, since its her personal office, no explanation will convince me. unless your tell me that it was used to to rap chewing gum of stweet.
But after all necessary chewing gun and sweet explanations judgment will follow.
Womeeeeeeeeeeennnnnnnnnnnnnnn so dangerous
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Gettolove (m)
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na DNA test we go do or HIV test instantly |
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ifyalways (f)
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i pray i don't see such evil BUT if i do see it,i would pretend i didnt see it afterall its my hubby,i love him and would not want to lose him.i would look inward to see if am lacking in my wifely roles and try to adjust BUT if the suspicions still abound,i would ask him about it but after some days sha.silence sometimes do help marriages last.
BUT IF
Its my boyfriend,no stress.i would ask on the spot !
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ayomifull (f)
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What you don't look for you don't see what would i be looking for in his trash can and if i see it by accident it doesnt bother me i will quickly tell myself no way my husband can not descend so low to do it in the office with the no of hotels around i will commot my eyes make in no see evil and will console myself it was used by someone else.
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ibrahiem (m)
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did i hear someone say convincing explanation.
HABA,y wait 4 all that,KAI WAWA NE?
jump 2 conclusion and dump her ass.
OR play da mugu,get another who is going to b faithful and then u use this one to quench your sexual urge since that is what she turn her self into
now that is totalli pathetic aw can u say that? like u dnt ve your own share of rong deeds.i can't possiby saw what happenend nd d reason y someone old enof 2 work in an office lld b that dumb. but that advice is sure off it. what eva happened to dialogue nd if it got 2 u that bad forget it nd her/she. my dear lettin go is all necessary 4 mind nd word peace
hw can i imagine sumone crushing my wife and u are here telling me to let go.what kind of person are?abi una share same mentality |
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NV ME
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Go for test oooo, hmmmmmm why on earth should a USED condom be in her office? ? |
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amaikama (m)
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Simple! just pick the thing up with a pen or pencil and ask, "sweetheart, is this your size?" I just can't help my self for been a detective |
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olupahpah (m)
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Shit happens!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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moneybags
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I heard a female say she will trap him to find out, of what use is that?
What would you do with the information?
When did infidelity become a crime for men in this society?
You better throw way face like you no see anything, thank God that he is using protection and pray that God will continue to bless him so that your Children will be taken care of and their future not jeopardised.
Then you will regard your children with happiness in the future, that is how our mothers did it and we called them fools. Who is the fool?
Hmmm, interesting! Also sad. You either have a low self esteem or are simply just prone to denying reality. Whoever did this to you is heartless. Also, if you have daughters, please don't tell them this type of crap you've posted here. No cheating spouse is worth anything. Dump the ass of the cheating spouse and get on with your life before someone gives you a disease -- life's too short to allow someone else to come and complicate matters unnecessarily. Wetin sef? |
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sod4luv (m)
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Go for test oooo, hmmmmmm why on earth should a USED condom be in her office? ? Thatz the question??? |
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ahuramazda (m)
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If I am a man, PROVOCATION of the Highest Order. Someone says CUTLASS, the problem is that there will be no Cutlass around; it is an office. Wastebasket, what will he be doing there anyway unless he want to drop another waste and see what his wife has assumed he will not see because he has no reason to go near the wastebasket. TO end the relationship, he will ask so that she can know her crime. Do not hit her or make scene. Best solution is avoid and end any romance or sex with her until she packed and run away with that lover. If I am a woman with no kid for him, I will let him know and end the relationship there because he has found his lover. Using condom is to curb unwanted pregnant. If I am a woman with kids, for the sake of my children and their future. I did not see anything.  Not everything we see, do we see; Not everything we hear, do we hear; and Not everthing can we say, some are left alone. |
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Coleslove
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Hmmm, She is just being dirty. Don't mind her. She should have instructed the cleaner to dispose the trash regularly. I guess the sight wouldn't have been offensive.
I can't judge her now. You follow your heart. You wear the shoe, how does it feel like?
Don't get played be the PLAYER
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RichyBlacK (m)
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Na DNA test go solve the matter!
Accurate! Though, for the sake of due process, I'll give her the opportunity to yarn me the truth. Then do the DNA test for verification. If she lied, the marriage is summarily and immediately dissolved. If she was truthful (about her ass being tapped), the marriage is still summarily and immediately dissolved. Otherwise, all may be well. |
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Warfy Boy (m)
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i go beg d guyman make im leave my wife alone, make im go find another marraige wey im wan scarter
my wife na my wife, na she 1 dey this world, if i break up with her, i kno go find another, so wt i need to do is to beg the guyman to plssss step aside foreva like ETTE, n never kom back
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Shinatu
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@moneybags
I laughed when I read your post. 'denying reality' , mmmmmh?
Who is doing just that? me or you?
The only thing I agree with you on is that the situation is sad indeed but oh boy/girl, do your investigation
or simply hang around for a few more years!
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