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Genial (m)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #160 on: January 20, 2007, 08:00 AM »

Quote from: saintchux on January 20, 2007, 07:18 AM
Do yourself a favour, Love your wife.

And I will add to that. . . as much as you love yourself. Only the mentally deranged mutilate their own bodies.
osegwu (m)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #161 on: January 20, 2007, 11:42 AM »

Like I always say, it is only the weak that need a whip to tame his Horse. It is only barbarians that  raise their hands against other people. It is cowards who want to prove they are men over their wives that beat or slap their wives. This is Husband inhumanity to wife

Still me
osegwu (m)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #162 on: January 20, 2007, 11:46 AM »

Are you there my Sweet Loving Radiant?
Radiant (f)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #163 on: January 20, 2007, 08:20 PM »

lol. .  .Osegwu, I'm here. Where are you?  Smiley
howddy4 (f)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #164 on: January 21, 2007, 05:33 AM »

u should no at any time raise ur hands to slap a woman, no matter what she does
soulpatrol (f)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #165 on: January 21, 2007, 05:34 AM »

no, allow the guy now, and lets hope he wakes up with his complete set of balls the next day. rubbish and nonsense! Huh
Seun (m)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #166 on: January 21, 2007, 08:20 AM »

What will you do that won't get you into prison?  Please, violence is not the answer; just dump him immediately.
Uche2nna (m)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #167 on: January 22, 2007, 04:11 AM »

Quote from: soulpatrol on January 21, 2007, 05:34 AM
no, allow the guy now, and lets hope he wakes up with his complete set of balls the next day. rubbish and nonsense! Huh

Girl I am lucky I am not planning to marry U  Grin

Good luck to ur hubby because he going to need it  Cheesy
Nikegenius (f)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #168 on: January 22, 2007, 01:54 PM »

Quote from: osegwu on January 20, 2007, 11:42 AM
Like I always say, it is only the weak that need a whip to tame his Horse. It is only barbarians that  raise their hands against other people. It is cowards who want to prove they are men over their wives that beat or slap their wives. This is Husband inhumanity to wife

Still me



You just said it all
Josh4ever9
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #169 on: January 24, 2007, 07:26 AM »

I have a question. what if the woman hits u first?
runsaway
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #170 on: January 27, 2007, 10:34 PM »

are u kidding me?  i can't believe someone is seriously asking a lame ass question like this? beat your wife for what? u must be nuts. under no cicumstances should u raise your hand and beat your wife. if u need a punching bag go buy one. did u buy her cane from her father with the dowry. crap.

ladies if he is beating u abeg watch some reruns of oprah so that u can know what to expect on a day when he is really angry, he might just kill u. watch oprah people. back your bag and leave. let him get professional help before u consider going back to him.

one other thing- don't cover for him. its okay if people know he beats u at least your neighbors will be alarmed when they hear scuffles, hopefully alarmed enough to stop him before he does u in.

AND don't FORGET U CAN ALWAYS FIND REFUGE IN GOD. THATS Y CHRIST DIED, TO SAVE U AND GIVE U SHELTER FROM THE STORM.
Softee (f)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #171 on: January 28, 2007, 04:01 PM »

Excuseeeeeeeee You!

You said it like wives are children. A wife is an adult like you, the same way she annoys you, you annoy her. Such is life!

No man has the right to hit his wife and if he does hes a coward and can't face someone his on gender to beat on.
venusmaze
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #172 on: January 28, 2007, 04:08 PM »

@topic
Did i just wake up in the twilight zone? If a man needs to slap a woman to get his point across then he truly should not be called a MAN
or a reasonable human
Omo Eko (f)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #173 on: January 29, 2007, 02:13 AM »

edited
slimnike (m)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #174 on: January 29, 2007, 03:17 AM »

you can give are one or two slaps, BUT playfully Ohhhhhhhhhh. Atleast in a loving and caring manner. Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Seun (m)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #175 on: January 29, 2007, 09:02 AM »

Quote from: Josh4ever9 on January 24, 2007, 07:26 AM
I have a question. what if the woman hits u first?

If my wife hits me first, she must kneel down to apologise. If my girlfriend hits me, she's no longer my girlfriend.
LadyT (f)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #176 on: January 30, 2007, 09:59 PM »

Quote from: Seun on January 29, 2007, 09:02 AM
If my wife hits me first, she must kneel down to apologise. If my girlfriend hits me, she's no longer my girlfriend.


