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wego25 (f)
Need Advise
« on: January 24, 2007, 08:53 PM »

what do u do when ur guy keeps playing on you


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chillbabe (f)
Re: Need Advise
« #1 on: January 24, 2007, 09:07 PM »

I don't know the whole story but if u are good to your guy and he is still playing u then just dump him.
big_bumper (f)
Re: Need Advise
« #2 on: January 25, 2007, 01:37 AM »

Dump his sorry arse before you lose your self-esteem and self-worth. It is not easy to walk away, but you need to for your sanity.
Freewilly (f)
Re: Need Advise
« #3 on: January 25, 2007, 01:38 AM »

Cheat on him with a girl, guys hate that.
LadyT (f)
Re: Need Advise
« #4 on: January 25, 2007, 01:41 AM »

You tell him to go F*ck himself and you delete his number.  your mama and papa never named you mumu.  don't let this fool make you one.
white`Nkem (f)
Re: Need Advise
« #5 on: January 25, 2007, 12:00 PM »

I think Wego is asking for help to make her man come back on the right track, because I bet she also knows she can leave him.  That is probably the best thing she can do, but considering that she loves him,  here comes the problem.
Well gurl, just make a deal with yourself. Try your best and if he keeps on playing on you, then there is no choice. At least you'll have ur conscience ok because u know u've done everything humanly possible.
There are a few tips in these cases:
-change your lifestyle;
-be always gorgeous;
-use a new, catchy parfume;
-send flowers on ur adress with annonymous sender and make sure he'll know about that;
-go out more;
- be always very sweet with him;
-don't interrogate him at all!! for now, make it seem that you don't suspect a thing;
-> you'll see that soon he will start wonder what's going on with you; how come YOUR life is a priority now and not his and then he'll focus more on getting to know what u'r doing then playing around.
But once you've started this, if he's going to be only urs again, u can't stop all that, you have to keep on. Oh, and be diffrent all the time. Cook something exotic, change ur hair style/colour, buy new clothes, be sexier and more fashionable; tell him that today u don't want to have lunch at the usual place, but just, don't know, take the train to another city just for lunch or stuff like that. Make yourself interesting again. Put on a new wrapping and hit the market!!
samorijack (m)
Re: Need Advise
« #6 on: January 25, 2007, 02:40 PM »

 i think you should ask him what he really wants,his answer will be helpful in taking the next step, sometimes it's better to define things and not go on assuming.
big_bumper (f)
Re: Need Advise
« #7 on: January 27, 2007, 06:11 AM »

@ White Nkem

The OP said the guy KEEPS ON , hence it is not his first time and a girl cannot definitely force a guy to toe her line, her guy will not change tracks unless he is good and ready and it is of his own accord. 


Anyway there is no harm in trying what you suggested nor is there any harm in what others have suggested too. 
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