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slimnike (m)
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I bet she is tired of those advise.
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ire-funke (f)
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Lady T,
U have done a great job in analysing ur pelvic floor exercise.It was a great job. I know it before but ur explanation on it was too simple like a-b-c.So simple that a pupil in d kindergarten class will get the practical message u were trying to pass across.That is the only thing I know could be the natural solution.It could even be imagination that the place is not tight again.
Though it may not be as tight as it was at the initial stage, but not like an egg could pass through it.
Lecturer 1.ride onnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn.
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ire-funke (f)
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Seun,
Natural birth pain is just at the moment of labour ,immediately the baby is out all d pains is gone,forgotten.But the CS stuff is painless at the time of operation in most cases the mother will not know when the operation is on. I can bet it with u the pain start immediately the mother is up.I'm a mother o.k
all the epidural,all the pain killers stuff some of the effect will come up weeks later and some years later as it all have to do with d backbone.Later when a woman is 45 years and above research and practical testimonies from white and black women shows that those that have had one birth pain killer, epidural during their life time will have problem with bone aches especially at the back unlike someone who has a natural birth.
Those with c-s can't have all the blood related stuff with d baby evacuated which turns most mothers to having a big tommy because they can't press their tommy with something warm to get the blood melted out of their system.But for natural birth,these mothers use hot water or anything to press their tommy to bring out all the blood stuff and their tommy will be as flat as that of 18years old girl.or do u want ur wife to start struggling with protruding belly later in life ?u wont like it either .
They are restricted to what and what they will eat pending some days because of the C-S.
They will have to be going to the hospital regularly for the dressing of the stitches,and when the stiches will be removed that is another pain on its own.
Then for the baby,he /she will be reden excessively in colour at birth because there was no struggle during his/her passage from the womb to the vaginal.The same happened to all women both white and black all over the world,even those handled by the best doctor in the whole world.
Very expensive,full of anxiety from relatives e.t.c.Like someone said u have limited time with which u can have ur baby through a C-S.But via natural birth u can have 2o children as long has God gives u the srenght but u dare not go 4 times through C-s.
Those are just few sides of C-S oooooooo.Now choose this day what u want ur wife to go through all because of tightness of vagina
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moondust (m)
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 Oti O!
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moondust (m)
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try Alum, i heard it even restores your virginity
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kolapo-t (m)
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If you are really worried about tightening back your vagina after delivery
then you and your husband should consult a shoe maker(cobbler) to sew back the
loose areas since both of you seems not to appreciate GOD's work.
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lysaa (f)
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1) Come on, try to be real. C-sections far less painful than natural childbirth.
2) In addition to that, C-sections never result in torn privates.
3) If I was a woman, I would go for a C-section, so this is not a selfish suggestion.
wonders shall never end were u a woman in ur first life?   |
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Radiant (f)
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Ire Funke, as much as you tried to make sense, you didn't impress me. As in I wouldn't be discouraged to have a C-S after reading all that you piled up.
I mean, Hello!!!
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ire-funke (f)
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Radiant,
I couldn't get ur message.I was not forcing anybody to go through natural child birth against his or her wish .But u sounded as if I have used senseless words to want to lure u or others ''u were trying to make sense, ,afetr all u piled up, ' .Is up to u to make ur decision.This is just the way I saw the topic and the way others saw it made them to have different views about it.GOOD LUCK WITH UR CHOICE .
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omoge (f)
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i read somewhere (can't rememember where) a guy was saying if couples want to have just 1-2 kids, they should follow the birth canal method but if they want more than 1-2, they should do CS, it was kind of strange. reading from the OP, i just remember that now.
well well well, hopefully, we all at some point won't have guys who will complain of nature taking its course.
Lady OP, if your man is complaining don't worry tell him it's nature taking its course.
cheers.
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osegwu (m)
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I love men! Jeez! You marry a wife, make love to her,
make her pregnant and after child delivery you still want
her to be a virgin. You can't have your cake and eat it.
Stupid fellow
@ Topic
Follow the advice above and do the Pelvic floor
excercise. It will definitely make a difference.
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Anonymous2 (m)
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You can't have your cake and eat it.
Stupid fellow
@ Topic
Follow the advice above and do the Pelvic floor
excercise. It will definitely make a difference.