LMFAO classic yoruba man!!! I love it LOL
superman (m)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #177 on: February 01, 2007, 01:11 AM »

ladyti

i think u should carry your yoruba. i mean live us as nigeria then carry your yoruba go! na only yoruba u sabi praise here huh? brov no vex ooooo haha na question superman de ask ooo, i know say sometimes water fit pass yellow garri haha
slimnike (m)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #178 on: February 05, 2007, 11:42 PM »

Seriously You don't have to slap your wife,but they do deserve one at times.
ThiefOfHearts (f)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #179 on: February 05, 2007, 11:44 PM »

why not date a man then, oloshi.
Radiant (f)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #180 on: February 05, 2007, 11:45 PM »

Quote from: slimnike on February 05, 2007, 11:42 PM
Seriously You don't have to slap your wife,but they do deserve one at times.

Here comes another retard!  Grin
debosky (m)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #181 on: February 05, 2007, 11:49 PM »

Quote from: slimnike on February 05, 2007, 11:42 PM
Seriously You don't have to slap your wife,but they do deserve one at times.

some men also deserve to be anally raped by a big prisoner named 'Boo', but seriously you don't have to do that either.  Grin Grin
Genial (m)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #182 on: February 06, 2007, 01:16 AM »

Quote from: debosky on February 05, 2007, 11:49 PM
some men also deserve to be anally raped by a big prisoner named 'Boo', but seriously you don't have to do that either. Grin Grin

I had to go get my ribs stitched up after reading this.
Radiant (f)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #183 on: February 06, 2007, 01:18 AM »

lmaoGenial easy o  Cheesy
slimnike (m)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #184 on: February 06, 2007, 02:21 AM »

@ Radiant me retard. kai,  Shocked Shocked
Adedigold (f)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #185 on: February 07, 2007, 09:48 AM »

Any reasonable man does not suppose to slap his wife no matter what . It is as simple as slapping his mother. Woman is regarded as a weaker vessel so they should be treated like a baby.
mekoyo (m)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #186 on: February 09, 2007, 02:17 PM »

Quote
She should also slap you everytime you do something wrong

Thank you for that answer.

If wives are to be slapped when they cross their limits sometimes then the husbands too should be slapped when they cross their limits sometimes too.

Haba Slap your wife? What if someone outside does that to her? What will you do?

don't do that to your wife instead just give her a break for sometime.
slimnike (m)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #187 on: February 13, 2007, 07:57 PM »

They deserve slap. But don't slap them oh.
JosBoy4Lif (m)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #188 on: February 13, 2007, 08:00 PM »

Abuse of any kind is not accpetable, but it is tolerated in some relationships.
A lot of Naija women need to gain what is a backbone, men don't beat self-respecting women
LadyT (f)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #189 on: February 13, 2007, 08:50 PM »

Jos abusive men will beat any type of woman because they are bullies!
Honey_pot (m)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #190 on: February 14, 2007, 12:15 AM »

Sometimes i laugh at some cyber hypocrisy exhibited by many people. Guys who are afraid of being branded retards or bullies, try fruitlessly to wear a good public face without proper analysis of the subject matter. I don't support wife beating but to be honest sometimes u just have to restrain yourself

So do wives deserve a slap or two to caution them? Yes, now before u throw ur angry jibes at me, just read on
Should u do it or is it worth it?  No, but u can devise a fit-for-purpose disciplinary measure

The truth is that some women can be so annoying sometimes, that is why only guys with high sense of maturity and inexhaustible patience should contemplate marriage.

The best option is to enter into a pre-marital contract with the woman     - No direct or remote nagging/disrespect by any means verbal or body language, then no disciplinary action in any form from the man. The terms and conditions must be kept by all parties at all times, with grave punishment awaiting repeat offenders

Seriously, why do majority of women nag and seem to generate strife? Why can't they politely and calmly talk over issues with their spouses. I need honest answers from ladies please, no name calling here, u can disagree with my views politely without starting another chain of verbal abuse plsssss.
LadyT (f)
Re: Do Wives Deserve A Slap Or Two To Caution Them?
« #191 on: February 14, 2007, 12:34 AM »

Honey pot you know I always have a mouth of abuse ready for senseless posts.

But as you have pleaded.  What about men who are annoying? Does the wife have the right to slap them?  If the person is that bad leave them instead of turning them into a punchbag.  There are other ways of getting to someone.  Ignoring them is one moving out is another.  But to hit them  Huh
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