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amber_ella
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Really?
We are talking single males n females. . . . .
Thus the reason it's an invesment for men. You buy her a few presents while you're dating, and once you're married, you get a lifetime of free labor. |
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madamkoko
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@ poster NO. N to the O
and a woman/lady who starts making a man responsible for her financial well being is digging her own grave.
Now if you don't like the Man and plan to only use him for financial purposes then its a whole different convo.
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~Xerxes~ (m)
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Thus the reason it's an invesment for men. You buy her a few presents while you're dating, and once you're married, you get a lifetime of free labor.
I am having a laugh. What's the probability that i would marry the girl i am currently dating? Blimey. . . . What kind of high-risk investment is that? |
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amber_ella
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I am having a laugh.
What's the probability that i would marry the girl i am currently dating?
Blimey. . . . What kind of high-risk investment is that?
 lol - sounds like you're wasting your money! I'D switch to a more conservative portfolio, my friend. |
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fidrach (m)
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@ sistawoman, You hv a point there.  You ar experienced one. |
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~Xerxes~ (m)
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lol - sounds like you're wasting your money! I'D switch to a more conservative portfolio, my friend. It's not about me. . . . . .It's about these serpents(girls). Guys spend and spend and spend and these tricks still break men's fragile hearts. |
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amber_ella
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Maybe you should stop trying to buy their love and they'll stop breaking your heart?
Nobody's holding a gun to your head. If you don't want to buy your girlfriend a present, then don't.
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~Xerxes~ (m)
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Maybe you should stop trying to buy their love and they'll stop breaking your heart?
Nobody's holding a gun to your head. If you don't want to buy your girlfriend a present, then don't.
I am not talking about me. . . . I was speaking generally about MEN/WOMEN. Woman would break ma heart? How? Me heart is not even commited in the 1st place so how does it get smashed? You gotta be kidding me!!! |
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sistawoman (f)
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It's not about me. . . . . .It's about these serpents(girls).
Guys spend and spend and spend and these tricks still break men's fragile hearts.
This is what I don't understand. Why spend and spend and spend on a chickenhead when there are great women out there that will treat their man like a KING. Up until i met my future husband all i kept running into were rosters (male equivalent to chickenheads) and I kept getting my feelings hurt by these men. My friends all said I was silly to give my man King status but my position was if i treat him like my King he will treat me like his Queen. And when i gave them King status if they did not live up to it then the status changed to peasant. A peasant is not who i will be with so they were dismissed. It really does not take you spending any money on a female to determine if she is of Queen status. You should know that from the first few encounters. Dont turn your heart cold to all women just slow your roll and get to know them a little better. I notice that Nigerian men tend to throw their money at women first w/o first determining if they deserve it. |
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~Xerxes~ (m)
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I notice that Nigerian men tend to throw their money at women first w/o first determining if they deserve it.
This is because Nigerian women don't regard Nigerian men who cannot splash some cheddarz in the chasing stage.  Money makes their world go round so a guy who wants to SCORE knows he must throw some cheese around. |
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sistawoman (f)
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I hope noone gets mad at me but that is exactly what we call chickenheads over here in the states. |
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stillwater (f)
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I notice that Nigerian men tend to throw their money at women first w/o first determining if they deserve it. . . .because most are ruled by that caged animal in their trousers. @topic No he's not. I have to agree with sisterwoman's first reply. |
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T@meD0 (m)
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Abi o!
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sistawoman (f)
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I was not talking about the men but the women. Not only are they chickenheads but they are hoes, if you will spread your legs for money then call it what it is. |
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~Xerxes~ (m)
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I was not talking about the men but the women. Not only are they chickenheads but they are hoes, if you will spread your legs for money then call it what it is.
Whores!!!!! You have just raised an interesting point there. Technically, u are saying all women are whores. The road that leads into any relationship starts from a guy meeting a woman. . . . . . .Taking her out on dates, buying gifts to impress, taking her out for lunch n sometimes dinner and finally getting her laid. I agree it is not directly straight cash-sex but then the end justifies the means.  |
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amber_ella
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Technically, u are saying all women are whores. All women?? , or just the golddiggers you choose to date? |
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~Xerxes~ (m)
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All women??
, or just the golddiggers you choose to date?
All women!!!!! Gold-diggers normally ask how and when to be treated ROYAL!!!! In the wooing stage, these women still pretend that they are up for splitting the bill. Look at it this way, when two women go out to dinner, they usually split the bill. The same thing happens when a woman goes out with a man who's just a "friend" -- each pays an equal share. But the second that sex enters the equation, the woman expects to be paid for. This is nothing less than whitewashed prostitution. I've heard many women say:"I've got what you want and you're going to have to pay for it." Such arrogance just reduces dating to a whore-john relationship. |
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amber_ella
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All women!!!!!
Not all women. You just need to get out more. |
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~Xerxes~ (m)
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Not all women. You just need to get out more.
I have been out more than the word itself. It's all the same thing. . . . . Some women feign to have more pride than normal but then once sex enters the equation, it bores down to the same thang! |
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onyinye2 (f)
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@xerxes
how do you know it is not the woman that YOU attract that act this way???
