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bricksvill
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[b]>[b]He may not have said it the way you imagine. Complaining is better than going out to hunt for tight vaginas.< thanks and God bless u bro. u knw, he may not hav gone about it the right way, but the fact remains that he loves u very much to hav believed in telling u. my sincere regards to your hubby. please see your gynaecologist for advice. good luck.  |
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Jezzy (f)
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Ok,Simi,those pictures are scary.Gosh!
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Pappyjesby (m)
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I would suggest that you should try and see your Gynaecologist don't waste time in doing that, your doctor will tell you the next thing to do depending on the diameter of the vaginal orifice, becareful of the drugs or herbal preparations you take, let it be prescribed by your Doctor. Remember drugs can cross react, so, watch it. http://savepregnancyguide.com/ |
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fregene
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Wash your vagina with alum. Dat should do the magic
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richdadeze
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For heavens sake, your husband need to love you because of who you are and not based on sexual relationship. If your marriage is based only on sex, what will happen when you get old and the urge is no longer there?,
Anyway, my advice is find other things that you will to make him happy and once he is happy, he will enjoy sex with you whether your vagina is tight or loose.
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LilMama629
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ok mess that i wish my ex husband would say something like that thats just rude  for one 4 two girl u need to get u some back bone look at him n flat out say listen i just had your son ok if im lose blame your damn self n if u don't like it then u aint gettin it ,  you need to stop havin sex because havin sex IS NOT goin to make u tight no matter how often u excerise it i have 2 kids n im only 18 n with both if i ever felt uncorfotably i stop havin sex for a couple week do the excerise n when u clean down there feel ull kno when its tight or not n DO NOT have sex before your completly comfortable with yourself make him wait i mean would u rather be insulted for givin it to him when he wants or praised for maken him wait!!! i never had no problem like this the only time i felt lose was right before i had my son i ws in labor n had sex to quiken it yea not sexy but sont let him insult u huni itll mess up your self esteem you should NOT be embarrsied of your vagina it did what it was made to it aint made to amke your man feel special it ws made to make that beatifull little boy your have just look at him n tell you man no there are plenty of other thing u can do give him anal it hurts at 1st but if u use alot of lubricant n her works it in slowly youll love it n don't let him finger u either just play with your cliterus itll be the best orgasism theres also oral sex on both parts hand jobs n many other be happy with your self n forget bout tryin to make him happy for the time being, i bet n 3-4 weeks no sex n excerises he'l be the on feelin bad n thankin you n apologizin also tell him it hurts when he say that he needs to kno some thing are better kept to his self!! if he love u as much as u say he does talk to him he'll understand n if he don't huni that a sign!!
also i kno anal sex made me tighter don't kno how but did keep me posted after the 4 weeks i kno for a fact ull thank me n be happier with yourself!!!! good luck lots of love
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babe1 (f)
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This is the deal, you can stitch up your vagina after you have a baby but i heard that it is just on the outside and as soon as the guy is in there it is still loose. I have a two year old daughter but thank God for C-Section. I am having all my babies that way, it was not by choice because my daughter would not drop but the next ones i have are going to be through the same way. I don't think i even have the energy to push. I have a friend that is a doctor i will ask him his opinion on that. Tell your hobby to relax after all he made it that way by getting you pregnant. He should find a solution with you, afterall you are in the marriage together.
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merlyn73
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I love my wife more than anything in this world alongside the beautiful children she has given me. Not a day goes by where I don't express that in any way I can. She and I have been together for 7 years and have overcome language, financial, and cultural barriers to be together. This is the only person on earth for me to grow old with.
That said,
Despite the affection and unconditional love I have for her (and always will), our sex life has become a train wreck. The last child we had must have tried to drive a car into this world before the doctor snatched him out. Now if we weren't such naturally sexual people (American Pisces and Costa Rican Scorpio), sure we could just say "eff it" and just concentrate on the romance. But both of us are suffering over this issue and orgasms have become a rarity for me (not her as I use my mouth everytime). We both know what the problem is, but neither one of us wants to be the "rude one" who addresses it first. I would rather take an un-gloved shot to the face by a professional boxer than hurt her feelings, and she has that latina reserve that keeps her from mentioning it. I was about out of ideas when I decided to google my problem and then find this forum. I've seen alot of venom thrown at the men, some justified, some not.
Can anyone here give me some advice on how to approach this while bearing in mind that I love and respect this woman who has given me so much? Neither one of us is ready to just say goodbye to this part of our lives as we are still young and still very much in love.
Thanks for any input you can give,
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Benzene
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If you cannot tighten your vagina, the your husband must enlarge his pennis. It is a two-way traffic!
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Benzene
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If you cannot tighten your vagina, then your husband must enlarge his pennis. There are two options, so choose the most convinient!
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AmakaN
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your husband should enlarge his thing
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jassie
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You should sew your Pussy with needle and thread. Shiior |
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iamworried (f)
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@All
Thank you everyone that dropped comments and several advice on this issue. I never knew this my little problem would generate so much attention and views on nairaland, lol
I found most of the comments very very useful, other hilarious-especially those condemning my husband and asking him to enlarge his privates, lol,
I must say that communication has been a major tool in my marriage. My husband and i really talked about everything-from when he noticed the looseness till when he noticed i regained my firmness-i am all firm and tight now, lol
He was supportive all through.
