How To Tighten My Vagina After Pregnancy

I really wonder why some guys behave d way d behave, by the way your husband isn't he educated?
He shuld know better

Yuk jeez! you think a 69 would help? I don't think so. given that he is one cold F***** he is hardly gonna suck it!!! he is the type that will only want his own sucked.

naaah thats wrong ! it can be done surgically

check out this site http://www.centerforvaginalsurgery.com/nyclabiaplasty/home.htm?zztype=ppc&source=Adwords&detail=VaginalRejuvenation

am sure there are many more sites just do a likkle web search @ topic

Hello Sistah

I come to help you and share experiences. Here in Brazil usually women do surgery instead of normal delivery just for dont feel pain :-)
If your female orifice is too large now it is not your fault, it is your doctor's fault. He was suppossed closed it after deliverance, here doctor make it.
You can use "pedra ume"(Caa Cashew Plant?)(pedra hume)(hume rock) put it inside the water and introduce in your vagina.I am sending the picture for you see, it is made of an herb so I believe it must have there because this country is rich in herbs and natural stuffs.
If you dont find you can send me your address and I send it for you
Also you can make a surgery, I have a friend, her husband was japanese and he used complained about the size of her female orifice, after she had sex with a black man and she found out that problem was not her female orifice , his privates were to small. Jejeje, Just a funny story I know it is not your case.


Hugs
Simi

Hmmm!   Of all the problems someone can have in this world?

@simibrazil
Are you a herbalist?  This concoction you are advocating here, is it the same as "alum"?  What other ailments do you have cures for? So this doctor left the door to the "vagina" open after "deliverance"? Noooooooooooooooooo!!!! Please how do you close this opening after giving birth vaginally?--- Do you mean that the vaginas are often ripped as a result of the child bearing process?  Just wondering out loud--WOL!!!

Take a look, here is the step by step about what i am talking about!
http://www.unizar.es/gine/parto/parto2.htm

Thanks for the education.  I just had to understand a few things about this business of cutting and stitching up the ermmmmmmm?  Since I do not have one, I'd  like to understand more about the subject.   You have been very helpful.  I just happened to stumble into your post.  Not stalking you at all.  You usually have interesting responses and I look forward to them. Thanks for the pictures--I love them.




And what is your business?

Real  P***Y threads amebo!   How come that is where you find both of us? What a thing to have in common.

Ok ok, anything else?

This Seun Sef, Na wa for u ooo, infact na real waaaaaa for u.

Don't u think u are being selfish too? anyway, how can I blame u when u are just a man, how i wish things can be turned the other way round "as in u try n give birth to just 1 baby through CS" maybe u'll have a rethink after u ve had the exerience.

Try to be onsiderate pls Mr. Seun (NO VEX OO)

So many inaccuracies in the thread i dunno where to start! Hmm.

LadyT is someone to listen to from what I've read.

Sues, listen, read and learn what is true. Knowledge is true wealth! Goggle is your friend! We get old and fall apart. Sigh! I'm old! You will learn they dont stay 18 for long, and thats good!

CS is only for births with complication or doctor recommended for a reason. Health problems and such. They are much more life threatening and may leave a scar. Painful I think but never had a CS. If like most procedures that cut you, the next day or two sucks! Epidural (IV drugs in spinal cord) makes from the waist down numb so birth is less painful. Always ovoid going under the knife until at whits end. Being put to sleep is ok,, IF you wake up! They put you to sleep for CS? I dunno. Avoid them both!

Herbs and pills NO NOT WORK for either sex. They are just a scam for overpriced herbs/vitamins that can be found at GNC for 1/10 the price. Maybe even Wal-Mart. All they do is increase blood flow down below. Claim to anyway. No scientific proof. Just good advertising and dumb consumers. Don't ever believe what you read on the net from one site. Confirm it from many sites. Maybe then its half true!

Vaginal reconstruction makes things worse 50% of the time from the complaint's I've seen. Many end up being more "loose" after the procedure. Loss of sensation from scaring is very common. Wife and I looked at this option a while back. Loss of orgasm did not compute.

NO! If no insertion the increased blood flow should make it all swell up. More blood flowing = more sensation. Tenting her noticeably usually requires lots of foreplay or something inserted.

G-spot is 1-3 in. inside on top. Only 1 finger is all thats needed. May feel like you need to pee with bladder so close. That feeling is normal and OK! Several other orgasm "hot spots" that most don't know about. IIRC, 7 total for female. Grr! Us men got the shaft in that department.

Maybe for those Martian girls. Come back to earth! The vagina is made of mostly muscle and will stretch to accommodate anything she desires.

Doc's in US just give you a pill(or 3). No pill for the condition, no help or good advise most of the time. Pill or surgery. Thats it! If ins. will even cover the procedure!

