What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?

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LadyT (f)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #32 on: February 04, 2007, 09:36 PM »

Quote from: raphy on February 04, 2007, 09:17 PM
wazup!real man,
a real man is the man that remebers his wife n children when he is coimg back
from a long journey.
a real man is the one that tells his wife the real truth no string attach.
a real man is a man that tells his wify am sorry when he mistakenly hits her.
a real man is the one that love his family and takes good cares of his children.
a real man is not the type that will spent his salary on a brotel.
a real man doest hide and smoke in d absent of his wife.
a real man is not the one wit big bank account witout a good thinking.
a real man knows a real woman.
a real man doest comes home late from work n lies to his wife that there was a go slow.
a real man is the head of the house when things go wrong he will still stand by his wife.
a real man is very intelligent,trustworthy,cool in anger,doest boost,have a good sence of humour,a sound mind, love his family as jesus love us. Smiley Wink

Would you like to be slapped with the front or back of the hand?  How do you hit someone by mistake?
Omo Eko (f)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #33 on: February 04, 2007, 10:27 PM »

Quote from: raphy on February 04, 2007, 09:17 PM
wazup!real man,
a real man is the man that remebers his wife n children when he is coimg back
from a long journey.
a real man is the one that tells his wife the real truth no string attach.
a real man is a man that tells his wify am sorry when he mistakenly hits her.
a real man is the one that love his family and takes good cares of his children.
a real man is not the type that will spent his salary on a brotel.
a real man doest hide and smoke in d absent of his wife.
a real man is not the one wit big bank account witout a good thinking.
a real man knows a real woman.
a real man doest comes home late from work n lies to his wife that there was a go slow.
a real man is the head of the house when things go wrong he will still stand by his wife.
a real man is very intelligent,trustworthy,cool in anger,doest boost,have a good sence of humour,a sound mind, love his family as jesus love us. Smiley Wink

i bet with all your list u got no wife or girl.
LadyT (f)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #34 on: February 04, 2007, 10:57 PM »

Quote from: Omo Eko on February 04, 2007, 10:27 PM
i bet with all your list u got no wife or girl.

Bwahahahahahahah!!!  Grin
Bumshaka
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #35 on: February 05, 2007, 05:57 PM »

for me i think a real MAN is that guy who is very sincere and down to earth in respect of all odds. but i all what goes around comes around. you poin a fingers to someone all other four are pointed tp you. Peaceeeeee
raphy (m)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #36 on: February 05, 2007, 07:35 PM »

Quote from: LadyT on February 04, 2007, 09:36 PM
Would you like to be slapped with the front or back of the hand? How do you hit someone by mistake?
wht do u mean by that @ladyt Angry
Radiant (f)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #37 on: February 05, 2007, 07:45 PM »

Real men answer a question with an answer and not with a question  Wink
babadee (m)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #38 on: February 05, 2007, 07:58 PM »

What makes a real man?
Jamb question.
guess there is no universal set of qualities but i bet it must include being responsible, kind and understanding.
so what makes a real woman?
raphy (m)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #39 on: February 05, 2007, 08:19 PM »

i got a girl but not yet married Wink
namdee (m)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #40 on: February 05, 2007, 09:08 PM »

everyone has got there own defination,but i think a real man is one who realizes when he has made a mistake,trys to correct  it,apologise and forge ahead, he should b caring,understanding,enduring and responsible to his woman and family and also very handy around the house,no macho crap like am the head of the family I can't do the dishes or change nappies.He should stand strong,do his best to satisfy his womans needs.who knows I maybe wrong.
Macgreat (m)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #41 on: February 05, 2007, 09:23 PM »

You want to know what make a real man!   Holla at me and i will tell you or rather show you  Grin Oh no don't get the wrong  image because i use "show"
johhnnie (m)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #42 on: February 06, 2007, 12:31 AM »

the dfn is not far fetched; a real man  is that man dt loves his God and does 'HIS' wills, and loves his neighbour as himself. a man dt is able to leave good inheritance for his children's children, chikena.



however, i wonder why we av broken relationships/marriages from all the submissions i av read. it is like some people are bus conductors, pharisees who are far to see an saducees who are sad to see.almost everyone in the house has a concise defn of what a real man is; but', do we practise what we preach?
LadyT (f)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #43 on: February 06, 2007, 01:01 AM »

Quote from: raphy on February 05, 2007, 07:35 PM
wht do u mean by that @ladyt Angry

I'm talking about your awful list!!! you said a real man is a man that tells his wify am sorry when he mistakenly hits her. no one should hit anybody.  How do you hit somone by mistake!
Radiant (f)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #44 on: February 06, 2007, 01:05 AM »

lolT, you have time to even explain that to him?
LadyT (f)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #45 on: February 06, 2007, 01:13 AM »

Radiant be nice I believe even the mentally disabled need to be treated like everyone else.  I thought I should break it down for him  Wink
Radiant (f)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #46 on: February 06, 2007, 01:16 AM »

lmao. . . fair enough  Cheesy
Freestyl (m)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #47 on: February 06, 2007, 04:57 PM »

An ability to think about what's best for everyone, not just him. A genuine wish to make others happy, not just to get his own way. Being firm about things that matter, more relaxed about things that don't matter so much. Being able and willing to listen to other points of view. An ability to keep his temper, even under trying circumstances. Keeping a sense of humour, and not taking the whole thing too seriously
Rukkylove (f)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #48 on: February 07, 2007, 10:55 AM »

Well, qualities that make a real man is when he can read and understand his woman clearly and perfectly. And when he can afford his responsibilities like, taking care of the house Economically, Politically last but not the least Sexually. Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue
georgies (m)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #49 on: February 07, 2007, 12:53 PM »

nikynike, i think you are close to it. But that is what you want.I hope you don`t take advantage of him like most of you do.
bima4u2c (m)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #50 on: February 08, 2007, 11:21 AM »

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Hi everybody, i love your comment about the Topic.
The best girl i will marry i prayed will be a virgin; who is unhatched(i will do the hatching)
She wil be neat and not dumping ground of different privates.


