Talk 2 Meg

Am in love wit a man 18yrs older dan i am,he wants 2 marry me but he has 3 kids n d wife is late.Am just 22,if u were in my shoes what will u do?please nairalanders talk 2 me.

Dvampire tanx but don't u think he'll av a divided attention 2wards me bcuz of d kids?

if the kids did not pose a threat when he proposed to marry you, why do you think they would when he has tied the knot finally? see, let me tell you something, be the nice sweet and caring person that you are; i mean those qualities that you displayed that got both of you attracted to each other in the first place, display enough of it - both to the man and the kids. love is not about competition on who get more of the affection or who gets less, it's about complimenting. where one fails, the other assists. in that way, the love grows and the undestanding between partners improves.

My Deargirl,

This is my own oppion I think u are way to young to take care of 3 children.

So he is 18 years older then u what do u think will happen after ten years he is growing older and u are getting matured u will be a different woman after ten years do u think he will accept that,  why am i asking u this questions,  cause i was married to a man who was twenty years older then me.He couldn't accept the fact that i was becoming a woman who makes her own decision.

That is all i want to say to u hope i didn't offend u am just talking about my own experience hope i give u something to thing about.

U are 22 and he's 18 years older than u are,
I don't think its a good idea.
Things might work out ok between both y'all for now
but it ain't going to last. . trust me.

don't get caught up in the moment, think hard bout ur decision.