Guys, y'all fascinate me, both your support and your oppositions. Boy! its all scary like in a movie. Now I feel so sorry for the ladies. Maybe i'D never get my wife preggy. **fingers crossed** |
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BIKINI (f)
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@ RADIANT NO DISSING INTENDED, BUT NA AFTER U DON GO DO AM COME BACK WE GO REALLY KNOW WHETER IRE- FUNKE CONVINCE U OR NOT. them NO DEY TELL PERSON because UR BODY GO phone U. NO WOMAN WHO HAS THE CHOICE OF A NATURAL BIRTH OPTS 4 A CS" , MY DEAR, AS THEY SAY: "WHO NO GO, NO KNOW"  |
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slimnike (m)
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Please madam take the ones You will need and leave the rest for Seun.
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macgozy (m)
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@ SEUN A SLACKED PUSSY COULD BE VERY MUCH CONTAINED THAN ALLOWING MY WIFE TO GO through A CEASARIAN SECTION (CS).
YOUR HUSBAND IS INCONSIDERATE AND INHUMANE KNOWING FULLY WELL THAT A BABY EITHER WEIGHING 3.5KG TO PASS through THE UTERUS IS SOMETHING ELSE AND WOULD DEFINATELY DEFORM THE UTERINE WALL.
MY ADVICE IS FOR YOU TO GO THROUGH THOSE EXERCISE PROGRAMMES INSTEAD OF SETTLING TO SOME CHEMICALS THAT WILL HAVE AN AFTER EFFECT ON U.
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ToToChoper
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Ok, let's focus @ Topic. How To Tighten My Vagina After Pregnancy.
Probable solutions.
1.Shrinker (from Allen Avenue)
2. Alum.
3. Pelvic exercise also called KAGEL exercise.
4. Roots and herbs concoction e.g Dorot (from Maiduguiri), Susut Perut (from Indonesia sold in Abuja), Monalisa( from Abuja.
5. Laser vaginal Surgery (USA)
Any more, i left out?
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sartorius (m)
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rubber band
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caravagio
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Yes,there are drugs in the market that could tighten your vagina,but I am unware of there efficacy.I would advice that if you seek such drugs you should look into one of this local and international magazines.
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na wa (m)
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@topic
what the h*ll? you do not have to take any drugs or kill yourself just to tightenup for ur selfish husband no vex for my language to slacken you again and make you go through all that horrible process again.
is not ur fault that your thing is slack now, infact the fault is his.
the solution is not for you to tighten up your virgina, but for you to make him open up his mind to accept and enjoy you just the way you are, and be thankful and happy for having a wonderful woman like you.
good luck
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omoge (f)
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tell him to do plastic surgery to increase the size of his privates it might help his situation  KK lol |
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olrotimi (m)
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are you really worried, oh my its a sorry case  , guess ur hubby is a igbo, because their apetite for sex is so agressive  , maybe you should buy over i am worried dot com www.iamworried.com, because its up for sale |
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Pain
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Get A Stitch. Or Go To LA For "VaginoPlasty"
Anything Is Possible in LA.
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honey-love (f)
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it is quit bad that your husband is not considerable. ???well when i gave birth my mother made sure that i was well taken care off during bath. i mean enough HOT-WATER on my private part it was like hell in heaven. she said it will make me come back to the woman i use to be before birth. now it might be too late but you can try to as much as possible to sit on a hot-boiled water 30 minutes before bath. alway consider the exercises of LADYT in this page i also did so during pregnancy, i must confess i am even as tight as before. my husband confessed to me. please don't feel bad cheer up |
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Leilah (f)
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muscle exercises. Tighten the muscles for forty seconds then release it like you are having a pee. Do this a few times a day. I had the same problem but thankfully my husband had no problem with it. If he did i would have told him to get lost and find a mistress.
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Leilah (f)
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He is most likely going to cheat on you. Please monitor his movements. I am sorry for you. He did this to you remember. Thats terrible. |
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doctormm
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doctormm according to doctor mm natural herbal research solution in africa listen to my advise, , it may sound stupid to you , consider my first advise by doing exercise *2, ? make sure you contact ( iyabasirat herbal centre makoko in ebute-metta) or you called this number (08038081390) just believes that african is a great healing word in term of agbo healing. that is just my advise. , healing word, The pelvic floor muscles form a broad sling between your legs from the pubic bone in front to the base of your spine at the back. They help to hold the bladder, womb and bowel in place and to control the muscles that close the anus, vagina and urethra. When the pelvic floor muscles are weakened or damaged, as the result of childbirth , wish you you best luck, from doctormm ) |
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