I so much respect a VIRGIN[color=#006600]
lunafish (f)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #51 on: February 08, 2007, 06:03 PM »

A real man;
knows who he is, won't compromise his integrity, stands up for what he believes in, strives to be the best he can be and is respected by everyone who knows him. He makes women look at him and think "Whatta man!" Not just because he looks good in a suit but because we admire his humanity, character and the way he carries himself.

In short a real man has his shit together. And he knows it.
lunafish (f)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #52 on: February 08, 2007, 06:07 PM »

Quote from: Freestyl on February 06, 2007, 04:57 PM
An ability to think about what's best for everyone, not just him. A genuine wish to make others happy, not just to get his own way. Being firm about things that matter, more relaxed about things that don't matter so much. Being able and willing to listen to other points of view. An ability to keep his temper, even under trying circumstances. Keeping a sense of humour, and not taking the whole thing too seriously

Peace and blessings to freestyl.

As for you bima4u2c- are you so idealistic and naive that you think that being a virgin will make your future wife respectable? it takes a lot more than that. Marry a HUMAN not a HYMEN. You'll be very disappointed if you think she can't have an "impure" character.
uchetobi (f)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #53 on: February 09, 2007, 03:50 PM »

A real man to me is a man that is strong enough to handle the surprises that life tosses, forgiving, reserved, easy to please, fun to be with, God fearing, not stingy, loving, self controlled and caring.
Iyke-D (m)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #54 on: February 09, 2007, 09:24 PM »

Quote
A real man to me is a man that is strong enough to handle the surprises that life tosses,
forgiving, reserved, easy to please, fun to be with, God fearing, not stingy, loving, self controlled
and caring.

All these qualities for one man? I hope someone is not using this list to screen for their real man
because most likely they will end up getting a "fraud". Chances are most men you will come across
your lifetime will have SOME not ALL of those qualities.  Chances are they may be everything else
but do not believe in God, Chances are they may be everything else, but you won't see their
wallet, etc. 

I apologize if I intruded in anyone's daydream by chance, you can now go back to dreaming. . .
georgies (m)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #55 on: February 10, 2007, 01:32 PM »

first and foremost, Real men love Jesus and put himas the personality of their deepest affection before anyone else.Not undermining the importance of cherishing and appreciating someone else.
Brymore (m)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #56 on: February 12, 2007, 07:45 PM »

Gosh, LadyT, reading ur comment posted February 06, 2007 tells me you've got a very bad mouth, you are just trying to be polite which makes it worse since it is deliberate.

Anyway, a real man for me is what u make of it. Different strokes for different folks they say.
The person whose "salt" reacts with your "acid" (excuse my knowledge of chemistry) is ur real man.
oluwakenie (f)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #57 on: February 12, 2007, 10:37 PM »

A real man is superman. Wink Wink Wink
uchetobi (f)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #58 on: February 13, 2007, 09:11 AM »

 I want
Quote from: Iyke-D on February 09, 2007, 09:24 PM
All these qualities for one man? I hope someone is not using this list to screen for their real man
because most likely they will end up getting a "fraud". Chances are most men you will come across
your lifetime will have SOME not ALL of those qualities. Chances are they may be everything else
but do not believe in God, Chances are they may be everything else, but you won't see their
wallet, etc.

I apologize if I intruded in anyone's daydream by chance, you can now go back to dreaming. . .

Sorry 2 disappoint u dude. Am so far away from fantansy. I was listing the characteristics of my Boyfriend when I made that post…am sorry you are not man enough to match that
frankiriri (m)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #59 on: February 13, 2007, 12:59 PM »

Yeah right.
Grin Grin
LadyT (f)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #60 on: February 14, 2007, 01:04 AM »

Quote from: Brymore on February 12, 2007, 07:45 PM
Gosh, LadyT, reading your comment posted February 06, 2007 tells me you've got a very bad mouth, you are just trying to be polite which makes it worse since it is deliberate.

Anyway, a real man for me is what u make of it. Different strokes for different folks they say.
The person whose "salt" reacts with your "acid" (excuse my knowledge of chemistry) is your real man.

Sorry I have no respect for wife beaters.  You don't hit your wife by mistake.  And if you can't tell the difference between sarcasm and being polite I pity you.
Macgreat (m)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #61 on: February 14, 2007, 04:14 AM »

  Grin  Grin  Cheesy  Cheesy  Shocked  Shocked  Tongue
Omo Eko (f)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #62 on: February 14, 2007, 04:30 AM »

a real man licks am ass crack Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
JosBoy4Lif (m)
Re: What Qualities Make A 'Real Man'?
« #63 on: February 14, 2007, 04:32 AM »

EWWWWW you are so nasty  Lips sealed Lips sealed Grin
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