How Not To Get A Wife In Nigeria If You Live Abroad

Zulu these things are true everywhere, we all want things to work out for us, the difference is that some are desperate.
And the most dangerous person(s) to come across in one's life is  a desperate person(s) cos they can do ANYTHING to achieve ANYTHING.

*Shakes head *

WTF? 

My people,
Na wa o! Well personally, I have seen situations where things have worked out positively and negatively. Like every situation and circustance in life.
Does that mean that relationships/marriages entered into by both home based and abroad based spouses don't go sour?
In a way, I think I know where the poster is coming from. But, I think the conclusions and insinuations are too general and quite on the negative side.
Nigerians in general and especially the ladies, have had enough of image bashing. They could do with some positive vibes.
Further, it's also very important what kind of people you surround yourself with when you are in Nigeria. Like the saying goes: "If you pay bananas, you'll get monkies" If you go to Nigeria and surround yourself with riff-raffs (male/female) and act like some local champion, well you will be partly responsible for the negativities that befall you.
Finally, I would like to say : "Fear can hold you prisoner, hope can set you free"
There are still a lot of well-meaning, open-minded, metropolitan people in Nigeria. You only need to place yourself in the right setting.
This is my take on this issue. Thanks.

HELLO
U ARE AN EXCELLENT RESEARCHER.A WISE PERSON WILL LEARN FROM YOUR PIECE.U HAVE WRITTEN AN INTELLIGENT STUFF.EVERYBODY CANNOT BUY YOUR IDEA UNTIL THEY FALL A VICTIM OF WAYO BABES

Wifey materials based in Nigeria please don't marry any guy that come all the way "from abroad"just to marry a woman except he's coming to stay permanently  except he's based in poland 


13 years hmm that means you've had plenty prostitues, drunks, mixed race babies, and the rest 

@Gorrjigen

Stop advertising your stereotype bullsh*t here and seun, you should not be posting something like this on the features, it shows that you agree with this Gorrjigen. Are you also a stereo?

How about Ben that stayed in holland for 10 years , and all the women in holland rejected him because he was impotent? yet his long time nigerian girl friend still married him for the sake of what they had before he left.

even when he came back without nothing after 1o years. and still hoping for god to restore his impotency . what  then  will you say about this nigerian girl?

dont paint all nigerian ladies black ok.
you can as well marry a white lady. we all know the few that are married to them what they are going through.

  If a non nigerian made this type of post people would go crazy!!!

Theres only a small minority of Nigerians spoiling our name lets not blow it up to something thats its not.  Nigerians have enough bad press already. 

Have you guys seen the website 419eater its a disgrace and makes us look bad.  Don't make things worst by spreading nonesense.

 

i BELEIVE THE GUYS MOTHER HAD HIM OUT OF BROKEN HOME.
NO MAN BORN OF A COMPLETE WOMAN SPEAKS LIKES THIS.

MAYBE IS MOTHER WAS A PROSTITUTE OR A PROSTITUTE
OR HAD HIM THROUGH PROSTITUTION. YOU DONT OPEN YOUR MOUTH AND TALK ANY HOW.

IF YOU CAN OPEN YOUR TOILET AND TALK LIKE THIS. I BET YOU YOUR OWN BLOOD SISTERS WILL NOT MEAN OR WORTH A CENT TO YOU . ANIMAL STOP TALKING TRASH AND CONCENTRATE ON YOUR GUTTER SWEEPING ABROAD.

1. Do not let any lady you are interested in, know you live abroad in the first place, if she must know, tell her you are in Ghana or uganda etc

big deal! so what if you live abroad? like its heaven rite ?i would not have the  time of the day for a man who would't tell me where he lives. locally or abroad. most of such men are frauds anyway, or have somethinh to hide.

Do not select lady who is well versed in the use of the internet, these are ladies who are advertising themselves nakedly on different websites to dupe unsuspecting men, they will jump on you and dump you as soon as they relocate with you.

i guess you unwittingly described yourself as a primitive, frustrated and depressed  old man.imagine not wanting  awife well versed on internet usage?  you are a throwback to the dark ages, maybe you would prefer the women  then. abi?
5. Avoid ladies who are University graduates if you can, they will pretend until they relocate with you, then got awares of the female friendly laws in Europe/USA and dump you as soon as possible. Many of them will end up quarelling with you and becoming very argumentative and arrogant.


a piece of advise for you. an  illiterate is the ideal wife for you(a stark illiterate, though they are quite hard to find now).
13. As you are avoiding sex, please make sure you check all the body parts, like the breasts, the tommy area, or you may even ''finger'' the private part to ''carbon date'' her experience and dating age.


now you are being very 'unwise' which self respecting ladies literate or not would allow you do that?

A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE. , This piece was compiled based on my personal experience after living in Europe for  13 years, take care.
 
  wow you must really have had a bad time with women. what could be the problem? are you so bad looking they all despise the sight of you? or are you so 'mumuish' they all take you for a ride? now that would make you very 'unwise'. feel so sorry for you. 13 years, come home bro1.

U been lookin 4 me? well, in-between work and play, this is where i usually find myself

If there is milk and honey where you are, pls let it tell on you.
Who wants to marry a floor mopper, a gangster or a Scammer anyway?
Tell that to the host of abroad mongers who want to re-locate abegiiiiiiiii.

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