Will You Be In the Labor Room With Your Wife?

I was there when my son was born, infact the Doctor asked me to hold the left thigh which I did, it was an easy birth, she only pushed four times and he was out, then I cut the cord, quite an exxxperience! mixxed feelings of joy and sadness, You go guys! Go in there don't mind what she says be there!

Went in there while she was in labour for the second kid - 12 years ago. Couldn't stand her pains.
Ran as fast as my legs could carry me out of the theatre. That made up my mind. No more kids. Been grateful
to God for keeping her during that period and to her for bearing that pain for both of us.

Have a great respect for ladies - especially mothers - ever since. They are a strong lot. Men who maltreat women
either have not 'experienced' what they go through or a loonie or both.

3 gbosas to our women,

he must be there with me ohh so i can do the pinching when am trying to push,lol.

It will be good for your hubby to be there to make you feel horny as you as going thrugh the pains, thereby reducing the intensity of the whole pains.
LOL

if you get that mind nah!!

There was a time when  i use to think i will be with my woman in the labour room but not anymore, i have taken a pregnant woman from home to hospital in this southy,  It was something else, eeven in the car, i just managed to stay focused that night driving. These women are facing hell when they labouring

This is a thoughtful topic. I love the initiative.

I am a father of three (two boys, one girl).

I was there with my wife during labour for the three of them.

My Experience

Firstborn - Strenuous long hours. She almost broke my neck while tightening  my cloth whenever the pain becomes unbearable. Thank God she delivered safely. Though my son later revenged by holding her neck while breastfeeding 

Second born - fairly easy though with pains, I was there and it was over in few hours. However, this child is the most troublesome of my children maybe he retaliates for not giving much trouble during birth

Third born - Haa, my wife almost broke my wrist. It was veeeery painful. Later I was told that being a girl maybe she is preparing a lot of packages for her trip to the world . Se twisted my wrist so much that I felt the pain few days after the delivery.


Lessons I learned

It is good for the man to be there for your wife. It is a good moral and psychological support for your wife. Do it if you are available. Wives are to be appreciated and they will be more if you understand the pains they go through.

We are planning and hoping to put a fullstop .

FULLSTOP. PERIOD .

My hubby was right there with me during labour and delivery of both of sons, it was such an emotional day

We feel even closer to each other after the experience.

Courage?  What courage?  Courage to do what every female mammal on earth can do?

he has to be there to see d pains he inflicted upon me and also receive slaps for inflicting it

mi hussy has to be there, afterall he put it in while on b, d so while on bed deliverin his effort he should be there.

I wanted my husband to be present during the birth of my 3rd baby but the nurse refused. But with God by my side, I scaled through and will continue to scale through in Jesus name, Amen

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my husband was there only when i had my first child,and swore i'll never have another child after that one,because he tot the pains was too much,and he swore never to be present again,(that is if i decide i want another child) because he can't take d slaps and insults i threw at him,i was told i reigned insults on him,but i don't remember doing such

Yes i'll love to be there.