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it is interesting that your husband is expecting your vagina to still remain as it was before child birth. But he must be commended for speaking up. That is the essence of marriage- communication;talking it over with each other I doff my hat for him.
My advice is that the two of you should come to the round table again on the issue and try to make him understand that you cherish his desire to have your vagina firm up like before, but that you need his help and understanding. I believe this is your first child. He should know that he cannot get it back exactly as it was before child birth.
The two of you should agree on how to go round the issue. Do not present your side of the issue as if he just have to accept it by 'fire by force'. There is need for caution here. Apply wisdom and show love so as to keep your man. Also listen to him and agree on what to do.
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Obinoscopy (m)
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One simple way is to delay urinatiing for a while. This way u will tighten some muscles including d bulbospongiosus muscle thereby tighening d vagina.
Finally make sure u consult a gynaecologist.
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michael Ib
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your husband is a sharp guy he knows how tight it use to be then, u can tighten it by using kaun to wash it lol
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kingsolve (m)
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Wow! It's been very educating reading on this topic Thank you so much LadyT I learnt a lot from your post. I think I luv my wife to go through th normal childbirth process so she can forget the pain after the childbirth. I'll save a copy of the excercise to do too so that we can ensure we go through it together. In three years time I should be married by God's grace and I want my wife to have as less pain as possible with childbirth. Once again thank you to you all for your posts, it's been very enlightening.
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Vuitton (m)
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Yes oooh  Quite enlightening  |
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C2H5OH (m)
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Simple: Fall in love with your Kegels
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supereagle
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Pelvic floor muscle exercise will work, in addition , go for a physiotherapist that can give you electrical stimulation, that is better and faster.Also , Garlic has been reported to be of help when inserted into the Virgina,but I have not tried it with anybody.
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idstar (f)
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cant eat your cake and have it gal. but the exercise really works(kegel, i mean) make it a part of your daily life, before your hussy starts chasing tight arse school kids.  |
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sexibabes
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@seun
do you know of the most common side effects of epidural causes permanent loss of the spinal cord meaning the woman being injected may never walk again.
which is better, torn privates or paralyses, am sorry for your future wife, the fact that u are an internet guru is enuff headache cuz u will be online instead of sexing her at leisure time and then you want to paralyse her, oshi
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Wumine (f)
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@seun
do you know of the most common side effects of epidural causes permanent loss of the spinal cord meaning the woman being injected may never walk again.
which is better, torn privates or paralyses, am sorry for your future wife, the fact that u are an internet guru is enuff headache cuz u will be online instead of sexing her at leisure time and then you want to paralyse her, oshi
Waoh! Thats a big one!!!  |
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Kenny_G (m)
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@seun
do you know of the most common side effects of epidural causes permanent loss of the spinal cord meaning the woman being injected may never walk again.
which is better, torn privates or paralyses, am sorry for your future wife, the fact that u are an internet guru is enuff headache cuz u will be online instead of sexing her at leisure time and then you want to paralyse her, oshi
oga ooooo, hmmm |
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elokason
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What sort of man is this your husband self? instead of thanking God that u gave him a bouncing,healthy baby and peacefuly too, with u life intact, he is talking about tight virgina, my sister no wond your self ooooh! Him never talk wetin him de find yet.
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blue-jay
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he man could exercise a little patience while his wife does some pelvic exercise. He shud not be selfish, come on guys!!
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shylean
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Suen, I dont know how much research you have done, I have done plenty and thought you might be interested in knowing that research has shown cesearen birth often results in painful intercourse and a weakening of the pelvic floor muscles. I was sure that having a c-section would prevent painful and less interesting intercourse, this notion was completely wrong. It is a fact that women who deliver vaginally have more blood flow in the vaginal area, this results in a more enjoyable and more orgasmic sexual experience. In my experience the more I enjoy arousal and stimulation the more my husband enjoys it. Just some food for thought!
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faakay (m)
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101856 views  still counting:::::::::::::: |
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hickybrax (f)
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most women where am at, after birth ask the doctor in charge of the NSVD( normal spontaneous vagina delivery) to sew them and make the vagina even tithier its a normal procedure done after a vaginal birth, cos while you were giving birth the doctor had to tear(episiotomy) you to allow the crowning, so after the baby is out they sew you back its called(Perineorrhaphy) is the surgical repair of the perineum, usually after an episiotomy has been made to assist the delivery of a baby and decrease damage to the mother's perineum and its structures
so even with vagina delivery you could still have a thight vagina you just have to talk to the doctor incharge
but ofcourse you have to know that after the procedure there is an amount of time you have to wait for it to heal
good luck
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Esiso1
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Tightening of the Virginal is possible via pelvic exercise, surgical approach and precise this there are lots of application out there for this purpose with no side effect.
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