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Macgreat (m)
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To set her straight now if she not in right position but no be for face ooo N don't slap her with much force u wouldnt want stretch mark on her as(s). If in heated arguement N u find her insultive 'a slap or two to caution her' totally uneccessary but if u find yourself too provoked quickly find your way to a Gym N pure all out on the metals(advice 4 d bad/hot tempard).
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slimnike (m)
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To set her straight now if she not in right position but no be for face ooo N don't slap her with much force u wouldnt want stretch mark on her as(s). If in heated arguement N u find her insultive 'a slap or two to caution her' totally uneccessary but if u find yourself too provoked quickly find your way to a Gym N pure all out on the metals(advice 4 d bad/hot tempard).
Or better still, He should look for a rock to blow. 
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$$Rhino
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IF you ever slap a sister of mine, that hands will never be used for nothing again, because i will cut it off, when you marry her, you knew her shortcomings, and even, if you never knew, she aint your child, nor slave, u dare notlay your filthy hands on any woman that i know, else, you will be gone for a long time
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amaikama (m)
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few slaps here and there won't hurt a fly. i say yes! i would  just to keep her in check if she forgot who is the man  and who is the woman? 
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omoge (f)
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a shameless man beats his woman. if na me you go marry eh amaikama, hospital won't contain both of us. by the time surgeons get done with you at the hospital, cops will be waiting to ship you off.
no man will slap me and get away with it NEVER!!
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soulpatrol (f)
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amaikama, your posts never seem to speak well of u o. u always sound like some unexposed, arrogant person with no substance! i find it hard to even respond to some of the things u say. i know everyone has opinionS different from others, but urs never cease to amaze me! WOW! 
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$$Rhino
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does a man deserve a bite on his privates for a caution? if the answer is NO, then the woman aint your kid, she is a woman.
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amaikama (m)
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Omoge! you think so?  Soulpatrol- that's the beauty of marriage my dear. when a woman erred, she should be corrected just the way you would spank your child when he erred. And to put you straight my dear, i am exposed. you all feel that when a woman erred she should not be corrected just because she is a woman. what about women that beat up their husband, what advice or caution would you give to the woman?
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omoge (f)
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i think so, real soooo. just pray you jam real lady! you will learn the hard way never to touch a woman!
and when a man err, what should we do? chop off his prick head/blockoss? eh amaikama?
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Tanna (f)
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SURE jare. A slap on -the ass is always good during foreplay and sex -LOL. Other than that - NO - a man should never hit a woman.
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Tanna (f)
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I looooove my Naija man - but his hands are tooo damn big to be hitting me or any other non-threatening human.  If he ever even raised his hand to me - cause he thought for a split second that he would hit me- I'd make like a ghost and be gone. SERIOUSLY - I'd call him a month later from some undisclosed location -to check if the divorce papers have been signed yet. God put too much work into making me beautiful and whole to let some person - mess it up. "My body is the temple of the Lord's"
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omoge (f)
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em em that slap during love making em em 
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mayorking (m)
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Hmmm, This thread is so funny and engrossing that I went through all that had been written from the beginning to the end. Well to be frank,it is a serious issue but I think a lot of poeple has shown their immaturity and lack of depth in this post.When somebody calls anybody that has a different view names as far as insulting their personality,it shows that such people need to be trained in the act/art of communication and that person is not better than the man who slaps/beat his wife as the case may be. All these arguement will be unnneccessary if people stay in their G od given roles as stated in the word of God instead of following some modern thinking that in clearly against the word of God. 'Husbands love your wives as Christ loves the church and gave himself for it.Wives submit to your husbands'It says further that women should be children of Sarsh who submited unto Abraham and call him Lord' If everybody stay in these roles we will see less of all these. As a married man I had found out that my wife respects and obey me better when I show her love and treat her like a 'baby' and a special person.She has also found that I treat her better when she submits to me and treat me like the King of the house. Some women believe that they should be able to say anything to their husbands and get away with it.Well,it is better to stay on thje house top that to stay in the same house with a contentious woman.It is also said that 'he that doed not offend in words,the same is a perfect person',SO WOMEN SHOULD BRIDDLE THEIR TONGUES.Some women are even so bad that when a man wants to run away they will block him,lock the door and hold on to the man's cloths shouting for him to beat them ! Men also have to have great control over their emotions "SUURU LA FI NSOKO OBINRIN".ABO ORO LANSO FUN OMOLAUBI TO BA DE INU E ADI ODINDI.MARRIAGE IS FOR MEN AND WOMEN NOT BOYS AND GIRLS.THE DEEP CALLETH UNTO THE DEEP,YOU ATTRACT YOUR TYPE TO YOURSELF.PERIOD
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$$Rhino
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i beg make una no spoil me ohhhh
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soulpatrol (f)
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some people are still living in the village!