Watching my wife give birth was amazing to say the least. Creates scar(thats bad, dead skin) tissue sometimes that can make it feel different for both. If its loose and not scared all you need to do is exercise the floor muscles. Takes time, determination and persistence. Everyday until old as dirt. All women should do them for good healthy reproductive organs.  Pee leaking or uncontrollably and uterus dropping are from weak floor muscles. Many more preventable conditions also. Muscles lose elasticity with age in all of us. If not used it will just get weaker like any other muscle. Men have this same muscle and exercise is need for good health, better orgasm and avoid dysfunction.

Alum, shrink cream, potash? Huh!?!?   Stop giving advise unless YOU have tried it many times and can prove it!!

How many years did you NOT do them? Takes years!!! Squeeze 1 finger when inserted? Can you hold it in if trying to pull it out? Now do 2 or 3 fingers. Feel the difference? Ping pong balls are good to try and hold in. Strong floor muscles can make em fly across the room at will. No joke! Don't give up! They must be done properly which comes with experience, control and knowledge of your body. Many give up before they learn to use only the correct muscles.


iamworried,
Sorry for your worries but you are a NORMAL WOMAN! He needs to step it up! Kegels work if done right with time but not overnight. Kegalmaster is a product made for this. Also Ben wa  balls, barbells(not gym kind), etc. can assist. Myself is a good one. Shows your progress.  Medical grade will cost $300+. None are needed but may help.  If it is easy it more than likely does not work.

Everyone is of different shape and size, back to front, top to bottom, in and out. Some couples have sex organs that just "fit" and match in size better.  Most couples don't match cause life is not perfect and love is blind to little quirks. Some not so little. This is the problem your having. Don't fear,  you're not alone. Wife and I do not match either. Even before the childbirth. After that it was, you know, not doing much for me. At first experience after I was frustrated but then I started to read and learn from others. Goggle is great once the bs and facts are clear! Now I love her and her body even more. She's unique and special! No man can fill a woman over and over yr after yr. Dosn't work like that. She get "use to it" Then ,we get old, muscles loose there elasticity and ghen gravity takes over. 

Sorry your man is not happy but its his own fault. Was it like that when you first got together? Doubtful. Now he needs to learn what, how, why and the tricks to enjoy sex with you again. He needs to improve his size I suspect. That takes time also. Or the toy store  ************.(may break forum rules i dunno).

Loose is normal for all the sexually experienced and/or mothers. Tenting(relaxing) is normal during intercourse. Muscles get tired and stretched after a little while. Some only take 5 mins(bad) other last for 1 hr(very good) or more before it happens. 30 mins is average. You should notice this time increase with kegels. Its tented when quiffs start and he loses sensation from lack of friction/pressure. But he did it! Not your fault. Also normal. Sound of love the French say. IIRC, dilates 7-9 cm for birth? Then a kids head? All men are very small in comparison.

Both of you have work to do! Kegel are not only for women. Both of you, but mostly him lacking, in size or know how,  what you now need is half the issue,  i think. He needs to learn not to be selfish and he'll be rewarded.  LOL! A selfish man? Imagine that!

Easy as Pie
Begin by locating your PC muscle. The next time you urinate, see if you can stop and start the flow of urine without moving your legs or squeezing the nerves in your buttocks. Feel a flexing and tightening beneath your bladder? The apparatus that allows you to perform this move is your PC muscle. If you don't know what I'm talking about, don't worry. Try again the next time you pee. You'll eventually find it.

Once you've found your PC muscles, you're ready to start practicing Kegels. Follow these steps:

Contract your PC muscles.
Hold for a count of five.
Relax your PC muscle.
Repeat 10 times.
That's all there is to it.

8-10 times a day.
When it gets easy increase reps and hold time.
Make him help!

Only got to pg 4. Sorry.

 I can't be specific here so msg me for some real help. GL!

"The only way to fail is to quit trying!" -Einstein

simple - have more pregnancies.

  this might sound a bit odd but it all depends on how you do your kegel exercises. I have found that instead of lying flat on the ground, straddle a high back chair for instance a dining chair now spread your legs apart as far as they are willing to spread and the tighten your muscles for a count of hungred then  release do that for ten sets or as much as you can stand I bet you there will be such an improvement. Worked for me hope it works for you. Cheers

Geez guys, this is scary.

I heard that if a woman has cs, her tummy never flattens completely,  is this true?

cos truthfully, i'm afraid of doin it the natural way, wat if the exercises never work? and what happens after the 2nd, 3rd ,  child? Pls i need answers asap. Even if i ain't married yet, i intend to so pls ANSWER.

When my time comes I ll make surgery 

nice pix simibrazil! You are one sexy moma!