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stillwater (f)
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You guys still trying to decipher who Xerxes is?  He's a Sexist!!!!  |
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sistawoman (f)
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i can only speak of me personally. Just like my man takes me out i also take him out. But since we are not having sex until we are married - 9 days and counting. I guess I don't fall into this category. When there are feelings involved and the relationship is not supperficual then there is no hoing going on. A relationship is a two way street. If it is not then i suggest you run for the hills and don't look back. Whores!!!!! You have just raised an interesting point there. Technically, u are saying all women are whores. The road that leads into any relationship starts from a guy meeting a woman. . . . . . .Taking her out on dates, buying gifts to impress, taking her out for lunch n sometimes dinner and finally getting her laid. I agree it is not directly straight cash-sex but then the end justifies the means. |
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onyinye2 (f)
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may god help you xerxes
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~Xerxes~ (m)
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i can only speak of me personally. Just like my man takes me out i also take him out.
Naija women should borrow a leaf from this!!!! may god help you xerxes
Amen. P.S. Always endeavour to write God with a capital "g". |
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studio43 (m)
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@poster, what do u mean by investment? well, i will only say a bold capital YES to your question only if u are one of those hustlers out there |
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A3673 (m)
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i like to date on of u  |
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omoovie (f)
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Xerxes I pity the girl that marries you and since it seems you place oyibo and acata girls higher than Naija babes is it any surprise to you that all the Naija babes you've been with want money, maybe a little sex and nothing else from you? You are a disgrace to the few respectful Naija men around the world! If it is so bad and you feel so put upon paying for the dates and giving presents would it kill you to let the babe know that "hey, I would like it if you offered or paid for our dates more and gave me presents". Let's be honest with ourselves. A Naija babe would only spend money on a man when she feels he deserves it and our upbringing has raised us to expect that a guy provides the finances on dates and so on. I am of the new school that believes in equality and I have surprised my boyfriends with a weekend vacation and a gifts before without prompting. The first time I was in a serious relationship with a Naija guy and did that he said it was emasculating and insulting that I picked up the cheque. Now tell me what y'all want? Naija men as far as I'm concerned are mostly a very confused bunch and brook no allowances for error whenever it comes to Naija babes. If she doesn't pay 4 anything she's just after your often nonexistent money. If she pays she's being insulting and treading on your male honor. If she gree without too much toasting she is a cheap slut and u now have clearance to just mess with her and waka, if she no gree or gree after much hardship she's a stuck up bitch and will ever remain a spinster! GOD! I'm tired of Nigerian men! & before u nitwits that I know exist out there start harping on the previous statement let me preemptively reply --- I'm glad you're effing tired of me too so kiss my large, tasty African ass!
Peace!
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A3673 (m)
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Oyinye2 can u show me your self? am cool guy
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~Xerxes~ (m)
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Xerxes I pity the girl that marries you and since it seems you place oyibo and acata girls higher than Naija babes is it any surprise to you that all the Naija babes you've been with want money, maybe a little sex and nothing else from you? You are a disgrace to the few respectful Naija men around the world! If it is so bad and you feel so put upon paying for the dates and giving presents would it kill you to let the babe know that "hey, I would like it if you offered or paid for our dates more and gave me presents". Let's be honest with ourselves. A Naija babe would only spend money on a man when she feels he deserves it and our upbringing has raised us to expect that a guy provides the finances on dates and so on. I am of the new school that believes in equality and I have surprised my boyfriends with a weekend vacation and a gifts before without prompting. The first time I was in a serious relationship with a Naija guy and did that he said it was emasculating and insulting that I picked up the cheque. Now tell me what y'all want? Naija men as far as I'm concerned are mostly a very confused bunch and brook no allowances for error whenever it comes to Naija babes. If she doesn't pay 4 anything she's just after your often nonexistent money. If she pays she's being insulting and treading on your male honor. If she gree without too much toasting she is a cheap slut and u now have clearance to just mess with her and waka, if she no gree or gree after much hardship she's a stuck up bitch and will ever remain a spinster! GOD! I'm tired of Nigerian men! & before u nitwits that I know exist out there start harping on the previous statement let me preemptively reply --- I'm glad you're effing tired of me too so kiss my large, tasty African ass!
Peace!
Yet anutha waste of valuable bandwidth. It's funny how schlepps like u connect what people say on a forum to how they are in the real word. Thinking about the garbage u just spilled here, i think people around u should be sorry for your warped reasoning and lack of stealth. It seems cockroaches crawled up your bleached butt which explains why you are spewing prattle. Lookie, this is a public forum. I can argue for/against any topic. At the end of the day, it's a debate. If i feel Naija women are buncha gold-diggers on Monday, so shall it be. . . . . .Meanwhile, it does not mean i will repeat the same thing on tuesday. If u have got issues with your self-confidence and your aura, u can take a deadly hike or better still, play pentagrams with your vagina. I am sick n tired of debating with obnoxious momma pigs like u. Bloody lummox! |
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