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Super (m)
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What would you advice a child to say to his father who left him 15 years ago and is now back to seek forgiveness?
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hot-angel (f)
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Did he completely leave the child?? As in no contacts?? Whatsoever! Well that's sad...
If the father asks for forgivness forgive him or her.
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timmy (m)
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tell him you need 15 years to think about it
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christyne (f)
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Did he completely leave the child?? As in no contacts?? Whatsoever! Well that's sad...
If the father asks for forgivness forgive him or her.
You saying ds because u don't knw how one feels when it comes to that.Though,its nice to forgive,but before then,he go smell pepper. tell him you need 15 years to think about it
I love dt n dt's exactly what i'm going to do if my dad should come come back. |
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sweetnini (f)
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i will tell him i love him
he might have a good reason to have left
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lovemii87
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after 15 years,i will show himthe way out of my heart.
indeed,i might even think of thinking bout it 4 15 years
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prettyH (f)
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tell him you need 15 years to think about it
Correct guy. |
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nicetohave (m)
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Nothing...what da h..K?  |
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Grizzly (m)
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As long as he coming back wid pails of dough! lol Now seriously, u don't know what prompted his decision. i'm not saying he was right, but he could have been very young then, inexperienced, scared, poor, ,sometin like that.,.,and i'm sure he could have been loving u all the while he left u, and wishin he cld come back just like he's just done
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Rhodalyn (f)
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your dad is your dad no matter what maybe circumstances forced him to leave, maybe not, but all the same do forgive him what matters most is the fact that he's back!!
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Rhodalyn (f)
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tell him you need 15 years to think about it
what if he's gone by then,dead!!! how would you feel knowing you didnt forgive him before he died, how would you feel that you didnt get to tell him you loved him? IT WOULD ALL BE TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO LATE BY THEN he would be goneeeeee  |
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Grizzly (m)
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To y'all pips talking crap bout waiting for 15years to forgive your dad, i betchu change your minds when u learn u in his will + A LUMP SUM |
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retro (f)
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OMG! The same thing happened to me. Only it was 13 years. I NEVER forgave him and NEVER will. EVER! I despise him for leaving me, the first time we met, i said "hi".
Ask him why he left you,
Ask him if he missed you
Ask him if he thought about you
Ask him if he's going to stay
Make him pay for leaving you,
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nicetohave (m)
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Well done sa, nice muuv  |
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Rosby (m)
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please fellow nairalander,
how can I send a new post
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shawna (f)
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where the hell have u been all these years
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ddizzle (f)
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you see something yeah i think every man has a fault, he left you and that is wrong but you can't keep hating him for that! i think you should forgive him, for him to beg to come back that means he really cares about you! many kids don't even see their dad till they here he died, he probably can't forgive himself for leaving you! and ill say just spare him an extra burden by FORGIVING HIM! You should see it as those 15 YEARS were his loss not yours! Make up with him dear lifes too short to hold grudges!!
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sweetnini (f)
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OMG! The same thing happened to me. Only it was 13 years. I NEVER forgave him and NEVER will. EVER! I despise him for leaving me, the first time we met, i said "hi".
Ask him why he left you,
Ask him if he missed you
Ask him if he thought about you
Ask him if he's going to stay
Make him pay for leaving you,
yea i take back what i said earlier this is what i'll do because this past few months i've come to realize more things |
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ddizzle (f)
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aiht girl i do hope evrything works out for you!! i wont say ive been in your shoes becuase my dad is well respected and hes in the public eye alot of times so i dnt want to say nuffin bout him bt i forgave him, it was hard bt i needed a dad my mum couldnt do both
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lunafish (f)
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Timmy was so right. Retro was on point too.
@Shawna-Great question
Personally; if the reason he left was a reason that I wouldn't tolerate then I wouldn't say anything. You lived without thinking of me so die that way. I know it may sound cruel but somehow I don't care. Life is hard without a father but if life with him would've been harder then I wouldn't start any relationship. You won't be at my graduation. You won't be at my wedding. You won't see my kids. I just don't want to know.
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wiseguy (m)
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It depends on his reason. If his reason sounds so stupid to me, I will tell him he is forgiven but he should go and never try to contact me again. Chikena! One thing I believe is no matter the situation never you run away from your responsibilities.
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kiwibabe (f)
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I would say:
Soo the wonderer returns! or Look what the cat dragged in:
So he remembers me today abi, he should take himself back where he came from. I was doing just fine without him.
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Rhea (m)
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How about:
"I've got a brand new dad. Won't mind a spare around though, just in case"
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Grizzly (m)
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whats that, ?
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Rottweiler (m)
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Whatever a child says/does to his/her father that abandoned him/her years or decades ago is his/her right! The fact remains that YOUR DAD IS YOUR DAD! If he has come back to his senses, all you need to do is to FORGIVE.
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diyobdw (f)
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You should say: Hello stranger you got just fifteen year to catch with to be my daddy.So go one start the race  For real to forgive isnt that easy especially when you suffer'd a bunch because of his absence. i would say listen to your heart for a while and do the most re-occuring suggetion. Who knows if he is back for real anyway? |
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Idekeson (m)
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Is he coming back loaded or broke-ass? Lots of cash will go a long way to facilitate this reunion process.
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sherri (f)
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he didn't leave u! he left your mother!!
take your time to forgive and make up for lost time.
he's back because he cares. u get to know him before u let your guard down.
good luck
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lunafish (f)
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All the people who said forgive don't know what the F*UCK they are talking about.
Oh Daddy! Forget the fact that you rejected me, left me, didn't account for me, didn't support me, didn't communicate and didn't love me because I forgive you!
Oh Daddy! You're back! never mind that it's been 15 years of pain and self hate, loneliness and lack of paternal love, I forgive you!
Oh Daddy! Mum had a s*hit time doing your job and we felt the hardship but now you've come back everything's okay, we forgive you!
Give me a muthaf*ucking break.
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