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nicetohave (m)
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they will allow you...try it and prove me wrong...the next time your wife is in labour ward in LUTH or UCH...ask to be present with her  |
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Renike (f)
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saw that when my aunt had her first baby, she won't even look my uncle in the face, ok, there u go..i bet she understand what i mean... for d odas, it not the fact that he has seen me before...but this is another level...d pushing and stuff like i was telling someone, it like u are crazy about someone ( u are not embarrased to be with them) but u want them to see u that way. labor aint a cute thing..legs up..pushing...blood...fliud..mm no! ( but like i said, if he wants to..be my guest) true, he put it dere but still... |
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Sir Kay (m)
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Great topic and very interesting it is.
Well I have 3kids already and thank God I was opportuned to be with my wife in the labour room when she had our 1st and 3rd child. Wasnt around when she had the 2nd. It made me to appreciate her the more
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goodguy (m)
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I wouldn't like to see my wife cry during the labour. But I'd love to hear her scream.
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nicetohave (m)
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some women are sooo sweet even in labour y'know you'd love to just hold their hand all through it...we all know it is a "labourous" period, why else is it called "labour"? but some women just roll with the punches i believe its mostly her call...if she wants you with her, be a man and be there with her. |
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Scorpio (f)
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I wouldn't like to see my wife cry during the labour. But I'd love to hear her scream.
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christyne (f)
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I would have loved it the most for my husband to be there with me but the fact dt i'll be in pains will not make me recognise his presence.So wats d essence of him being there with me?
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nicetohave (m)
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You never know Christyne.....its comforting, and trust me it helps the man to understand some situations better and appreciate you more....not that he doesnt love you or appreciate you before, but it adds a special glow to it, i believe!
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cy (f)
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i like carsy things, what about the doctor teaching him how to do it himself,that is if i don't marry a doctor.the doctor would show him the placenta,and show him were to cut,just teach him to get me been delivered of d child.i would love him to act like the doctor,bring out what he put in there himself. am not crasy its my dream. |
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nicetohave (m)
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Thats the spirit my dear  |
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Scorpio (f)
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y would u want to her your wife scream especially when she's in pain? |
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nicetohave (m)
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because its pain that brings forth abundance of joy...the joy of the born child makes the scream sound like sweet music
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Scorpio (f)
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oh lawd!..iono, but if i'm in labour n u make da mistake of tellin me all that stuff, i seriously don't know what i'll do to u as soon as i can walk  |
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nicetohave (m)
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I know what you will do; You will thank God for sending me to tell you at the right time, and most likely buy me lunch. |
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Scorpio (f)
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i'mma see if u gon be able to eat by the time i knock out all your 32 u'll be on a clear fluid diet then just kiddin |
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nicetohave (m)
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Thats what people get for doing their job clear fluid diet aint so bad too...tried it before? |
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Scorpio (f)
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l.o.l @ nicetohave thinkin he's a super hero, nah i haven't tried that diet n i hope not to  |
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disney (f)
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Some lady told me that....................once you have your baby, despite the pain, you would love to do it over and over again. that l don't know the joy you get when you hold the baby. that that joy washes all pain away. hum, l was like reallly......... |
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nicetohave (m)
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Absolutely agree!!! i am not a woman but i have seen a woman swore and cry that she wont do it again....and i saw again in another 12 months |
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larger_20 (m)
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Women enjoy s.e.x even more after birth but anyways.I wouldnt want to be in the room because I personally don't like to see blood. For the same reason, I don't want to marry a virgin. But anyways...If my wife says i should be there, I will be there but will stand towards her head side.and that will make me appreciate her more and value her as a wife...
However, I may not want to have sex with her again for like 11 months after giving birth or until the horror in the labor room clears my head.
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nicetohave (m)
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Talk is cheap |
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Scorpio (f)
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I wouldnt want to be in the room because I personally don't like to see blood. For the same reason, I don't want to marry a virgin. But anyways...If my wife says i should be there, I will be there but will stand towards her head side.and that will make me appreciate her more and value her as a wife...
However, I may not want to have sex with her again for like 11 months after giving birth or until the horror in the labor room clears my head.
seems to me like u're scared |
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larger_20 (m)
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Yah I can't even kill a chicken...I don't watch movies where people see blood piles....I watch mostly comedy, sit coms and epic movies... Hey not seeing blood does not mean..I am not man enough ...... |
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hot-angel (f)
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Hunnie.. you're not man enough! |
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nicetohave (m)
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you can't stand all that and you wan marry? |
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larger_20 (m)
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I don't know if am gona marry...I enjoy peoples company though..we will see...
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nicetohave (m)
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common be a man___ |
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Scorpio (f)
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Yah I can't even kill a chicken... I don't watch movies where people see blood piles.I watch mostly comedy, sit coms and epic movies...Hey not seeing blood does not mean..I am not man enough ...... don't do this to me now |
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Renike (f)
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I don't know if am gona marry...I enjoy peoples company though..we will see...
u sure about that?  |
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larger_20 (m)
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I don't know..I am not sure..my parents go kill me if they know I have taught about being single for life......but i really don't know..I might reconcider...I love dogs and pussy cat
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