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English1 (f)
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Only a very weak person has to resort to violence. Who could respect a person like that? If you use violence, then the other person will lose all respect for you.
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lawuyi (m)
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Hmmm, This thread is so funny and engrossing that I went through all that had been written from the beginning to the end. Well to be frank,it is a serious issue but I think a lot of poeple has shown their immaturity and lack of depth in this post.When somebody calls anybody that has a different view names as far as insulting their personality,it shows that such people need to be trained in the act/art of communication and that person is not better than the man who slaps/beat his wife as the case may be. All these arguement will be unnneccessary if people stay in their G od given roles as stated in the word of God instead of following some modern thinking that in clearly against the word of God. 'Husbands love your wives as Christ loves the church and gave himself for it.Wives submit to your husbands'It says further that women should be children of Sarsh who submited unto Abraham and call him Lord' If everybody stay in these roles we will see less of all these. As a married man I had found out that my wife respects and obey me better when I show her love and treat her like a 'baby' and a special person.She has also found that I treat her better when she submits to me and treat me like the King of the house. Some women believe that they should be able to say anything to their husbands and get away with it.Well,it is better to stay on thje house top that to stay in the same house with a contentious woman.It is also said that 'he that doed not offend in words,the same is a perfect person',SO WOMEN SHOULD BRIDDLE THEIR TONGUES.Some women are even so bad that when a man wants to run away they will block him,lock the door and hold on to the man's cloths shouting for him to beat them ! Men also have to have great control over their emotions "SUURU LA FI NSOKO OBINRIN".ABO ORO LANSO FUN OMOLAUBI TO BA DE INU E ADI ODINDI.MARRIAGE IS FOR MEN AND WOMEN NOT BOYS AND GIRLS.THE DEEP CALLETH UNTO THE DEEP,YOU ATTRACT YOUR TYPE TO YOURSELF.PERIOD
Bros nicely said joooo. All said though i can't believe some of what i'm reading on this topic. Some people need to understand that their wives are not goats oooooo. Abeg there's no justification under heaven for hitting your wife. This is someone you're supposed to love and cherish, is that a new way of cherishing>  ?? The Bible says spare d rod and spoil d child. Did u see anywhere it says sparing the rod will spoil d wife too?  ? Please let's not resort to turning our wives to punching bags, you knew who she was when u married her. So if u could tolerate it then find a way to tolerate it now. Please beating your wife is not a sign of your manhood but rather a sign of your weakness. A strong man can control his environment with words and doesn't need to resort to his fists at every provocation. Another thing is u nid to watch out because this wife beating thing will definitely affect your kids. Your sons will most definitely turn out to be abusers of women because they think that's how it's supposed to be. Worse your daughters will see any man that doesn't beat them as weak and will almost subconsciously try to get and keep men that turn them to punching bags. PLEASE STOP ABUSING YOUR WIVES AND CAUSING PROBLEMS FOR UR KIDS
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$$Rhino
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omoge, u don spoil finish oh, what if the man slap you too hard while the good thing happening in bed.
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henry007 (m)
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slaps woulnt be necessary unless u're ready 4 a huge makeup sex.i prefer blows and slugs
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tushman (m)
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any man that slaps his wife is no better than a lizard one of the best ways to handle a troublesome/nagging/hot headed woman is to walk out on her if she refuses to see reason and ignore her till she comes back to beg for mercy
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ebony4life (f)
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REAL MEN DON'T HIIT WOMEN! ONLY WEREs (MAD ONES) DO! SO BE REAL!. 
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tosinbas
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radiant thanks for asking that question
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eezzy (f)
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only a yeye man can hit a woman if women deserve a slap or two to caution them then men deserve twenty or thirty to stop them doing the many foolish things they do ke! 
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ehie007 (m)
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women deserves some slaps at times.
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lamidebaby (f)
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I agree 100%.  Men also deserve a gunshot or two to caution them everytime they stray. 
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