Female Virginity (vs. Male Virginity)

I  just read most of the posts on here and I just had a few things to say:



1. I've wondered about the double standard that says men can do what they want and women can't. I don't have a problem with double standards at all because the two sexes are different. To say that there shoudln't be double standards between men and women is like asking what can physically get you to work better, a car or a calculator. That we keep cars in garages and calculators in desks is not strange at all. Hopefully, everyone would agree that men and women are built differently, hopefully in every way. Nature has placed a heavy burden on women that says "you can't have muscles and do a lot of work because it will interfere with your ability to have children". Female Gymnasts, Bodybuilders, Slaves in the past all are less able to have children. Thats why nature took the muscles off you and put them on us(Cause at least back in the day, we needed muscles for farming, hunting, building and all that).  Many men don't understand how precious this makes a woman cause they are tripping off their own muscles. But these differences lead to an outgrowth of all manner of mental and psychological differences as well... So I can understand why a man might be more likely to have lots of sex. Besides, genrally, there are more single mothers than single fathers. I'm not saying this is the way it shoudl be, I'm saying that this is the way it is, this is the way it ends up. Women have to be more careful about their encounters, because chances are they will be making the heavier parental investment. so I can understand why a woman might have evolved to be more chaste, and arroused less quickly.


BUT!!!!!!!!



2. To everyone trying to say that theres no difference in a person before and after they lose their virginity, why do you say that? Of course there is! After, a person has experience. for both men and women they become a little more serious, a little less nonsense. Women lose shyness, and men lose caring. not totally, but its there.

I do want my girl to be a virgin. There's something about a non virgin, even if she was married before, that is just not as clean as a virgin. I keep thinking in the back of my mind, this girl is not a virgin. she has had sex with another man. she has ties to that man. I'm less special to her because of that. If the woman does not have ties to the men she has slept with then I don't want to be with her either cause why should I be any different?

I don't know how to explain what it is about sex that makes higher and higher levels of monogamy seem cleaner. The history of a person follows them. 'Use'  and 'experience' are terms that can be applied psychologically as well! just because you can't see something, doesn't mean it is not there. Psychological changes happen to a person when they have sex. and ties linger. Take a cassette tape for instance. once you record something there, you can record over it, but the new recording may not be quite as good quaity cause you are not writing on a clean surface. with enough technology, an expert might even be able to uncover the first recording!! Sometimes I do  worry about being with one woman all my life, whether that will be boring, whether I will be missing out. Cause the LAST THING I WANT is a boring relationship, or one with no life. I want to have the best sex in the world!!!!!!!! I'll go celibate first. Oh no. And I want my girl to be beautiful, too.


So the numbers don't add up: For me to sleep with a woman, either: I'm taking her precious virginity away, or I'm sleeping with a woman who has ties to another man.

That leaves only serious relationships. hence the higher and higher levels of monogamy.


Let me ask this also of the women on this site, and be honest.  Would you want a virgin man? I've only seen two responses on that subject. And I'm curious, cause I get mixed reports.

 

i would love to marry a virgin man but hard to come across one in this day and age

You said it all, no comment.

iranu

Neither!

funny.

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conleymon

isnt it obvious u re a teenager, who thinks more with
his groin than with his head, I'm sorry 4 being impolite
but i can't be more angry than the female folks.

Are you a chauvenist?

how long  do u think a virgin wife remains a virgin in your household after
honeymoon?
the chaste associated with virgins in the days of our fathers is simply because there were less challenges then than now, or do u think that these so called non virgins didnt have a good reason for being so?

Remember the story of the temptation of jesus after he left the wilderness, in their
own days, the devil knowing he is jesus to tell him to jump from the mountain is a temptation right?, I'm asking u?
if u were in jesus's shoes, will u fall for it? i tell u i will slap the living day out of his eyez, is not even worthy to be a temptation, but i tell u it was story enough to land in the bible but in our own dayz, is a cock and bull story,

so, u will sacrifice ur happiness for a woman's  sexcapades?
you will sacrifice a unique understanding u have with a lady for her sexcapades?
in that case u will prefer a nagging virgin,
a cleptomaniac virgin,
a low life virgin,
an uneducated virgin,
a bastard virgin
well, sorry for you,
the choice that u make determines to a great extent ur happiness
Good luck in your quest for virginity, FREAK
you will record more missionary journies than st paul

BIAFRA BOY!!!

we ve seen that a lot, i guess those uniport chicks that screwed
with a white guy,
nd he!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
but i don't get the point