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enchantra (f)
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i know of a person in Nigeria who has a boyfriend, who is planning to marry his girlfriend who has been living in London for over 4 years. Now he claims that he loves her, No doubt! And he has proved it ( she knows that) but the problem is, He Also says since SHE left NIGER, he hasn't had SEX with anyone. she finds it hard to believe. Then she told him to have fun flirt around that if they are made for each other they will be together regardless. Can a MAN stay without having SEX for over four years? waiting for a woman he loves? IS IT POSSIBLE?
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Seun (m)
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About your story: Even if he's having sex, he wouldn't tell her. The only thing she has achieved by telling him to have fun is that she has made him realise that she is also having fun in Nigeria!
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enchantra (f)
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About your story: Even if he's having sex, he wouldn't tell her. The only thing she has achieved by telling him to have fun is that she has made him realize that she is also having fun in Nigeria!
Can you stay for four year, waiting for a woman you love, without thinking of freeing your waist or doing it even once in four years? honestly. |
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Seun (m)
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Considering the fact that I've been doing without it for 23 years and I am still alive - and many people like that - I don't think 4 more years is a very big deal.
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kenflavor (m)
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enchantra my dear, it is possible for some men to live without sex even for more than 4 years, what matters most is your determination in abstaining from sex. Some can find it very easy to control themselves while others can't.
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layi (m)
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You can live forever without sex. The body has a way of reabsorbing eggs and sperms
Temptations don't force you to act. U've got to yield to it.
yes u could say we are human but don't forget will power. You got it. Use it.
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Big Shishi (m)
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any guy that can do without sex for 4 years must either be a) a virgin in the first place b) impotent c) just a bad liar commonn , summertime when those gurls all wearin mini skirts n stuff, or maybe the guy is a bishop  |
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smartsoft (m)
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Resist the devil so he may flew, resist temptation
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Viper (m)
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Yes it is very possible. Somemen don't have self control, some do. Shishi, you don't need to be avirgin before you can practice abstinence, stop preaching trash.  |
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clocky (m)
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even pastor can't abstain from sex not to talk of other mere mortals
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layi (m)
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pastors are mere mortals. They are not controlled by the holy ghost. They only choose to submit to him.
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Rhodalyn (f)
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yEs!!! it'S more than possible!!! |
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Nosu (m)
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it is very possible, mostly when u haven't had it before .but if u have and u repent, it is still very possible.is just like saying is it possible to work in a bank for 4 years and not steal a penny?
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lakeside4love (m)
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i ve been witout sex for over 5yrs n am lovin it.
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debosky (m)
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thats because there are no fine girlz in igbekologi village jst joking 4 sure its difficult, but very possible, besides she told him to have fun, i suspect he might have. |
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clocky (m)
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@lakeside4love Dude. u must be dripping of sperm from every part of ur body. Any woman u nab now na triplets the results go be o  |
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Viper (m)
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@lakeside4love Dude. u must be dripping of sperm from every part of your body. Any woman u nab now na triplets the results go be o lmao!!  |
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Efani (m)
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not too long bfore he starts humping a couch or sumn
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twinkey
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i love sex so, there is no time limit for me. he can rock my world all night long.  :d :d |
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Efani (m)
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hmmm, do u hav any pics
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hot chic (f)
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i think it is possible its just that guys find it difficult to stop if they have already indulge in it but once again it is a matter of determination but according to Seun,the man wont tell you that he is having fun @ your back even if he is doing it and i don't think the lady should actually tell him to do it.I know 4 years is a lot but nevertheless,i just pray he doesnt missuse the opportunity.Gudluck.
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crazykid (m)
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If i really love a girl, four years should be a long time for me to wait for sex.
But as i said if i really love her.
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cnimo4love (m)
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Abstainance is not possible by the srength of the body it takes more than determination to abstain all u need do is to allow ur spirit to control the flesh .
Only God can give u that strength to abstain.
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anothaviv (f)
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Geeeeeezzzz, the way some men talk at times, i wonder if God made adam on top woman. its VERY possible that a man can stay without sex for a very long time. our bodies were not designed for only sex and it is not the only pleasure to live by. sex was created by man, and man is created by God through sex. its not meant to control, but to create a bond of love and unity between man and wife (yes, i put wife, not woman, theres a difference). @ topic let ur friend trust and believe in her man. if she finds it difficult then there are probably issues they have to deal with to hold a GREAT relationship. whether he has had sex or not is not the issue; honesty, trust and possibly forgiveness are more important. |
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Dynast (m)
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ve abstained 4 more than 5 years but its not easy at all.
had many girls that tried to seduce me but never yielded because my major prob if I may say is that I can never hv sex with a lady I know I can't marry
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ajayi1 (m)
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What you guys are saying is hot, 4 years without have sex. They can't endour it. It is not possible for them. Even you use ordinary one year na problem, now talking of 4 years. The only thing that can let them do without making sex is if the two of them are still virgin.
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efuah (f)
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Am a lady thoght but i know that guys can stay away from sex for a long time, even more than the 4 years we are talking about. being it virgin or has done it before. some guys can really abstain no matter the temptation.
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jesusfreak (f)
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em, em, em, is seun a virgin? |
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Bolarge (m)
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My lifetime continues song: . . .I will give God my lifetime,
if I give God my lifetime,He will take care of me. . . . |
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