We decided to stay off sex for about two months while i practiced the keagal exercises. I also 'sat' over a bowl of steaming hot water day and night.
The end result was amazing. Our sex life has been on fire. My vagina is as tight as anything. I feel my husband's privates in me and he feels the tightness as well. Throughout the period of the abstinence, i did orals on him-nothing was done on me. It was tough though but it was worth it at the end.
I still do the exercies and the hot water routine often.
I want to say a big thank you to you all once again because you guys have really really really helped in bringing back the 'sexual fire' in my marriage.
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spoilt (f)
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@All
Thank you everyone that dropped comments and several advice on this issue. I never knew this my little problem would generate so much attention and views on nairaland, lol
I found most of the comments very very useful, other hilarious-especially those condemning my husband and asking him to enlarge his privates, lol,
I must say that communication has been a major tool in my marriage. My husband and i really talked about everything-from when he noticed the looseness till when he noticed i regained my firmness-i am all firm and tight now, lol
He was supportive all through.
We decided to stay off sex for about two months while i practiced the keagal exercises. I also 'sat' over a bowl of steaming hot water day and night.
The end result was amazing. Our sex life has been on fire. My vagina is as tight as anything. I feel my husband's privates in me and he feels the tightness as well. Throughout the period of the abstinence, i did orals on him-nothing was done on me. It was tough though but it was worth it at the end.
I still do the exercies and the hot water routine often.
I want to say a big thank you to you all once again because you guys have really really really helped in bringing back the 'sexual fire' in my marriage.
thank God the vagina is now tight. Thank goodness. We can all go home now. |
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sugabelly (f)
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There's a procedure done by Dr. Matlock (Google him), the most famous and respected Vagina Plastic Surgeon/Specialist in America. He can restore your tightness to virginal levels. (Your husband will thank you). Arab girls go to him to get turned back into "virgins" just before they get married. It costs a few thousand dollars, but it depends on what you feel your options are. It's worth the research at least.
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Sweet T (m)
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@Poster Buy a teaspoonn of salt A teaspoon of hot dry pepper A bit of onion Grind them together and rub it on your thing every night before going to bed. It will hurt at first but you will get used to it and get firm !  Goodluck. |
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LadyT (f)
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Sweet T are you on drugs?
Please don't anyone take this mad mans advise, you have lost your mind,
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~Antidote~ (f)
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@topic By NOT having a vaginal birth in the first place. I cannot imagine why any woman would put themselves through that, when there are other safer options. Sorry, but my c-section would be scheduled months in advance,  |
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breath84
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I was engaged to a guy and before marriage we had sex mant times after some time due to some family issues our relationship was broken now im getting marriage to someone else he doent know that i'm not a vargin and i can't tell it to him. what can i do to hide it ? is there any cream or herb which could help me tighten my virgina? As i belong to Asian country my life depends on it, plz help me find a way,
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OgaMadam (f)
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Truth is the best medicine. If he can't handle it he is not yours.
Anyways, if your not strong enough, have you ever heard of those excercises they call KEGAL EXCERCISES. search
it on the internet in Asian or something.
I KNOW they work. squeeze your vagina tight like you trying to keep weewee away. then let go. do this as many times
a day the more the better. if you do 100 to 200 hundred everyday, you will be tight in a months time.
This is the best.
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spoilt (f)
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I was engaged to a guy and before marriage we had sex mant times after some time due to some family issues our relationship was broken now im getting marriage to someone else he doent know that i'm not a vargin and i can't tell it to him. what can i do to hide it ? is there any cream or herb which could help me tighten my virgina? As i belong to Asian country my life depends on it, plz help me find a way,
If he's marrying you because he thinks you have a hymen then you better run for your life!! |
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beyondpet (m)
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i don't think he knows what he wants for you may be he is lookin 4 a way out so he can mess around. watch him
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gbengaza
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what you are experiencing is not peculiar to you,it happens to most women after childbirth,you need to seek the services of a good physiotherapist who will put you the pelvic exercises that you need to do tighten your vaginal muscles. gbengaza -www.achieversideas.com
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Zamunda
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lots of pelives muscle excercise and also programme your mind that it will never be tight again.Whoever doesnt want to bang it like that,give him a boot.And remember all sizes fit its more psychological than physical  |
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Sisieko (f)
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Without using or taken any meds, You can hold your bladder, not when u have to pee though, its hard to explain but u know lik ewhen your takin a leak and u stop for a few secs, You can do that often and your muscles becaome tighter it works for a lot of people i know, Also when pregnant try to do a lot of exercise s when u deliver its quicker and no complications. Cuz the more time u speand it labor the more your vagina widens, And also once u have a baby females thinks its okay to sleep with here partners right away? WRONG? your to wait at least two months so the vagina could do some reshapening up before u start doing exercises. I learned this in my nursing class a while back,
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ekas (f)
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there's a sex position your husband can place you when making love inorder for your vaginal walls (muscles)to grasp his private tight.
take some hot spicy meals.
fill a bucket or basin with very hot steaming water,squat on it as long as the heat permits(please don't insert your body inside it,you only need the hot steam to rise into your private)this helps tighten there.
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basiko
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Go to any healthcare shop and request for creams that aids in vagina tightning and your problem will be solved
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basiko
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Go to any healthcare shop and request for creams that aids in vagina tightning and your problem will be solved
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SourSex
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tighting?
wish y'all soursex
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