How To Tighten My Vagina After Pregnancy

Definitely, good sex is part of a beautiful marriage; no doubt about it.

@Topic:

First, i would like to commend your husband for keeping it real with you; He's a wonderful guy. And for you to be out there seeking for solution to keep your husband happy also makes you an incredible wife.
I hope you guys the best.

My Advise to you:
Do not stress yourself over this, it takes time for your body to return back to normal (believe it or not, it may take up to 1 to 2 years) Hence, hang in there and stay beautiful and continue to love and appreciate your man for his honesty.

Please, do not apply anything artificial, let it happen naturally.

Just because you know someone's whose CS was administered by quack doctors doesn't make the procedure a bad one.  People are just afraid of what they don't understand. I don't see why people should risk torn privates in 2007.

@exu:

No disrespect, but if you don't like the topic, please move on.

Also check the dictionary for the real definition of a forum.

By the way, where are you from?

I doctor wont even advice u 2 av a CS unless he/she thinms thats wat is best 4 u 2 dat  moment of delivery. evey 1 knows Cs is painful and expensive and takes more than the time u would ever tink 2 heal up. Oga admin if uv got some experience of CS and its consequece, i dont think u will ever and ever advice some1 2 have a go 2 it.
  i would advice the poster to get advice from a gynaecologist

torn privates?

bloody hell!! didnt know seun is also a medical expert "encouraging" people to go for CS 

well, i dont think it should be the first option for every delivery

ypu should have Cs when you cant manage a natural procedure

And what have you said that I didn't say? May be you didn't understand me. Then ask!

@ladyT:

You must live in UK.
What is wrong with C-section?
This procedure is now very common and I will recommend it for anybody.

How can't you stick to what you want from the beginning if all is well with you? I said except there's a complication, meaning you can choose what route you want. You never heard women who say they'll have their babies by CS? You never heard doctors tell a women " we'll have to discuss the delivery options" ?


NOPE!!! You can choose what route you want if you're fine! Because the lot presumes the natural route should come first doesn't mean everyone has to buy this.

Why are is it not better than natural delivery?



Don't go yet plz. lol You mean Doctors don't lay out options if a woman is in good health?

Radiant a doctor will lay out all your options for you.  Its like buying a car they show you all the ranges.

Here is a snippet on the dangers of C section.  Please note there are also dangers with natural delivery BUT how would you feel about a choice you didnt have to make affected your baby.  Please read why I advocate natural birth unless complications arise.


Cesarean Births Way More Dangerous for Babies' Lives Than Natural Births

A recent study conducted by experts at the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention in Atlanta, Georgia found that babies born through Cesarean sections are almost three times more likely to experience death at birth than those born naturally. The exhaustive investigation of 5,7 million births showed that C sections are way more dangerous for new-born children's lives than previously thought.


“We are witnessing a growing number of Caesareans without a reported medical indication. This increase may inadvertently be putting a larger population of newborn babies at risk,” reported the researching team.

This could be rather shocking for the increasing number of women who resort to Cesarean sections today, even if there is no need for it because they could as well give birth to their babies the natural way. Nearly ¼ of UK pregnant women nowadays choose to bring their babies into the world through Cesarean sections.

The findings of the study should be alarming for the British population and put an end to the extensively raising number of women who prefer scheduling their births than waiting for the moment of natural delivery to occur. However, the scientists involved in the study state that the ones who should be worried about the outcomes of Cesarean sections are not pregnant women, but clinicians and policy-makers.

“The point of this article is not to alarm anyone. Women considering an elective Cesarean obviously should consult with their doctor, and this would be one piece of information that hopefully they could discuss. These findings should be of concern for clinicians and policy-makers, who are observing the rapid growth in the number of primary Cesareans to mothers without a medical indication.”

The main reason why babies should be delivered naturally when there is the possibility for it is because those born through C – sections are at a greater risk for respiratory distress and disorders. On the other hand, natural births promote healthy lung function in new-born infants by releasing hormones crucial for an appropriate breathing. Also, the compression of babies which occurs during labor removes the fluid from babies' lungs and prepares them to breathe air.

“One of the advantages of labor is that it stresses the baby and helps to empty their lungs, meaning they can breath more easily than those born after a Caesarean section,” pointed out Dr. Burnett Lunan, consultant obstetrician and gynecologist from Glasgow.

  I hope to be an obstetrician I will shamelessy advocate the natural way!

My first born was deliverd naturally (vaginal delivery) - my second was an emergency CS.
I recovered a heck of a lot faster after the vaginal delivery - after the CS I was in intensive care for several days and was only able to breast feed my baby once during that time - having my baby bottle fed was not something that impressed me, but what could I do!? My vagina healed a lot quicker than my stomach - which took several months to heal.
Personally I preferred the vaginal delivery - though I'm grateful for the intervention of the CS to save my baby's life. I wouldn't advise any woman to opt for a CS if she can safely deliver naturally.

take coco's advice and try those excercises she posted.


CS is not advisable except in cases of emergency. there are risks involved. But then some people might have different opinion.

Lady T, how many babies died out of the millions you mentioned?